My hands slow.
I'll get get close like I do it.
I can't that's back ended I think that was better than yours,
Uncle C back in the office.
Now in today's video, zoom out a little bit in today's video what I wanted to do specifically
was give you top 10 tips you guys know my tips top 10 tips on finding quality women
or finding quality men if you're a woman, making sure that the relationship cohesion
between men and women go smoothly.
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Because here's the thing, fellas.
You ain't going to be satisfied in life until you start looking for a higher up higher up
than chasing the bar scene higher up than chasing these alcohol craze goes, I don't
care if they're hot.
I don't care if they got fat asses.
They dance on tables, right?
It's time to start realizing that being different as being good, no, we're going to alternate
back and forth like we did in our previous video.
The top 10 things that's going to help you manifest this number one is going to be relations
that are not focused on sex.
Okay, I'm not a sexual.
I've said this and other things.
I've think it's funny A lot of you guys think because I've made semen retention videos.
You guys think I'm a sexual like, that's not how it works.
Okay, I'm still very sexual.
I have a sexual mind.
Like every other man, come on now.
But if you focus your whole relationship on sex, what's going to happen is that you're
going to turn into more of a feminized emotional man.
Why is that?
It's because you're now dependent on what's between her legs, her legs for your satisfaction
and fulfillment in men only focus on that normally women,
women don't normally focus on that.
Like, that's not something that a woman's like, Oh, I'm going I love this man if he
has sex with me, okay, I'll be out on that one.
The reason for that is because women don't get validation from having sex.
Men on the other hand, feel validated from having sex they feel like they were worth
something to spread their seed they feel like because they got that woman to give in
but the woman came with their ego I child so Sir,
I understand how women kid if you hook up with a man Do you feel like that you feel
good about that?
And that validated you know, okay, that's exactly what I'm just saying.
That's number one.
In order to have a smooth relation, you can't have it be based on sex.
Number two, alcohol drugs and partying is cut.
So meaning you need to cut That out, you're not going to want to go to the bars and try
to find people.
I have friends that asked me all the time like, well, if I go to the bars more will
that bring a better guy into my life?
No.
Right?
What so this guy can go out drinking all the time.
This guy can be hung over all the time you have to take care of his puking as the next
day.
No, that's no, no.
Let's think about this.
Specifically, alcohol drugs in the party scene.
If you're a man, and you're engaging in low level behavior, you're going to attract low
level woman, you're going to attract low quality women.
The reason for that is because you must find the face of fashion except that you're a low
quality man.
A low, low value, man indulging in low level behavior.
Like everyone goes around, right.
It's like we're sticklers, like, I'm a stickler on this, but it's like it's true if you want
if you want a higher up success for yourself to feel more masculine and to feel more fulfilled,
you have to really make sure that you limit the negativities
like we can't say that we never have like a glass of wine or something here and there.
Like Every once in a while, but we just don't.
It's just not healthy to go out and party every Friday, Saturday, or even Thursday because
most places has like, two for ones or Ladies Night or something like I was in that stage,
I'm sure you were in that stage at one point, right?
You, you, you have to grow up, you have to realize when the time is to grow up, be a
better person and not go and think that alcohol and drugs and all these party things are going
to get you to where you need to be one day.
That's not it at all right.
And the problem is, too is that a lot of men are really stuck still in like little boy
mode, they start to party in high school, they start to they start to draw a strong
correlation between getting drunk and having sex with meeting women.
And the problem is, is that if you don't ever escape that phase, it's going to be very,
very hard for you to actually find people that want more in this life,
because what you're going to find is hookups.
Right, you're gonna find that having a bunch of hookups is gonna put you even further behind.
Yeah, a man might be feel satisfied for those one night stands as you call them, but why
term, they're going to feel like crap about themselves because they can't get a woman
to stay around.
It's just a hookup and then she's gone.
She's not going to commit to it.
Right?
And the problem is, is that a lot of what that does is that makes all these channels
and all these men follow advice from people who claim that that makes you allophone that
makes you strong.
They think that if you can hook up with enough women, you're going to feel more badass and
like, now you're worthy, but actually, how does it actually make you
feel?
It depends what stage of life you're in.
If you decide you want to be a one percenter and you're looking for quality time with quality
people and not to waste your time and not to waste your time.
It's not going to help propel you forward, it's going to do the exact opposite.
That's number two.
Number three, I put health wealth and ambition focused.
You cover health first.
Okay, so a little background on me.
I used to weigh 30 pounds heavier than I am now.
And after I cut out drinking, and eating better and being more healthier, I found out that
Overall, it will make you feel like a better person.
It's not gonna make you feel crappy every day, right?
When you look in the mirror and you're like, Okay, well, I guess my cheeks aren't
sticking out to the moon, right and me being into fitness and me being into like self development,
like, I'm very focused on my health, wealth and ambition.
Like I want to make sure I'm prosperous.
I want to make sure I'm healthy.
I want to make sure I'm ambitious.
I feel like I deserve a mate that has equal ambition and equal status if you don't hold
yourself to that standard as a man, and you're just going to take whatever you can get your
once again back to that scarcity mindset, which is non masculine, non ambition, focus
and non rational, which is exactly what women do not want.
If you start demonstrating those qualities and those traits to women, they're going to
fleet so you got to get your ducks in a row.
If you get your ducks in a row, you will attract a woman who is also about that lifestyle.
Number four.
I feel like this is very, very important.
She has to be willing to be on your path with you.
Now you guys know that as a man you need to be focused on slaying the dragon, you need
to be focused on chasing your purpose, chasing your passion, chasing your vision, removing
distraction, and really making sure that you have a good narrow focus.
So that way you are successful and able and strong.
There's a certain level of confidence when you know that you have your shit together,
saying this wherever you need to find a woman who's also about that lifestyle, a woman who's
going to be very supportive of the work that you do, right one that understands that your
time is valuable, and your time is limited.
So anything you want to add into that, that covers it.
Number five, both parties not chasing other apps and cheating
like the population.
Okay, what I've realized is that this population that we live in, when two people enter into
a relationship, it's oftentimes a contest and competition as to who can cheat first
sort of starts to seem like it's like both parties are very scared to enter into this.
They both don't trust each other and they're both going to decide Who can cheat first and
it's a race to do that to hurt the other person bringing
the other person's ego down, right, and then have the upper hand and they
call that love.
It's like a false reality, it's a false reality, you have to start to break a lot of these
cultural social norms.
Number six, be better and carry yourself better and not
going opposite frame.
So meaning like, I'm a girl, I should be in a feminine frame, and he's a man, he should
be in a masculine frame.
If we switch it, it's not gonna work, right?
So she needs to remain nurturing and sweet and
soft to me.
So I'm just a big boy.
And I be strong and able, and dominance so that way I can keep building my shit, right
slaying the dragon helping other men be better, like doing whatever my purpose is.
You gotta you got to apply the same thing into your life.
Because if you have a if you have a weak man, that's not going to be strong and masculine
for you.
You're not gonna have someone to lean on like, girls need people to lean on to and then the
girl needs to stay soft and sweet because not all men are Going to have good days every
single day, they are going to sometimes needed a little girl to calm them down and be more
softer to Ryan.
Which brings me to my point number seven men have to remain strong enough even after the
months to come.
Now this is the one time I really like this, this this saying you guys not all either words
alpha and beta, but there's a saying I've heard in like the YouTube community or dating
channel, they say alpha one single beta while in a relationship.
Okay, now, I don't like to stigmatize men.
But I think this is a very good representation of what just classic weaknesses when the man
enters into the relationship like maybe he's strong and displays a lot of these confident,
fat like masculine traits in the beginning.
She falls for she falls for him, he gets more whipped.
And he gets he gets more whipped.
He gets more addicted to what's between her legs.
he slips into that feminine emotional state.
All of a sudden she pulls back he doesn't understand why she pulls back His head's in
a tizzy, she starts falling out of love with them because
she's like, what the hell?
Why is he acting like me like, right?
And now she's, she's off back on social media to find the next
and then that goes right back into it's like the same thing it just it continues you have
to have certain steps to make it to find better quality females and better quality men number
eight women need to provide nurture, nurture, explain nurture.
So women need to provide nurture as a woman needs to be that little figure two men and
be there for them and help them because like I said, not men, men are going to always have
the best days so I need to nurture them.
Now notice notice was to find a woman that will actually admit that and wants to take
care of you and be nice to actually like display soft, sweet, feminine characteristics.
You better not slip up on a masculine frame.
You better remain strong, you better give her a reason to want to give you intimacy
That's very, very important if you if you if you screw that up the whole thing's doom
and she's not going to feel that way towards you.
In fact, she's going to start to make arguments at you, she's going to start to try to move
you off center even more.
So lift weights, because you can see them all calluses, she's going to try to move you
off, center even more, and she's going to make your days even harder.
Which means you as the man you're in control of your own mood, you're in control of your
own emotions, rational dominant thinking.
Number nine, you say that I'll take over, bring God into your relationship.
So we realize not everybody's religious.
You don't have to be super religious.
But here's the thing is, it's in your best interest to believe.
No, I'm not trying to tell you how to live.
But what I'm saying is that if you can naturally come into things with the mindset of like
this happened for a reason, or this should be like this.
Or maybe the most high bless me into having a partner that I can grow together with.
Stop thinking these are weak traits, separate thinking it's week to believe spiritually
stop thinking this week to want better than what 99% of this mass destroyed culture wants.
I'ma leave it at that.
Number 10 can't run.
Not this is one thing I struggle with.
I run when I'm in a relationship I run if I'm seeing a woman from time to time the reason
why I run is because anytime there's a certain hiccup like you know me I'm very like I'm
all about the masculinity I'm all about you know, stand your purpose and your path set
those boundaries set that framework like like, don't no arguing no bullshit, don't let anybody
interfere.
As soon as I start to feel some tension.
As soon as I start to feel something's calling into my mental energy or my work ethic or
anything like that.
What do I do?
Out the door, instantly know what I'm trying to learn?
And what I'm trying to teach men is this.
Everything takes work.
If you're welcome wealth, your health takes work right your path takes work, your purpose
Everything is gonna take work.
So what what is relationships today it's going to take some work, you're going
to have to realize that it's not smooth all the time.
You have to be dedicated.
You have to actually be a dedicated individual, just like you are with your career, just like
you are with fitness, just like you are with increasing your charisma increasing your seduction
building the man from the ground up, fellas, everything's interlinked.
It was very foolish for me for a long time to really think that stuff can just be smooth
without working at it to make it smooth.
Right when you build a business, it's not a well oiled machine until you make it a well
oiled machine.
Like Alex Becker says a brick you want your business to be a brick, a brick you can throw
through there and it just is fine.
It will soar right through wind can't move it off balance in order to get your relation
to that.
It's gonna take work like what happened to your everything was
smooth with your Facebook ads, and then all of a sudden little hiccup like, well, if you
ran then would you be here doing this YouTube video?
Nope, we gotta cut this fellow's.
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