[Knocking]. I know what you're thinking. Okay this is what I'm talking about. Well, wha--This
would be super weird if we weren't making this video. Maybe you should be flattered.
Fine line between creepy and flattering Ben. This is it. We should talk about this.
So Ben. Yes? Would you agree that these days in particular there is such a fine line between
creepy and flattering? Oh yeah. The example we just had here, which was just an example,
we did something called deep-liking. Yeah I mean it's when you go onto something especially
like Instagram and you see that someone has liked all of your selfies, whatever it is.
If it's someone you're into you might be like oh, that's really flattering, thank you. If
it's someone you don't know that well, creepy. There's other stuff that could skirt that
line between creepy versus flattering in the real world. Cat-calling for instance. Whoa.
You know? I don't know. Cat-calling is pretty much just creepy right, it'd be kind of tough
to do a flattering cat-call. I, you know, I mean I think, I think it could be flattering.
You know? [Whistle]. Hey pretty lady. Call me. I'll be waiting by the phone. Okay you
know what? Uhhh, let's walk and talk. I think I need like a, I need a drink or something.
Yeah, let's walk and talk. Okay. Yeah. A little weird sometimes. Like what are you going to
do? Baby J, what's up? I have told you multiple times Bowlin--yeah--don't call me that. Alright
man, calm down. Just be cool. What is up with Baby J these days? It's so weird, he calls
HR. You think you're being nice but then all of the sudden you're being creepy. Right yeah,
you're just trying to have a conversation or be cool. Exactly. Hey Ben how did your
uh improv thing go last night? I saw on your Facebook page that you were kind of nervous
about it, it went okay? Yeah, yeah it did, thanks for checking. Yeah and I was, I was
uh checking on your spotify list and you were listening to Andy Gibb, was that an accident?
I love Andy Gibb. And you um, you went to elementary school in Florida. I was looking
at your pictures I don't think you ever said it anywhere, but I saw in the background of
this picture, you're wearing like jams--yeah--you must have been like three or four. Really
cute, but it's obviously Florida I can tell by the vegitation in the background. So you've
been checking up on people. Well it's what I do I mean we're friends. Online. Sure. And
kind of in real life too you know--yeah--but we are verified friends online. Did you look
at my livejournal? Were you making comments on there? That's anonymous right? The comments?
Yeah, but--no that wasn't me. Cool well, uh, it's good to talk to you man. Hey good to
talk to you too. Yeah, alright man so--I'll see you online. I guess, I guess so. Yeah.
Ohhhhh. See you Ben! See ya. [Knocking]. Hey Chuck. Hey Congs. So I noticed that you needed
a little cubicle decoration--yeah it's kind of sparse--I made this for you. You made uh--yeah,
yeah. I mean I love Stuff You Should Know and your work and all that so. Wow. Right?
That's you--pretty cool! Pretty fun right?--on Josh's body. I know. You could put it up maybe
there or there. Uh, I don't have any thumbtacks. Okay. You know what, if you want to take it
home, I can bring a frame tomorrow for you. Uhh, that'd be great. Okay. Good to see you
Chuck. Thanks Conger. Wow. [Phone ringing]. Ben, are you under your desk? Yeah. I've been
calling you. Yeah, you called me like sixteen times. Well yeah, we've got to finish this
video. You could just send a text, it's creepy to call people that many times. Come on lets
go finish this. Is Josh still here? No he's gone. Yeah. Alright. It's safe. He's a little
freaky. I know. Alright Ben. So I think I have figured it out. The fine line between
creepy and flattering is the number one rule of reddit. Be attractive. Don't be unattractive.
Bingo. The real question that we're asking ourselves when we say is this creepy or is
this flirtatious or flattering is, 'Do I think this person is attractive?' We figured it
out, okay. Lets hug it out man that was great. Uh, okay. Sure, thanks for having me on. That
was a lot of fun. Yeah. That was really fun. We should, we should make--yeah--more videos.
We could quit hugging too. I'm holding it. Cause hugs--is this what? Am I crossing the
line?