the greatest advice that I personally ever got was that "don't take criticism from somebody who you -
would not take advice from." So if you're listening like, Sir, you don't have a table so why are you
obsessed with this imaginary table that you can't provide? Welcome back to Neemah Speaks a place
where i empower women throughout the diaspora remember don't you know that a man being rich
is like a girl being pretty you might not marry a girl just because she's pretty but my goodness
doesn't it help with your host Neemah Speaks.! Hey lovelies welcome back to Neemah Speaks today i
want to come back and do a video and talk about 4 signs that a man is a closet dusty, low-value man
who will never provide, protect or profess for you and it's time for you to dump him sis
i said what i said and i meant what i said now before i get started i have to give out a few
disclaimer just because you're a man he's a high earner that does not make him high value your man
can be making billions and he can have these four qualities that i'm gonna be talking about today
that would make him a CLOSET DUSTY and you need to cut him off snip, snip, cut the cord take the
losses. Give out the deuces and keep it going so without further ado enough disclaimers let's go
The first sign of a low-value, closet-dusty man
the first sign that a man is a closet dusty and you need to dump him is that, he plays the victim
game. Oh my god nothing is ever his fault, he never take accountability for anything maybe he grew up
that way. He was raised that way, but if your man plays the victim game and
nothing is his fault. cut the loss. let me give you examples, "it was his single mom's fault that
his unhinged and he has anger issues". "It was his absent father's fault that well he is
more feminine and he doesn't know how to be a man". "It's his first girl, that he liked when he was five
years old that he is a douchebag, a cheater, and a player". He and his excuses don't end there.
He will tell you, "it's the government's fault why he is poor". His excuses and lack of accountability
and play the victim game doesn't end there so if your man does not take accountability for
anything in his life and he always has a reason, he always can point to somebody as
into why something is wrong with his life. He's a low-value man and you need to dump him now.
The second sign of a low-value, closet-dusty man
the second sign of a low value closet dusty man is that he asks you these low value
questions. he's obsessed with "the table". Now you may be like Neemah, what are you talking about? if a man
want to ask you "what do you bring to the table?" RUN! from my personal experience high-value men who are
men who want to provide and take pride in being a man will not ask you silly questions, "like what do
you bring to the table" "let's do 50-50"." we're gonna ride or die together", "we need to struggle together"
if a man is preaching or talking that talk you pack your bags quietly and you dip
it's as simple as that. So if you have ever had a conversation with a man who is obsessed with
the table. "what do you bring to the table" what the table and this man talking about what do you bring
to the table, he doesn't even have a table for you to sit at! I find it silly and disrespectful sir
you don't have a table. You don't have a table! so why are you obsessed with this imaginary table
that you can't provide? so ladies if a man asks you anything about the table eg what do you bring to it
blah blah blah RUN! his low value he's a closer dusty and you guys to go
The third sign of a low-value, closet dusty man
the third sign that a man is a low-value man is that he is just quote unquote
"misunderstood"! the world misunderstood him because he is just a nice guy
now this is a parallel to my video on "nice girls" where I talked about just because you're a nice
girl doesn't mean that you are a good person. If a man in his mind he feels entitled to have access
to a woman, to have access to her time because he believed that he's a "nice guy" I have
encountered a few guys where they felt entitled for a woman to stop and talk to them because
they believe in their mind that they are a "nice guy". Also, it can be a form of passive aggression
expecting people to treat you positively because you're a "nice person". it means you have no backbone
now you're expecting the world to give you things just because you quote unquote believe you're
a nice person so if you're a man feel entitled to have access to you, to your time, to your womb,
to your anything, you gotta run. because you don't know what this man will do to
you these quote-unquote nice guys you don't know what he will do to you. he might one day
snap and toe tag you. So what does "toe-tagging" you mean he might take that
concede to carry, pew-pew and you gone and you're gone you're never to be seen with. To me
nice guy who feels entitled and the world should worship them, it's a sign that he's a low
value man. He's a closet dusty. He doesn't have ambition, backbone and he is it entitled, little man.
The fourth sign of a low-value, closet dusty
the fourth sign that a man is a low-volume man is that he has a god complex oh girl this one
this this is it this is the main reason and the big telltale sign
that a man is a closet dusty you should be lucky to be in his present if you
hear a man utter those words out of his mouth that you are lucky to be in his presence run ladies run
that man is arrogant that man is even more entitled than the quran quote nice
guy because he believes the world revolves around him he believes he is a god
they become obsessed with kuronko's spirituality this girl back in third grade she broke my heart
so now i'm a super alpha man i'm an alpha man god speak to me now i know my boys
come join me let me tell you how to do these women women should be staying in the kitchen
women's job is to serve you only you can knock them up and kick them to the car but if he
speak anything that i just mentioned ladies run this man is arrogant this man is a narcissistic
self-importance self-entitled piece of shiza and you need to pack your bags and run
arrogant men are the worst they become gods who judge other people and how they live their life
if your life doesn't align with their nonsense they're gonna shame you they're gonna try to
tell you what to do with your life they're gonna try to tell you this is what you should do the
greatest advice that i personally ever got was that don't take criticism from somebody who you
would not take advice from one thing that i don't understand it's very fascinating that
there'll be these closet dusty's who they hate women they say women are terrible women are these
women do that and that and that but their whole brand their whole existence everything they do
is about women do you see how weird that is and disturbing that is these are the low value men
who have a god complex they will make your life health they'll be spewing negativity
and then they will have a cult following of other lost closet dusty who don't have the
balls to say these things remember my first point about them playing the victim game
now they have a zaddy that they can leech onto so ladies please please please begging you leave
these closet dusty low volume men alone now you forgot to do this so quickly scroll up hit that
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