if you've ever had one itis you know that it sucks you agonize about whether
she likes you or not you think about her every day at the end of it all she just
isn't into you unfortunately most guys don't even know
what a one itis is let alone how to overcome this crippling condition often
times having a one itis can completely ruin your life and have you missing out
on other amazing opportunities that are literally right in front of your face
most men out there have suffered from a one itis at some point in their lives
whether they're a high school student who just broke up with his sweetheart or
a fifty year old man looking for love after a recent divorce so whoever you
are and wherever you're watching this from this videos for you because in this
video I'm going to tell you the real reason why one eye just happens to you
science you have one itis and the cure for one itis so keep watching okay so
what exactly is why itís put simply one itis is when you've got a crippling
crush on a single girl just isn't that into you a girl or woman that you put
all your focus and energy into even though she's not reciprocating this is a
lot different than a long-term relationship or love whereas loving
someone in a committed relationship comes from a place of abundance and
genuine connection and it's reciprocal a one itis is more like an unhealthy
obsession the distinct characteristic that separates one itis from actual love
is that a one itis is one-sided and lives in the world of pure fantasy and
heightened perception it's a feeling you have over a girl who doesn't have the
same feeling for you it can take many forms such as your crush at work or your
ex-wife who's moved on the girl who just won't text you back the girl who says
you're too good of friends to explore anything more the girl in the coffee
shop that smiles at you when you get your coffee but doesn't want to talk to
you afterwards it can honestly be any girl that you're fixated on hoping she
feels the same way about you and convinced that you are perfect for
one another even if you have no evidence to base this on most guys have a one
itis at some point and sucks full disclosure I've had many one-night is's
but the worst case of one I just happened to me back in college with an
ex-boyfriend who I was with for only two months and was partially responsible for
me having a stroke so yes one itis can be that damaging and women can have one
itis as well sufferers from one itís become fixated on one person and believe
that nobody else in the world could possibly measure up to how perfect they
are in its earliest stages one itis feels almost exactly like the honeymoon
period of a new relationship everything they do is perfect and perfect for you
then it all changes and the self torment begins so here's how to know if you have
one itís one itis symptoms can vary from person to person and the severity of the
case is different however there are certain commonalities that can be found
in every case symptom number one you spend all your energy trying to figure
out how to win them over symptom number two you obsess over her to the point of
neglecting other women and even yourself symptom number three you read meaning
into everything she does okay so what causes one itis in order to care what
itis you need to understand what causes it and what's truly at the root of it
fundamentally one itis is caused by a strong tendency towards codependence and
an unhealthy self-image and a scarcity mentality here's a sign oh this low
level of self-esteem may not be in all areas of your life and may only pertain
to win it I have many clients who have a full life great job friends hobbies etc
but when it comes to women their perceived self value is crap and their
confidence is shot those that believe their options are limited will easily
fall into the one Ida's trap so how do you change this and grow confidence to
believe in a world that is full of amazing beautiful women and that their
abundant and reachable while you start by doing some work on yourself that can
be broken down into three steps so number one you start making logical
lists even if I tell myself ten logical things that can stop
doing something if I have one highly emotional thing that opposes the logic
it most often wins as a man you have this amazing ability to tap into your
logical brain and stick to what it tells you so you have to start using it get
under these paper and start writing down with logical bullet points about this
girl and the reality of who she is how you guys are together and how she treats
you get it on paper and then read it if the paper tells you that you don't
really have that much in common that she has a boyfriend and she treats you
pretty crappy believe that piece of paper even if she's just one of those
things believe the paper and go on to step number two step remember to cut her
out at least for now that means cut her out of your world unfollow her block her
number go to a different coffee shop anything you can realistically do to cut
her out of your life do it and then move on to step number three which is the
most important step step number three is work on you figure out your value in the
dating world who you are what you want and what you are willing to accept from
women this is what women want from men men who valued themselves and are
comfortable in their own skin and own their once instead of hiding
them a man that doesn't need women although he does want them in his life
the ultimate way to attract a woman is to want her but not need her to live a
happy and fulfilling life when you can master this you will have more women
than ever before just shifting this can shift your whole demeanor and how people
perceive you differently you may even turn your one eye just crushed around
and have her chasing you and this is what I help thousands of men do every
day with the wing girl method and I know it's difficult to do sometimes but the
truth is that if you make your own happiness
your first priority not only will you overcome your one itis but your dating
life will be ten times better than you ever thought possible and that's a fact
men who have an abundance mentality versus scarcity mentality will always
have the upper hand with women and these men will have women literally chasing
them and assessing over them I've seen many of my
girlfriends become totally fixated on men that at first glance
most women would tell you they would never date all because these men have
strong self-esteem and knew what they had options I put together a free 45
minute video that tells you exactly how to project a women that you are a man
with strong self value and that you can be selective with a minute you have
choice once you watch this and put what I share to practice you are quickly
going to see how differently women respond to you all you have to do is
click the link below in the description box or go to wind girl method calm to
watch the video now remember there are unlimited options out there for you you
just have to know how to start seeing them let me be your wind girl right now
go watch my free 45-minute video by going to wing girl method dot com and I'll
see you next week