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Now, onto the important stuff.
In this day and age, one of the best ways to communicate with people is through social
media.
It is estimated that the average American user spends around 40 minutes a day on Facebook.
And in this YouTube video, I’m going to be talking about how to get your ex back using
Facebook.
Of course, Facebook alone won’t help you get your ex back, but it can be used as a
powerful tool to help you get started.
And by the way, if you have any questions on comments to add to this video, you can
do so in the comments section below and I’ll do my very best to get back to everyone!
Okay, so here’s tip number one for getting your ex back using Facebook…
1.) Use the law of pre-selection.
If you aren’t familiar with the term pre-selection, then listen carefully…
it’s one of the most important things to know when trying to get back together with
an ex.
To best explain what pre-selection is, let me jump into an example: Say you’re a guy
and you have hot women constantly chasing after you.
The law of pre-selection says that any new women you meet will feel more attracted to
you simply because she knows you’re a highly sought after male.
Believe it or not, this alone will make her feel attracted to you.
And it works the same for women – the more men you have chasing you, the more appealing
you’ll be to other men.
This concept may sound like a load of balogne, but it’s a phenomena that happens in the
animal kingdom as well!
And you can use this law of pre-selection to your advantage when creating your Facebook
profile.
So take pictures of yourself with attractive members of the opposite sex and post them
on your Facebook.
You’ll immediately look more attractive in the eyes of other people, including your
ex.
BUT...and this is really important, be careful not to overdo it - I’ll get to that in just
a minute.
2.)
Show your happy, adventurous side.
In order to attract your ex back into your life, you’re going to have to show the world
that you’re happy and positive.
Your ex isn’t going to be attracted to you again if you’re negative, depressed, and
angry.
Nobody wants to be around a person like that.
So instead, convey to the world that your life is together and that you have a positive
attitude.
You can do this by posting pictures of you and your friends, by posting some funny videos,
or by posting positive music videos that you’ve found.
But again, make sure you do NOT go overboard, which brings me to my next tip...
3.)
Be careful not to go overboard.
Remember, you can’t look like you’re trying too hard, otherwise you’ll blow it.
If you go from posting 0 pictures to posting 100 pictures overnight, it will look extremely
odd and sort of annoying to people on your friend’s list.
Be subtle about this – a little mystery never hurt anyone.
If your ex somehow does figure out that you’re trying to make him or her jealous, you’ll
appear desperate and conniving -- make sure this doesn’t happen.
4.) Use Facebook’s new filter.
Facebook just released a new newsfeed filter for people who just got out of a relationship.
With just a few clicks, you can block your ex from you newsfeed so that you don’t have
to be constantly reminded of him or her.
Of course this doesn’t directly help you get them back, but a big part of getting your
ex back is making sure you don’t obsess about him or her.
If you’re constantly checking your ex’s Facebook profile, or constantly tempting yourself
to reach out and like a photo they’ve uploaded, then you aren’t helping yourself.
All you’re doing is causing yourself more emotional pain for no reason.
If you’re interested in learning how to turn on this filter on, then simply check
out the Huffington Post article that I’ve linked to in the description below.
5.)
Don’t post overly emotional statuses and updates.
I see a lot of my clients post really emotional stuff on Facebook in the wake of their breakup.
I completely understand why people choose to do this, but if you want to get back together
with your ex, then you simply must refrain from posting anything emotional or negative
on your Facebook page.
No emotional quotes, no sad song lyrics, and no depressing status updates.
Remember, the key to getting your ex back is to make him or her become attracted to
you again.
Posting stuff like this will only push your ex further and further away from you.
What you need to do is follows tips 1 and 2 in this video and make yourself appear vibrant
and attractive.
And if you want to learn more about the attractive behaviors that you can do to make yourself
much more attractive to your ex (whether it be on Facebook or in real life), then head
over to my website and watch the free video presentation at BreakupBrad.com.
In that video, you’ll learn the most common mistakes people commit when trying to get
their ex back...and what you can do to fix these mistakes.
Again, to watch that video, just go to BreakupBrad.com.
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