Uptight and particular, yet down-to-earth and reserved.. This walking-contradiction intuitive is
all about having a fine balance between goal-setting and enjoying life as it comes.
However, INFJs have a few things in this world that they prioritize above all else.
Welcome or welcome back psychos! In today’s video, we’re going to be discussing exactly that.. The
INFJs 10 main priorities in life. Before we get into today’s video, we’d love it if you liked and
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Alright, lets jump right into it starting with: Number 1: Personal Progress
The first and ultimately the most valued priority of the INFJ personality type
is nothing but simple personal progress. Perfectionistic and future-focused,
the INFJ prioritizes their need for self improvement in all areas of life,
often taking their own goals more seriously than the average person.
In fact, for this intuitive type in particular, personal progress is much more than just advancing
in life. Instead, it gives the INFJ a sense of purpose in life that they can’t find elsewhere.
Nothing lights the fire under an INFJ like genuine passion and purpose and it's fair to say that
convincing this intuitive type to do something with no underlying passion is nearly impossible.
Simply showing up to work to pay the bills or settling for mediocre relationships just
doesn’t cut it for this driven type, they need to see the bigger picture, and in order to make
the appropriate changes towards their goals, they must first prioritize this progress.
Number 2: Their Own Life
If you don’t prioritize your life, someone else will.. For the INFJ personality type,
they know this to be true. Because this type is so naturally attuned to put the needs of others
before their own, without proper boundary setting and an understanding of their own personal needs,
INFJs can wind up in a toxic cycle of people-pleasing behavior.
To combat this, they must learn to prioritize their own life; which most INFJs eventually come
to understand within their journey. Yet, even when this introverted type understands this,
they still need to intentionally prioritize themselves on a day-to-day basis.
Before making decisions, INFJs must first ask themselves how it fits with their own values,
energy levels and interests first and foremost. Are they actually making the
decisions for themselves, or are they feeling influenced by surrounding moods and emotions?
Are they quieting their own desires to accommodate that of their loved ones? These
are all questions INFJs ask themselves regularly to maintain this priority over their own lives.
Number 3: Kindness
Sure, most INFJs can say their kindness comes effortlessly and doesn’t necessarily need
prioritizing because of how naturally it comes. However, for this sensitive type to be in a world
surrounded by so much distrust, hate, jealousy and competition, it can be difficult to emanate this
kindness without prioritizing it. They don’t make decisions solely based on personal gain,
financial success or potential opportunities like most people. And so, this empath personality type
tends to put kindness at the forefront of most of their interactions and decisions in life. For
example, if an INFJ was in a leadership position, the happiness and satisfaction of the workplace
is much more important to them than short-term progress. They will always make it a point to
first balance and harmonize the situation through a caring eye because they know that everything is
more difficult when the consideration for others is lost in the mix. This priority is not an easy
one to maintain, but a little goes a long way, and that’s all an INFJ needs to know to keep going.
Number 4: New Experiences
Ask most INFJs what they want as a gift and they’ll say an adventure or an experience.
For this curious type, new experiences in life are among some of their top priorities when
they reflect on their life as a whole. While they may not need a new experience everyday,
INFJs make sure to prioritize their cravings for new experiences intermittently. In fact, it’s not
only about actually going out and experiencing new things, but also creating a life around their
ability to make these new interests happen. For example, some INFJs may be more inclined to have
a rainy-day fund or travel savings, for future experiences that they’ve yet to think up. They
may even go as far as creating means of income for themselves that allows them to travel while
working, or choosing less-mundane job positions that give the opportunity for new experiences.
If an INFJ isn’t constantly learning, they probably aren’t prioritizing this crucial aspect.
Number 5: Alone Time
It wouldn’t be a list of INFJ priorities without stating the obvious. This introvert needs alone
time, and a lot of it. Solitude for an INFJ is much more than just a preference or a desire,
but instead serves as an actual need. Whether they need to recharge their social batteries to be
ready for another day of being human, or they just want to ruminate in their complex imaginations,
solo isolation is a priority that can’t be overlooked. In fact, this need for alone
time takes precedence over their need for new experiences and kindness because without it, INFJs
simply aren’t themselves. Yet, in order to make this a priority in life, this introverted type
can end up sacrificing parts of their social life, possible career opportunities, living
arrangements, and even relationships along the way. Sometimes it can be difficult to communicate
this need, especially to more extraverted types.. And if it’s not understood on both accounts,
unfortunately the INFJ has no choice but to prioritize their needs.
Number 6: Independence
In relation to the amount of importance this introverted type places around
their need for solitude.. They must be inherently independent. And for the INFJ,
nothing could be more true. In fact, although the two priorities are so closely related,
the INFJs need for independence comes with it’s own set of priorities. Independence for the INFJ
is all about avoiding relying on other people, and getting as far as possible with their own
imagination and footwork. Sometimes this priority can seem like a pride-trip or even a distrust in
the people around them, but for this lone-wolf personality type, they want their life done
their way. They hold deep understandings of the things and people around them,
and so they prioritize taking an independent approach surrounding these understandings.
Plus, with introverted thinking as their tertiary function, it encourages the INFJ to be confident
in their logical conclusions while allowing them to efficiently come up with solutions to problems.
Number 7: Organization
INFJs are orderly creatures. They desire harmony, flow and basic structure in their lives, so much
so that organization is actually a main priority in most INFJs lives. Now, they’re not exactly the
type to alphabetize their bookshelves or set a reminder to drink water throughout the day, but
they most certainly have their ways of maintaining order. To some, this sense of organization may
seem tedious or even controlling, but without this priority in place, INFJs can easily become
overwhelmed by information overload. Simple habits like making it a priority to clean the kitchen
before bed rather than leaving for themselves in the morning may seem like a pretty average idea,
but for the INFJ, something simple like this can make or break the flow of the next day or two,
especially when we’re talking about the INFJ parent. And so, prioritizing organization
becomes second nature to them in home life, work life and even within their relationships.
Number 8: Advocacy
Often referred to as the advocate or the counselor personality type, the INFJ is
undoubtedly known for their desire of helping others. Rooted in their kindness and empathy,
most people with this feeling type are drawn to individuals and causes that need support and
instead of avoiding their innate obligations, they prioritize them as a part of their earthly duties.
In relation to the INFJ’s need for passion and drive in their lives,
this caring type luckily feels most fulfilled when they’re able to pay it forward.
Whether it’s someone in need of an open ear and some sound advice or it’s a larger team-effort
mission, INFJs prioritize helping others like it’s their day-job.. They’ll responsibly defend
against injustices and then integrate the lessons they gain through others into their own lives.
However, INFJs can end up taking these advocacy challenges personally,
resulting in investing more of themselves than they originally wanted too. This is why all
INFJ priorities must be met in conjunction with one another, for as soon as one receives more
importance, the others can quickly fall behind. Well, that wraps up today’s video PSYCH-Os..
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