now if your partner sleeps with another woman without you knowing I think we can all agree that
this qualifies as cheating I mean if you find a condom wrapper in his pocket and you haven't
used condoms together since 1997 I mean we got a problem here just try and wiggle your way out of
that one buddy but what about flirting with a colleague at work or a frequently posting fire
emojis on someone's Instagram photos or just texting your ex without your partner knowing
welcome to the wonderful gray area of micro cheating so what is micro cheating well it's
the small things that people say and do when their partner isn't around or sometimes even
in front of their partner they kind of dance on the knife edge of inappropriate or just
straight infidelity and even though you may never physically cross the line you're still
jeopardizing the trust and integrity of your relationship and unless you're just a total
narcissist or sociopath deep down you kind of know you're doing something a little shady here are a
few quick examples of micro cheating sliding into someone's DMS deleting messages on your phone in
case your partner sees them grabbing drinks with an ex but lying to your partner because you know
what they wouldn't like that very much so here are seven signs he's micro cheating keep watching
hey there Adam lodolce from lovesstrategies.com where I help successful single women get out
there and attract long-lasting love and do it with a proven strategy and a very important
part of this process is avoiding the type of men who micro cheat here are seven signs that
he's cheating number one is that he's always got his phone on him and he goes to such incredible
lengths to just keep you away from that phone I mean is he like a guard dog with his phone like
he literally always has it with him and carries it with him every time he goes to the bathroom is
constantly using it and anytime you look at the screen like he suddenly kind of puts it away or
even worse let's say that you're driving in the car and you need to use the maps on his
phone because your phone is dead but he won't give you his phone like he literally won't do it like
it's almost like there's some hidden message in there that he just doesn't want you to see well
chances are if that's the case there is a hidden message in there that he doesn't want you to see
and it's not a very good one number two is that he's not gonna share any of his passwords with
you now look if you're in a relationship for any amount of time it is Perfectly Natural for you to
know the password to your partner's phone just just because you're going to logistically need
that sometimes or to his laptop his email is kind of questionable you don't really need someone's
password to the email but once again like a nuanced approach let's say you really need it
for something very specific but he'll never give it to you that's where we might be getting into
some kind of gray area here of course we need to have a certain amount of privacy when we're in a
relationship and of course respect his privacy we're not going to go snooping but if you point
blank refuses you to let his phone or his laptop in the odd occasion when you really need it Ah
that's kind of a warning sign that he's hiding something sketchy out there number three is that
he's always liking and commenting on other women's social media posts this one's a really weird one I
don't understand why people do this both men and women do this but have you ever notice sometimes
if a guy that you're dating if he's commenting on other women's hosts on Facebook or social
media or wherever it is and that woman happens to be very attractive and he's very prolific about
doing this now look it's normal to have friends of the opposite sex and of course we want to let
him do whatever he wants to do online if that's his prerogative but if all he's doing is liking
and commenting on every single post of extremely attractive women then there's something a little
bit weird going on there if he's that flagrant in front of everyone can you imagine what he's
sending that person behind closed doors I wouldn't want to know now number four along with everything
we've already talked about in this video you're also having issues in the bedroom now be aware
if you're feeling emotionally distant with one another and he's also wanting to have less sex
less often and it's just not really clicking with one another now obviously relationships
they have Ebbs and flows and marriages have Ebbs and flows of sex and that's normal but if it's
combined with everything we've already talked about in this video watch out be cautious this
could be a sign that he's getting his sexual and emotional needs met elsewhere number five
is that it feels like he's kind of checked out of the relationship does it feel like he's just
grown a little bit more distant like he's just doesn't care it just isn't showing any interest
in you or the relationship of course it could be stress other things going on in his life or
it could be just signs that he's just physically or emotionally cheating on you number six is that
he's often talking about being with other women if he's constantly talking about how attracted
he is to every other woman out there but he's not giving you any of that energy now we have
a place to be concerned look it's normal to find other people attractive outside of a relationship
that is going to happen we're all just a bunch of animals anyways okay that's part of being human
but talking about it all the time and always putting that attraction energy elsewhere and
not into you that's where we start getting into this gray area of micro cheating and at
certain point if it starts to get really toxic you start to think to yourself like why is he
bringing this up in conversation like why is he doing that is he trying to drive me crazy and
the final sign is that he just withdraws from you for extended periods of time I'm gonna see
the type of guy who just gives you that cold shoulder or just doesn't respond to texts or
calls for days at a time these tend to be signs of a man withdrawing his affection I mean look
sometimes after an argument we do withdraw from the relationship a little bit or when
something else is stressful is kind of going on in our life but if he doesn't have good reason
for it or he's constantly doing it out of nowhere then he could be emotionally investing in someone
else or something else long story short if you're with a guy and he's purposely hiding things from
you because he knows that they are inappropriate this is micro cheating and if you notice some of
these signs it's not time to just let it go it's time to sit down and have an open conversation
with him about what boundaries are appropriate in a relationship and what are not so I want to hear
from you in the comments Below have you ever had a guy micro cheat love to hear from you right down
the below thank you so much for watching I'll speak to you you beautiful lady next week bye