commitment it seems to be one of those things that you get from some needy guy
when you don't want it and then when you do want it he seems to not want to give
it to you at all you ladies out there probably thinking why does life have to
be so complicated so in this video I'm gonna explain why and how to get him to
pay you and only you for commitment keep watching hey there Adam little tip from
sexy confidence calm where I help you create your love story in this video is
all about making a guy beg you for commitment so here's the deal have you
ever heard the saying why buy a cow when you can get the milk for free
if he is getting everything that he wants from you both emotionally and
physically but doesn't have to commit to you then honestly why would he so for
starters you have to stop giving him the milk aka the sexual girlfriend
experience meaning that you will sleep with him treat him like a boyfriend make
him nice dinners and give him everything that he'd want emotionally but you're
not asking for anything in return and you don't have boundaries set for what
this whole thing really is you don't give him any of that stuff until he
makes the decision and he makes that decision to commit to you so you
probably wondering how do you make him make that decision well bear in mind
commitment is really just a decision it's a decision to want to be with a
person and there are really two different ways that people make
decisions to commit to another person there's what I call external commitment
decisions and there are what I call internal commitment decisions and they
are very different external commitment decisions come from pressure from the
outside maybe his parents want him to finally get a girlfriend or maybe you
are giving him an ultimatum or maybe you have a timeline where you want to have
children and he better get off his ass to make it happen these are all external
commitment decisions that yes they may make a guy commit but he's not
necessarily going to stick to that decision whereas an internal commitment
decision is a decision that he makes on his own to want to be with you and only
you and here's the thing about internal commitment decisions they may take a
little longer to make but once they are made you will defend them to the very
end be he makes this decision on his own
because he wants to actually be with you and he wants it on a very very deep
level it's very similar to when you go buy something at a store if you have a
sales person who's like being really pushy and you go ahead and buy the thing
you're gonna go home and back you know what screwed I'm gonna return this
because this isn't really what I wanted whereas if you go to the store and you
make that decision on your own and you're really excited about that
decision you're gonna go home and be really excited and you're gonna stand by
your decision because you made it without any pressure so you want the guy
to make the decision to commit to you on his own so now let's get to the top of
this video how to make him beg you to commit to him well the only way to do it
is to stop giving him that milk for free and then secondly that being with you
has to be better than being single if when he's with you he's getting support
he's getting vulnerability he's getting sexual intimacy he's getting real
connection and he's getting an overall great feeling when he's with you he will
want to commit to you to be with you on the other hand if he's with you and all
he gets his nagging he gets judgment he gets complaints he gets negativity about
how you're never with him he's not going to commit you so moving forward I don't
want you to give any more ultimatums I don't want you to force a guy into
committing to you because of an external decision I want him to make that
internal decision on his own and if he doesn't make that internal decision you
follow the advice in this video then you know it it's his loss moving on I want
you to leave a comment right there below saying I deserve commitment no more of
these casual situations set yourself up for an amazing life of an incredibly
loving and healthy relationship and if you enjoyed this video and you're sick
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you so much talk to you later buh-bye