hey what's going on YouTube this is just certified life and relationship coach coach Court and have
you ever had a ex girlfriend come back to you after she picked somebody else well in today's
video I'm gonna tell you what to do when she comes back from the rebound guy thank you for sticking
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now I know what you guys are going to say why on earth would you want your girlfriend back ex
girlfriend back if she's picked another guy but the truth of the matter is a lot of men do and
I have an email from a guy that I'm doing some coaching with a 24 year old guy from California
he wants to know exactly what to do now his ex-girlfriend has came back from the guy that
she chose but before I get into that if you are interested in my email coaching please email me
at my website www.fruitfulseedz.com and keep your emails two to three paragraphs long no more than
500 words because it's really tough to respond to longer emails when she comes back the first
thing you want to do is keep working on yourself what tends to happen when they decide to come back
we fall apart we stop working on ourself we start to focus more on the person because we don't want
to mess up again and make her feel as if you're not really that interested in her but it's the
exact opposite when you stay in purpose and you continue to work on yourself it's gonna
make her more attracted to you it's only when you started to get really clingy and fall apart that
she feels like you haven't changed and you're the same person because chances are there was
something that you did when you with her to make her lose her attraction for you to make her feel
like you're just not a masculine centered person so if you were to get clingy and get needy again
she's probably going to lose attraction for you just as fast as she did the last time scientific
studies show that women are more attracted to men whose feelings are unclear so if you are chasing
after her she knows she's got you and if you chase after her more she's gonna get bored and annoyed
with you so let her do the majority of the chase because guess what if she went to another guy
she's got to earn another chance with you she's on probation just as much as you are the next
thing you want to do is not act cold and like you have some kind of resentment or saltiness
to you because when you start to act salty then she's gonna feel like you're still bitter and you
haven't let go of the past and that's what you have to do you have to let go to past in order
to start something new chances are if she came back to you she felt as if you were a valuable
person in her life and the people that she started to date and other guys that she started to talk
to they weren't you so if anything you should be excited about that patting yourself on the
back and not upset you showed her your worth it took her to date other guys to understand your
worth and that's a win for you that's a victory I don't know why you would get upset about that you
have to be able to detach your emotions and bitterness about that because you're a high
value person in her eyes and she wants to give the thing another chance and just see where it
can go when she comes back you have to start the courtship all over you get no brownie points you
get no extra bonus credits for the things that you did in the past because what a woman feels
right now she's not gonna feel five minutes or five months five years from now what you did in
the past doesn't mean anything you have to start the courtship and attraction all over again this
is a tough one for men because we feel as if we can do something for a woman we can give her a
Valentine's Day gift order the best Christmas gift or propose to her and give her a wedding ring and
like we've got her for the rest of our life but that's just not the case you have to start the
courtship all over again you have to do things to make her more attracted to you it's like you
really hit the reset button and you have to look at it that way don't bring up any negative things
that happen in the past don't try to uncover those wounds that you guys had in the past you want her
to associate happy loving feelings with you not drama negativity and things that are just gonna
drain her because women they are they operate from an emotional standpoint and if they're
getting drained by the person that they're in a relationship with they're not going to see it
as something that they want to continue so if you found this video of any value please like comment
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