Hi there!
It's Clay with modernlove.life and in this video I'm going to tell you what are the chances
of getting your ex back.
Okay, so it's not just like a clear cut thing and it's not just a matter of putting a series
of factors into a love of Tron 3000 computer that I happened to have in my closet and it
prints out one of those like perforated edge printer things that they have in, you know,
love of Tron 3000 machines and it tells you where your odds of getting back together with
your ex or 72.8%.
It's not like that.
Right?
Because what you have to keep in mind is that your odds of getting back together with your
ex are directly proportionate to your level of investment in the process.
Right?
It's just like your odds of having a gym membership work for you depends on how committed you
are to going to the gym.
You know, if you're a kind of halfhearted about going to the gym and you're like, well,
you know, if there's nothing good on TV and if there's not like a pizza that magically
appears in front of me, then sure, maybe I'll go to the gym.
Chances are you're probably not going to get in shape very fast, but if you're just like,
nope, that's it.
I'm going to the gym every day.
I don't care if the best show in the whole world is on.
I don't care if there's, you know, Mcdonald's and junk food and pizza and all that stuff,
I am going to the gym and I am going to get my killer bod.
Then you are much, much, much more likely to succeed in actually having the gym work
for you.
Right?
So it's in this same way that your level of investment in the process of getting back
together with your ex very highly determines.
The chances that you get that is to say you determine the chances of getting back together
with your ex.
You are the biggest factor.
If you're half hearted about it, you will have very low chances of getting back to you
with your ex.
If you are very committed to it, if you were willing to do whatever it takes, if you're
willing to push through those hard times, those obstacles, those challenges, those sticking
points, those roadblocks, then you absolutely can get back together with your ex.
You absolutely can pull through when things get tough and you will have what it takes
to get back together, but if you are not that committed, your chances are going to be much
less so I hope this helps you understand that you are actually the primary driver in getting
back together with your ex.
It doesn't matter if your ex is no rebound relationship.
If you are not committed, it's not going to happen.
If you are committed, it is much more likely to happen.
It doesn't matter if your ex lives a long ways away.
It doesn't matter if you are not committed because it's probably not going to happen.
If you are committed, it's much more likely to happen.
It doesn't matter if you're ex says that they hate your guts because if you are not committed,
if you're just half hearted about it, then you're probably not going be able to make
things work.
Sorry, just the truth.
And if you are committed to making things work and you are much more likely to get through
to your ex and work through all of their emotions together and be able to come back together
again.
Okay.
So these are just a couple of examples, but I think you get the point.
If you are committed to really getting through to your ex to having high quality emotional
interactions with your ex to connecting on an emotional level with your ex, to having
a satisfying relationship with your ex, to getting a fresh start with your ex, then it
is much, much, much, much, much, much more likely that you are going to get back together
with your ex than if you're just half hearted about it.
If you're just kind of, Eh, we'll see whatever you know.
So don't cut yourself some slack when it comes through this.
Don't think that it's just all about external stuff.
It really depends on you and if you are willing to do what it takes to have a positive connection
with your ex because having a positive connection with your ex is the most important thing when
it comes to them wanting to get back together with you.
If the interactions between the two of you feel good, then they will cut you so much
slack.
They will move mountains to get back together with you.
If interacting with you just feels good.
If there a strong emotional connection, they will put up with so much.
If it just feels good.
So what should you do from here?
If you're watching this video on our website modernlove.life, go down below.
There's a link down there.
You can go ahead and click on it.
It'll take you to a page that will tell you more about how you can have these positive
interactions with your ex, these positive emotional connections with your ex.
Okay?
And if you apply yourself genuinely and earnestly to what we teach, then you actually have a
pretty good chance of getting back together with your ex.
You have a pretty good chance of being able to pull through those obstacles, those setbacks,
those challenges, those heartbreaks, those sticking points that might show up.
Okay.
But if you're just half hearted about it doesn't matter if you have the best tools or the best
chances are the best odds or anything like that because your odds are basically zero
because when the going gets tough, you'll probably give up.
Okay?
So anyway, that's done below.
If you're over on, uh, youtube.com, just go ahead and click on a link down below in the
description.
Instead of taking you to a special page on our website, that'll take you to a different
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You can go ahead and sign up for our email newsletter there by telling us a little bit
about your situation with your ex.
It'll take like 30 seconds to just fill out this totally painless questionnaire.
And then what you can do is you'll just start to get some tips, advice, and strategies from
me that will help you make a quality connection with your accent.
Again, whether you're on the website or on Youtube, all of that is down below this video.
Anyway, this has been Clay with Relationship Inner Game and modernlove.life.
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