Hey guys, Beardy and Kay here from Mantelligence, And today we’re going to show you 5 mind-blowing
alpha male body language tricks that are certain to make your crush notice you.
We’re talking really notice you - like mouth agape deep sigh in your general direction
- notice you.
Kay, you alright?
Huh?
Oh yea, I’m good Beardy.
Fellas, if you’ve ever been frustrated trying to figure out how to get a girl to like you,
We’re going to show you exactly how to be more confident and get more girls in today’s
video.
And because there’s no time to waste, and we know you deserve a hot date this weekend,
We’re also going to cover the one thing that wannabe alpha guys mistakenly do that
real alpha guys never do.
5. Hijack Your Gray Matter
Guys, you wanna know one of the best body
language tricks to make her chase you?
This is one of the best kept secrets, normally passed down from mentor to mentee.
Fellas, here’s the irrefutable truth.
Communicating effectively through body language is 90 percent mental.
And that’s why this trick involves hijacking your gray matter.
In reality, the girl you wish would notice you, the beautiful smile across the room you’re
dying to talk to … well, she makes you so nervous you wanna poop your pants.
But if you stop and think about it, there’s absolutely no logical reason for a stranger
to make you feel a certain way.
So the trick is simply this: convince your brain the girl of interest is a non-threat.
Maybe you approach her with the mentality that you’re unavailable and couldn’t possibly
be interested in her ‘like that.’
Or maybe you approach her with the mindset that she’s a good friend or acquaintance.
Either way, you trick your brain into believing that there’s no reason to be anxious and
you begin to act like a man with nothing to lose.
And that mindset will instantly transmit boundless amounts of confidence through your alpha male
body language.
And that’s exactly how you should approach every girl in the room like an alpha male.
4. Be Zen and Focus
But guys, you wanna know how to be the absolute
most attractive alpha?
I’m talking straight up unicorn status.
This is one of the best tricks to get girls to chase you,
And if you can master this, all the girls will be talking about you.
But here’s what makes it the holy grail of alpha male body language attraction secrets.
It has nothing to do with whether you’re packing a six pack of rock hard abs or a 6-pack
of PBR above your waist line.
It has nothing to do with the size of your biceps, the color of your eyes, or your hairstyle.
And yet so many guys epically fail at this one body language trick and so few can actually
execute it well.
In a world of constant and infinite distractions, things really smart people refer to as ‘information
pollution,’ researchers are discovering that more and more adults are suffering from
shorter and shorter attention spans.
That’s why you find yourself getting bored during movies and mindlessly scrolling through
the same 3-4 apps.
And in the dating world, a guy’s inability to focus on the girl in front of him can be
an instant turn off.
Because your lack of ability to focus and listen makes it seem like you’re not interested
and you’d rather be somewhere else.
But if you can dismiss all the common distractions, be present, and not divide your attention
and energy during a conversation, Guys, I promise you will make a great impression
that she will not be able to forget Because the truth is that attention is a lost
art.
3. Dude, Stop Staring
Fellas, while you’re making googly eyes
and giving her your focused attention, be mindful not to overdo it.
You want to be the Tai Chi Master of alpha male body language examples, graceful but
powerfully effective and not the brute force wannabe alpha.
You’ve all heard the mystical advice that eye contact can be powerfully magical.
But if you’re making eye contact and find yourself staring deep into her fiery soul,
you’re not making playful eye contact.
Instead, you’re staring like a crazy clown at a carnival, aaaaaaaaand it’s frightening.
And this all too common mistake is one of the things high value men will never do to
turn off women.
You wanna know what else alpha males never do?
Check out this other video, ‘5 Things High Value Men Never Do to Turn Off Women.’
Hey guys, while you’re figuring out all the do’s and dont’s of attracting women
with the most effective alpha male body language flirting techniques,
Don’t forget that at the end of this video, we’re going to share with you the #1 epic
fail most guys make That true alpha males know will turn off every
woman.
So stay tuned ‘til the end to make sure you’re reeling her in and not chasing her
away.
Now, back to the last 2 items on our list.
2. Fight the Friendzone
Guys, in your attempts to be super confident
and cool, laid back and approachable, have you ever found yourself dipping off the deep
end of the nonchalant alpha male spectrum And slipping uncontrollably into the dreaded
friend zone?
Aaaaaaah!
How the heck did that happen?
Well, I’ll tell you how.
Fellahs, this is exactly how to stop being the nice guy, so you never have to tolerate
being pinned down in the loser stadium - AKA, the friend zone - ever again.
The nonchalant alpha never makes these body language mistakes:
He never, ever leans in during a conversation and stays there.
If you’re gonna lean in, do it to build interest and tension, then, immediately pull
away and draw her in instead; He always keeps his body open by never crossing
his arms or legs; And he listens intently and maybe even offers
friendly advice, but he’s extremely careful to steer way clear of a fatherly tone.
Let’s do our best to avoid any daddy-issues here.
If you’ve ever dated a younger woman, you’ve definitely made this mistake before probably
without even noticing.
And it’s such a huge mistake because what you’re implying is that you’re there for
her emotional needs but not necessarily her physical needs.
And we all know that’s not the truth.
So here’s how to get back on track.
If you sense that you’re drifting into the friend zone, don’t be a passive bystander
and let it happen.
Instead, make an intentional effort to insert playful reminders that you’re interested
in being more than her friend.
And the most effective body language trick to accomplish this is to use non-aggressive
and playful touch alongside a clever and flirtatious compliment.
This act is sure to set her straight to thinking you might be the guy, no a guy that she talks
to about all the others.
So the next time you see the friendzone coming in hot, genty take her hand or touch her arm,
look her in the eyes, and tell her something no friend would ever say.
1. Be the Boo, not the Bud
While you’re diligently avoiding the friendzone
like the plague, it’s easy to get a little lost in the shuffle between being nice and
being alpha, confident, and ultimately attractive.
Most guys simply tire out while trying to walk that fine line and default to being nice
because, frankly, it’s easier.
But this tactic does not get the girl.
And we know what you’re thinking: “well, what if I play it safe, stay in her good graces,
and wait patiently for her to get tired of all the other guys.
Maybe then she’ll notice me.”
Guys, that’s the biggest losing strategy in the history of courtship.
Of course you should be nice, but don’t be the nice guy.
Let me clarify.
You should always be a good person, and being nice goes along with that.
But you want to be the good guy who absolutely does not need her approval.
You’re both grown, there’s no need to make believe you’re someone you’re not.
So here’s the critical lesson.
The waiting game is for single guys who want to be single forever.
If you want someone, go after them and don’t be afraid to let them know what you’re after.
Because simply deflecting the friendzone during friendly conversation with touch and flirting
may not be enough.
If she asks you to go on a friendly adventure hike, it’s perfectly okay to say yes,
But fellas, don’t let it die there.Touch her arm, take a close selfie together, and
don’t forget to flirt a little.
And here’s why: repetition is a key ingredient in creating reality.
If you consistently do friendly things with a girl without crossing the friendship barrier,
guess what ... You’re gonna end up just friends.
So be there for her like a friend, but make sure to remind her you’re more interested
in being her boo than her bud.
The #1 Thing High Value Men Never Do that Instantly Turns Off Women
Okay guys, so you’ve heard all the common body language tricks to being attractive.
Like pointing your feet in the direction of the girl you’re interested in and facing
her with openness to be approachable.
But here’s the major mistake that a lot of guys make without even knowing it.
It goes like this.
You meet a girl for the first time, you’re smiling, making eye contact, keeping open
body language, pointing your feet towards her, and then you go up to her and break the
ice.
You have your feet planted, shoulders squared, and great posture because you’re a badass
and confident alpha male.
But what you don’t realize is that you’ve accidentally blocked her path or cornered
her.
Of course, you’re just trying to be friendly, say hello, and strike up some conversation,
But she perceives your body language as threatening, and she can’t fully relax and enjoy your
company.
You’re not going to give the right vibes you’re intending to send.
Instead, you’re going to make her feel like Taylor Russell in Escape Room.
Guys, this happens all the time, but the really good news is that it’s an easy fix.
The answer is to just be aware of your entire body when approaching and talking to a girl
and make sure she has an easy way out.
Because you want your body language to show that she’s free to walk away whenever she
wants.
And that simple gesture will make her at ease and build trust without any real effort on
your part.
Gentlemen, today we’re showing you 10 Alpha Male Body Language Tricks.
When you break it down being alpha is about two things:
1.
Showing other guys you’re not threatened by them, and more importantly,
2.
Showing girls that you’re the real deal and not just another imitator.
To help you achieve alpha status, today we’re showing you the top 10 body language tricks
of the modern Alpha Male.
And because we don’t want your efforts to become more alpha backfire against you,
we’re also showing you the #1 way guys accidentally appear weak when they’re trying to be more
dominant.
Alright let’s get into it.
10. Set The Pace
The number of differences between alphas and
non-alphas are many, but the first one most people notice is always,
always... the walk.
When guys are nervous, it often shows up in a quick, short-stepping,
frantic kind of walk...
The type of walk that tells people, “see ya later!”
But not because they’ve got anywhere to be.
Contrast that with the movement of the calm and unhurried alpha male,
The guy who moves like the world runs on his schedule and like he’s in control of time
itself.
Now before you start thinking, “alright, all i’ve gotta do is just make sure to walk
slow and keep people waiting” Hold up!
Because the idea isn’t just to move slow no matter what,
It’s to walk in a way that naturally gets people, including girls,
To change their speed, and match yours.
See the difference?
9. Take The Throne
Tell us if you haven’t seen this before,
guy sitting down, Hunched over, shoulders shrugged to his ears,
his chest sunken in, And possibly looking like there’s something
interesting happening on his phone.
Kind of a familiar sight, right?
Truth be told, most guys probably sit like that these days and don’t even know it,
which is too bad Because that’s the kind of posture that’s
way more likely to have girls wondering if everything is okay.
Now look at our alpha: Leaning back comfortably, relaxed, while maintaining
the potential for conversation with anybody who wants to talk.
He’s mellow, he’s considerate of others, but he also never fails to send the signals
that show he’s in his seat.
Want to get in the alpha zone?
Try getting comfortable with this classic position: Assuming you’ve got the space,
cross your right ankle over your left knee, lean back, rest your arm up behind you and
watch the whole landscape change.
8. Open Your Chest
Along with not slouching in your seat, your
grandma, was spot on about one other big part of being alpha,
Standing the right way.
If you look closely, dominant, unafraid guys all have a tendency to stand a certain way.
And it’s that posture, That allows them to create a real, natural,
commanding presence for themselves wherever they go.
It’s not threatening, it’s not defensive, and it’s not supposed to be aggressive it’s
mostly just...
Open.
Now, there are a lot of ways you can create a natural, down-for-whatever stance,
but there’s one super useful trick to really making it count.
As you’re talking to people, or maybe even as you’re walking,
Put your hands behind your back.
Without getting too scientific, a person’s chest is one of the more “vulnerable”
parts of the human body.
So by placing your hands behind your back, and grabbing your wrist with your other hand,
you leave yourself open to anything and subconsciously show everyone that you’re not registering
any threats.
See what that does?
7. Level the First Impression
You’ve heard it before: A firm handshake
speaks volumes on who you are as a man, even when it comes to women.
But what a lot of guys don’t get, Is that there’s a lot more to a proper handshake
that just squeezing the heck out of the other person’s hand.
While it’s true you don’t want a lazy, wet-noodle handshake,
You also don’t want to overcompensate by shaking too hard.
Because as with any physical contact, The true way to show confidence, is really
by showing control.
So real quick, here’s how you master the shake:
While looking the other guy or girl in the eye, Extend your hand out and let them come
to you Grab their hand firmly, but again, be careful
not to squeeze too hard.
Shake no more than three times up and down.
And while shaking, don’t forget to smile..oh, and be sure to say something.
6. Display Control
Here we go.
A big part of alpha male body language, Is how alphas physically engage with other
people,more specifically, how they physically engage with girls.
Done right, touch is the ultimate demonstration of the three C’s of a true alpha male -
Confidence, chemistry, and comfort.
Done wrong, And you could be sent straight to the the
jail block or even worse, the beta block.
But, we get it: The reason a lot of guys don’t touch girls,, is because they don’t want
to risk creeping out the the girl they like.
But the problem is, and the reason why touching works for alphas,
is precisely because there’s risk involved.
Think about it, sure it’s just touch, but there’s a lot to get wrong (which a lot
of guys do) So when a girl sees a guy who’s perceptive
enough to know how to touch her, and how not to touch her,
She also sees a guy with a good sense of how to deal with risk ...and how to handle her
trust.
Wondering how you can safely incorporate touch like an alpha?
Here are two ways to get you started.
First,If you’ve talked to her before, go for a quick hug if you run into her again.
Show her you’re friendly.
After that, follow her lead and Mirror her touch if she touches you.
5. Style Amplification
We know, not body language, but a big part
of being alpha Is how your style stands out from the crowd.
Notice that we said your style, not your friend’s style, not a celebrity’s style,
Your style.
This is important.
Like body language, your style does a huge amount of talking for you,
And we don’t have to tell you, but yes, girls do pay attention to how you dress.
So The importance of knowing what’s in style can’t be understated.
BUT knowing it is only half the battle.
What you do with that information is what matters.
Because where most guys learn about style in order to fit in,
Alphas use their style to stand out.
Pretty important difference.
As with everything alpha, Style is all about being smart about it.
Stray too far from the norm, and you might be too hard to relate to to
even be considered alpha..
But on the other hand if you always Stay with the pack, you’ll
never get seen.
Wonder what will really make you stand out from other guys?
Check out this video.
Hey, if you regularly watch Mantelligence, keep watching.
Because we’ve got 4 more alpha male body language tricks coming right up and at the
end of this video, We’re going to show the #1 common mistake
guys make to accidentally reveal they’re still not alpha.
Okay, let’s get back to it!
4. Message Consistency
Being able to speak without saying anything
is at the core of what it means to be alpha.
In fact, It might be this skill alone that makes girls
respond to some guys so much more than others.
As you know by now, non-verbal communication is a huge turn-on for any girl.
It’s the basis for everything when it comes to flirting, and without it,
It’s an uphill battle no matter how awesome you are.
Chemistry, comfort, even showing off your sense of humor, all begin without you ever
saying a word.
Thankfully, the key to mastering non-verbal communication with a girl is simple:
Because all you’ve got to do is match what you’re expressing through your face,
with what you’re actually thinking.
Seems easy enough right?
Well, not so fast, because there are plenty of reasons why the
expression on a guy’s face might not reflect what he’s thinking and the #1 reason:
Is because he’s trying to appear confident, when he’s not actually feeling that confident.
So...
Tying that back to being alpha, you can see why it’s something they do...Because
they’re naturally confident, this part, comes easy.
3. The No Bluff Buff
What’s better, looking strong or being strong?
It might depend on who you ask, but if there’s one that brings you closer to being alpha...
100% of the time, It’s to actually be strong.
What we mean when we say being strong Is to have a body that truly has some power
to it, instead of one that only looks like it.
And it’s the presence of real physical power, instead of just the appearance of it, that
makes any guy seem like the baddest dude in the room.
So what should you focus on if you want real power?
There may be nothing be more hotly debated, But any exercises that work your explosive
power and ability to move heavy weights, Are guaranteed to make you look and feel alpha
to guys and girls, all day long.
2. The Challenge
We’ve covered how alphas sit, how they walk,
and how they speak without saying a word, Now, let’s talk about how they do eye contact.
Eye contact?
Haven’t we talked about that enough by now?
Not quite!
Because This time, We’re gonna show you why alphas are masters of eye contact,
while other guys tend to struggle with it more.
And it all starts with a little old thing called:
The fight or flight response.
You’ve probably heard of it, but what you might not be aware of,
is exactly how heavily this instinct plays into every single interaction you have, including,
eye contact.
As you can probably guess, Alpha males are better about not fleeing from
the first sign of eye contact from a girl, And it’s that instinct to hold their gaze
for a second, and acknowledge eye contact from a girl, that gives them a leg up.
1. The Proof
An alpha can’t be an alpha without being
a leader, right?
Well that’s true...but the dynamics are actually way more complicated than that.
Because while plenty of guys know they should try to take on a leadership role,
Alphas are special in that they’re automatically perceived to be the leader by the group.
It’s almost like gravity, They couldn’t not be the leader if they
tried, it’s just a natural role for them, just like it’s natural for people around
them, to have no problem yielding to that leadership.
Now this brings us to a common question, what if a non-alpha wants to be the leader around
the alpha?
Well the only thing to do, is to fake it til you make it.
Instead of fading to the background, you’ve got to come to the forefront of any situation,
A classroom, your office, an event, whatever.
Just putting yourself out there... and making yourself known, will quickly change the minds
of those around you And will eventually transform you into the
alpha yourself.
The #1 Thing Guys Do to be an accidental Beta And finally: Here is the #1 thing guys do
to show that they might actually be a beta male.
While there are many giveaways that a guy might be a beta, the number one thing by far
Is Negativity.
Now, there’s a difference between expressing some dissatisfaction and living in negativity.
Where an alpha rolls with the punches, A beta tends to blame the world for his problems...
Complaining about how bad his life is and always making excuses for why he has it rough.
An alpha, however, has a natural aversion to saltiness and instead of defensively trashing
other guys, speaks as highly of others, as he may think
highly of himself.
Guys, those are the 5 alpha male body language tricks that are certain to make her like you.
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