Hello there beloved viewer!
So far, we have covered three zodiac signs in this series.
Today, we are going to discuss the fourth, Cancers.
Cancer signifies the coming of summer.
It is a cardinal zodiac sign and starts on the 21st of June, which is also the summer solstice.
Metaphorically, if spring is human adolescence then summer is human youth.
So, what makes the crab so special?
Let's explore!
Cancer Personality Traits
Cancers are called nurturers of the zodiac.
If you have cancer friends then you’re probably already aware of this.
When you first get to meet a Cancer, you’ll probably see a rather shy side to them.
No, they’re not uptight in fact, they will be quite well-mannered and friendly.
They will just be a little guarded on what they are telling you.
You can expect a warm smile and a "hello" from them.
Like other water signs, Cancers may also come across as a bit arrogant at first.
It is a defense mechanism for this sign.
They like to behave a little aloof at first.
Once you break down that wall and earn their trust then you will get to see the real them.
The caring cry babies that they are.
Cancers believe in having a circle, and don't like wandering from it.
If they had it their way,
they’d only have a limited group of friends for the rest of their lives.
As a water sign, Cancer is deep and emotions are very important to them.
They can be sensitive and compassionate all at once.
While they may not have the same depth as a Scorpio, they are still very deep.
This trait comes in handy when they need to give advice.
They are also great as counsellors.
Just like Geminis, Cancers are also good at communicating and people management.
This is why they do well in management roles.
Unfortunately, for all of their great traits, there are some drawbacks.
For example, the Cancer can be a little too sensitive at times.
Apart from that, they can be quite moody at times.
Their mood can swing from happy to irritated in 0.09 seconds.
Because of this reason, this zodiac sign is often considered to be unpredictable.
This may make them feel misunderstood, which can lead them to depression.
On the positive side, they make great partners, friends and co-workers.
These folks believe in investing in relationships and know how to enjoy healthy socializing.
Unlike Scorpio, Cancer doesn't have the edgy, intense and dark vibe about them.
This is why there is less drama in their lives.
They have strong parental instincts,
you may have Cancer friends who behave like parents towards you.
They may like taking care of you and at times be
overprotective towards you. This is also seen in their relationships.
Whether it is a Cancer Man or Cancer Woman, they are known to be overprotective.
They are also known to be a bit clingy and possessive.
Although, that is just during the first part of the relationship.
Once they become comfortable with you, you will see these traits disappear.
Because of their moody and slightly introverted nature, it can be hard for them to find love.
Especially, in their late teens and 20s, they might either be single
for a long period of time or jump from one relationship to another.
This sign craves affection and for them being loved is very important.
In case, you have a Cancer bae and you don't call them regularly,
chances are they will look somewhere else.
In other words, you want to keep them with you then show them that you love them.
Don't just say it, show it.
You will see their tough exterior disappear and they will melt like ice cream.
Of course, there are certain zodiac signs that are better at doing it than others.
On that note, let's talk about….
Cancer Compatibilities
As a Water sign, it is not at all rocket science that they do well with other water signs.
Arguably, their best match is Scorpio.
Well, if they know how to break through each other's barriers first.
Cancer and Scorpio have a lot in common, actually a bit more than what could be considered healthy.
They can be dark, moody and are bothered very passionate.
Just like Cancers, Scorpios also have big
trust issues and take their own sweet time to open up to others.
Now you might be wondering, "If they are so similar won't they conflict a lot?"
Yes, this is a relationship that will need a lot of work,
but if they can pull through then this would be the most rewarding one.
For many other signs, understanding the emotional depth of Cancer might be intimidating.
While for Scorpio it is natural because they have the similar type of depth in them.
Of course, Scorpios are edgier than Cancer but that won't really affect them.
Apart from their ideologies about love and relationships might be very similar.
This is why astrologers believe it would be the most satisfying reunion for a Cancer.
The next on the list would be Taurus.
Earth and Water can nurture and create beautiful things together.
Problems will occur though, as Taurus are controlling and love
their routine and Cancers aren't always sure what they want to do.
Cancers don't like being controlled and Taurus may think that Cancers are too fickle or shallow.
This relationship will require more work than that of Cancer and Scorpio,
but if the two individuals are willing to try then it can work.
Taurus can give Cancer the stability that they need, while Cancer can help Taurus open up a bit.
The next sign is another water sign, Pisces.
Pisces and Cancer go along really great if they can get along.
The Cancerian maternal instincts will kick in with a Pisces.
Unfortunately for Cancer, it might be an emotionally draining relationship.
Especially, if the Pisces is not matured enough then Cancer may become a mess.
One thing to keep in mind is that Pisces isn't necessarily the most loyal sign.
This can lead to heartbreak for Cancer, but if they can work on it then this can be a great bond.
Au contraire, there are signs that Cancer may not be compatible with at all.
For example, Leo may be too overwhelming for Cancer.
They may seem as narcissists or egomaniacs.
While, Leos may view Cancers as being too soft.
Similarly, Aries may be seen as too childish and brash.
Among Fire signs, Cancer may be the most compatible with Sagittarius.
The free-spirited nature of Sagittarius may lure them out of their shell and in Cancer,
Sagittarius will have a home to come back to.
Among Air signs, Cancer will do well with Libra.
Both are known for their charming and witty.
Both of them have a mild-temperament and both despise chaos.
For this reason, these two signs won't have too many problems with each other.
Cancers may find the most problems with a Gemini, they may be too childish for them.
Whereas Aquarius will do okay, if they don't start ranting about how they know everything.
The other two Earth signs like Capricorn and Virgo are neutral for Cancer.
They will make great friends and possible romantic partners.
If Capricorn learns how to keep a work-life balance then it could be a success.
Meanwhile, Virgos will have to be more sensible on what they say.
The usually blunt nature of a Virgo might hurt a Cancer.
Oh, and you don't want to hurt a Cancer.
They may not be Scorpio, but their wrath can be equally destructive.
Now, let's shed some light on their basic…
Likes and Dislikes
Do you remember the prince and princess from fairy tales?
Cancer people are like those characters.
They have a charm about them and know how to ease their way through people.
If you leave out their mood swings and trust issues,
they are great people to have in any group.
People born under this zodiac sign are witty and smart.
Cancers are usually well-read.
They may also prefer to keep a plain appearance in public as it draws less attention.
This doesn't mean that they don't like taking care of themselves.
They do, they just don't like to get attention from everyone.
Until and unless, they are in love with you or have a crush on you.
In that case, they might seek your attention, all day and every day.
If you are just getting to know them, earn their trust first.
Once they trust you, you will see the real them without the filter.
Many Cancers may not be very pragmatic,
you will find them willingly getting drenched in rain and getting a fever because of it.
They may go on a diet one second but devour an entire ice-cream the next.
They are usually foodies and may have a love for travelling.
As far as dislikes go, Cancers may hate being alone.
This is why you may always find a Cancer person among big groups.
They may try to become a social chameleon and put up with everyone.
Even if they don't like them.
The thought of being alone may scare them and they may not want to deal with it.
This is one of the things that differentiates a Cancer from a Scorpio.
While Scorpios accept their dark side and embrace solitude,
Cancers often run away from these things.
So, are you a Cancer?
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