hey everyone and welcome to top think today we're going to learn about 10 signs that a girl
really likes you now let's begin number one the touch barrier physical touch is a great way to
gauge another person's interest but what if you've never touched this person before
what if it's your first date and you want to know how they feel before making your move
early on in the relationship it may feel like there's an invisible wall between you
this is called the touch barrier it's always nerve-wracking to break the touch barrier
with someone you like you don't know what they're expecting you're searching for the perfect moment
and you want to break the touch barrier with a romantic gesture but if a girl really likes you
she may break the touch barrier right from the beginning small bits of physical contact like
a hug a high five or a punch on the arm can shatter the touch barrier to pieces now these
gestures may not be romantic but once you've made contact it's much easier to make contact again
so pay attention to any of these physical gestures especially if you're in public
if a girl makes physical contact in public she's not just comfortable touching you she's also happy
that other people can see the two of you together and that's a big step in the right direction
number two taking initiative traditionally guys make the first move he asks her on a date he leans
in for the first kiss but when a girl really likes you she won't be afraid to take the initiative
a girl may take a passive approach because she's unsure
whether she really likes the guy she's dating she sits back and she waits
why well because she wants to see proof that he's invested in her but if a girl really likes you
she'll take the initiative she'll make physical contact with you she'll make plans with you
she'll put herself out there because she wants to make sure her feelings are getting across
number three embarrassing secrets is she vulnerable around you does she tell you about her
dorky hobbies if a girl tells you her embarrassing secrets then you're doing something right
she's only vulnerable because she's comfortable around you she feels like she can be yourself
so her walls come crumbling down don't undervalue those small moments of vulnerability vulnerability
shows trust closeness and personal investment so even if her secrets are funny or dumb she's only
telling you those secrets because she cares about you number four when time flies does time fly when
you're together imagine you're on a date with a girl that you really like you thought the date
was going to last an hour maybe two but here you are six hours later and you're both still having
a great time she might say something like has it really been six hours i didn't even notice
comments like these demonstrate chemistry and comfort neither of you notice the hours
are flying by because you're both enjoying each other's company just think about the alternative
when you're spending time with someone who irritates you every minute feels painfully long
you're always looking for an excuse to leave and set yourself free but she's not trying to leave
in fact she's excited to keep spending time with you even after six hours together so if the two of
you can easily waste an afternoon there's a good chance that her feelings are as strong as yours
number five prolonged eye contact eye contact is one of the most telling pieces of body language
it shows emotions like attraction disinterest nervousness and dozens more but you have to know
what to look for if a girl finds you interesting or attractive she might make eye contact with you
your eyes might meet every once in a while before you frantically look away but when a girl's in
love she makes a different kind of eye contact when your eyes meet she doesn't look away she
doesn't get nervous and turn her head the other direction instead she stares into your eyes and
you stare right back you might feel butterflies in your stomach or heat rushing up to your cheeks
and chances are she's feeling the same thing prolonged eye contact is a rare experience
you might make prolonged eye contact with a best friend or a family member but even that's unusual
because that lengthy stare requires intimacy and vulnerability you're letting her stare
deep into your eyes and she's letting you do the same and that requires a strong connection
number six lack of hesitation imagine there's a girl you like and you want
to ask her out you build up the courage to ask her if she's busy this weekend and she
immediately tells you she's free she responded so quickly that you're kind of caught off guard
so what does it mean when a girl responds right away when a girl is unsure about her
feelings she may hesitate she might take a few hours to think about how she feels
and even if she says yes you can learn a lot from the way she pauses and waits but if a girl really
likes you she'll jump at the opportunity she's probably been waiting for you to ask her and
now that you have she's excited to spend time with you but what if she says no but if she's busy she
won't always be free sometimes she'll say no but even if she says no there could be a silver lining
if she does say no pay attention to what she says next a girl who really likes you will
immediately try to reschedule she might say i can't go anywhere today but what about tomorrow
rescheduling shows enthusiasm and effort both of which bode well for your future connection
so listen carefully when you make your move if she answers right away this girl might really like you
number seven intimate proximity alright let's say you're getting dinner with a group of friends you
all sit down at the table and she sits right next to you later that night you sit down to
watch a movie and you take a seat on the couch and once again she sits right at your side is
she trying to send you a message proximity is one way we differentiate who we like from who we don't
you close the physical space between you and the people you care about if a girl sits or
stands closer to you then she considers you an important person in her life now of course
proximity isn't always intentional let's say she sits next to you at dinner then during the movie
she sits on the other side of the room if this happens the first time was likely a coincidence
however if she's sitting near you again and again it's not an accident she's making an effort
to close the space between you and strengthen your connection number eight the whole picture
there are many pieces of ambiguous body language on their own these subtle cues can be confusing
and contradictory but if you pay attention to the whole picture you might discover how she really
feels about you let's say she laughs at your jokes that's something but you might just be a
funny person what if she also smiles constantly well she might be having a good time that's
important but not enough what if she's always leaning towards you and every once in a while
she plays with her hair or she fidgets with her clothes now in combination small pieces of body
language communicate a powerful message you make her laugh and smile she finds you charming and
attractive and she might even feel a little bit nervous around you in other words she likes you
but there's no single piece of body language that captures this complicated feeling instead love is
a blend of positive signals so if you want to know how she feels don't worry about one specific thing
look at the whole picture because her true feelings may be right on the surface number nine
telling her friends if she's excited about you her friends have heard every tiny detail she's
told them about conversations you've had she's described the moments you've shared and chances
are she's told them much more than she's told you why is that because many girls are afraid of
jumping the gun they don't want to make themselves too vulnerable so they keep their feelings under
wraps they wait for you to express your feelings before they express their own but her friends know
the whole story so take notice if she's told her friends about you she might say oh my friend was
asking about you or i was telling my friend about our date the other day now these may seem like
passing comments but they're signs of something bigger if she's talking to her friends about you
you're not some random guy anymore you're someone she's genuinely excited about number 10 one on
one do you spend time alone together when you make plans with her does she bring other people if she
doesn't have strong feelings for you one-on-one scenarios can be awkward and confusing even though
she wants to be friends with you she doesn't want to progress things further she doesn't want to
send mixed messages so she invites other people everywhere you go by inviting other people she's
trying to create a social cushion between you and her keeping your relationship in the friend zone
on the other hand if she does like you she'll lean into those one-on-one scenarios she wants
to strengthen your connection so she removes any social cushions that are standing in her way to
put it plainly when a girl really likes you she'll be excited to spend time one-on-one hey thank you
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