- How to make him fear losing you.
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My name is Greta Bereisaite.
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Ladies, in this video, I will share with you
five tips on how to make him fear losing you
by giving him uncertainty in a healthy, high value way.
First tip is make sure to have a social circle
and keep meeting new people.
This will create a healthy amount of uncertainty
and when you're out and about it will make him wonder,
will you meet someone better?
It's also very good way to test the man.
Is he a high value man who is secure and confident
or is he a low value man who is insecure and controlling?
So if a guy is low value, he will start to freak out,
panic and marking his territory.
If a guy's high value, he will be happy for you
to socialize with other people
by showing you that he's secure and confident
and other guys are not a threat to him.
And guys, just to make one thing clear.
A lot of people say to me, "Oh my God.
"My boyfriend is so controlling.
"He always asks me where are you?
"Who are you with?"
Just because he asks you where are you, who are you with,
doesn't mean that he's controlling.
Also could just mean that he cares about you
and your safety therefore he is showing that.
I think it's a very nice gesture when a guy is doing that
as long as he doesn't try and control you
and tell you you need to be back at this time
and why you meeting this person
and you're not allowed to meet that person.
That is controlling but checking in with you,
where are you, when are you coming home or who are you with,
I think it's a very nice way of him
to show you that he cares about your safety and security.
Also, if you will find that your guy
starts to freak out about you socializing
and meeting new people,
I would recommend you ladies to tell him,
if you don't trust me, why are you with me?
Because as a human being, you are allowed to socialize,
meet new people, have fun without him.
And if he's getting insecure and is freaking out
well then he needs to work on himself.
Yet saying that, it is still a perfect amount
of uncertainty in a healthy way to give.
Second way of how to make a man fear to lose you is
by putting yourself first,
by continuously educating yourself
and going for your dreams.
This will also keep him on his toes
as if he wants you to stay interested in him,
he will have to catch up with you.
At the same time, this will make you a challenge
because when you put your goals, dreams and ambitions first,
he will have to fit around in your life.
Again, an insecure guy will start getting controlling.
He will tell you to drop your dreams.
He will tell you to drop your ambitions.
He will try and keep you under his thumb
so he has a full power and control over you.
A confident man will encourage your goals,
will encourage your dreams, will keep motivating you,
and will be very proud or happy
to have you as his girlfriend or wife.
Also ladies, when you will die and God asks you
what have you done with the life that I gave you,
you will have lots of things to tell him,
so it's all good.
So first, God is gonna be happy.
Second, you will a guy on his toes,
third, he will see you as a challenge,
as he will have to fit in around you
and fourth, not only that you will make yourself happy,
but you will also give him a healthy amount
of uncertainty and fear him of losing a diamond like you.
The third way of how to get a guy to fear of losing you
is not always being available.
Ladies, do not see him at the last minute.
However, this will come naturally
if you are putting yourself first,
if you are having a social circle of family, of friends,
if you are going for your goals, dreams and ambitions,
automatically, again, he will have to fit around you
because you're not gonna be as available
and your time will be very valuable
therefore, you will have to keep a schedule
to achieve the things that you want to achieve.
So he will have to fit in your schedule.
This will automatically make you a challenge
and give him a healthy amount of uncertainty.
Yet ladies, if you wanna be playing games
and not doing anything with your life.
You know, being bored, going on social media,
watching Netflix all day, just being a lazy bum,
and telling him that I can't see you
at the last minute, I'm very busy.
No, ladies, your daily habits sooner or later
will come out and when you being not available
and not seeing him at the last minute,
will come across as a game
as it's just not gonna make sense.
The fourth one on how to get a guy to fear of losing you
is setting in a boundary.
And I dare to say but setting in a boundary
is the most important one.
If you ladies will slip a little bit
with the first three ones that I mentioned,
it can be fixed and actually,
you can even slip yourself a little bit here and there.
We are only human beings, you know?
We are not robots so it's totally fine,
however, really try not to slip with setting in boundaries
because if you slip with a boundary setting
or saying a yes instead of a no
when you should be saying a no, it is very hard to fix that,
and a lot of times,
not setting in a boundary at the right time
and the right place could ruin your relationship forever.
So boundary setting is, I would say,
the most important one to show a man
that you are not scared to lose him
because if he does something disrespectful,
your dignity will always come first.
The reason your dignity always needs to come first
because ladies, a man will never love a woman,
that he does not respect,
and if you do not set healthy boundaries in a relationship
he will never respect you and will walk all over you instead
therefore, ladies, please watch my video,
where I break it down for you queens,
how to get a man to respect you and I talk in that video
how to set the healthy boundaries properly.
You can find that free video
just by following the link right here.
I will also drop it down in the video description below.
And now the fifth one, my ladies,
how to make a guy to fear of losing you
is emotional control.
Why, because when you control your emotions
and when he cannot read you as an open book,
it makes him wonder what you are thinking,
what you are feeling.
If he can read you as an open book
because you share all your feelings and emotions,
you are actually showing him how much into him you are
and you giving him a huge amount of safety and security.
Safety and security is not a man's love need.
A man's love need is uncertainty.
Safety and security is a woman's love need.
This is why when we share our feelings
and emotions and thoughts to another woman,
we actually bond with the woman more.
We create deep connections.
That's not how you create a deep connection with a man.
You create a deep connection with a man
through having fun together and through giving him
a bit of uncertainty because uncertainty is his love need.
Therefore ladies, make sure not to wear
your heart on your sleeve and control your emotions,
even when he is playing games on you
and is provoking you to lose emotional control.
How to control your emotions
and all the games that guys play on women
to provoke you and lose your emotional control,
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So ladies, now you know of how to give a man uncertainty
in the healthy, high value way,
and make him fear of losing you.
Make sure to apply all these five tips
as they work like magic.
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and sending you lots of blessings.
My prayers are with you
and thank you so much for watching.
Kisses from Manchester. (kissing)