Hello ladies and gentleman!
It’s Brad Browning here with another YouTube video.
And in this video, I’m going to address some of the other so-called “gurus” here
on YouTube that criticize my “no contact” strategy.
I never felt like I had to defend this strategy – after all, I’m very proud to say that
my videos are the most “liked” and most watched breakup videos on YouTube.
Most of you who watch my YouTube videos will see the large amounts of positive comments
and likes that this channel gets every single day.
And, most importantly, I regularly get this positive feedback on videos that describe
my “No Contact” strategy.
However, there are a few YouTube gurus here with low-quality webcam videos that spout
a number of nonsense arguments against my strategy.
Normally, I wouldn’t bother to address these videos, but I occasionally get a few of my
viewers who mention how my version of “no contact” is wrong because they’ve watched
some other misleading video elsewhere on YouTube.
This obviously makes me upset, not because these videos are seemingly attacking me, but
because the advice that they’re giving is downright incorrect.
And the only reason these gurus want to discredit my strategy is to stir up some controversy
to get views on their channel.
But as you’ll soon realize the amount of hate comments and dislikes these videos get
serve as some level of proof that these imposters are simply trying to get their 15 minutes
of YouTube fame.
You’ll also run into videos that propose that their version of No Contact is somehow
better than mine by calling it something fancy like “The Super No Contact Strategy”.
Again, don’t fall for it.
These fancy names only serve as a gimmick in their quest to get views and build controversy.
So in this video, I’m going to categorically shut down all of these arguments once and
for all.
The first argument that I hear is “you can’t ignore your ex into wanting to be with you
again.”
My simple rebuttal to this fallacious statement is, “yes, you can.”
In many cases, simply engaging in No Contact is good enough to force your ex to feel enough
attraction to you to want to get back together with you.
Absence is an extremely powerful force and using this psychological strategy can yield
some pretty positive results.
Even if your ex doesn’t come back to you after a lengthy No Contact period, you’ll
allow your ex’s emotions to settle in the wake up a breakup.
See, depending on how your relationship ended, your ex could be feeling a myriad of emotions
– anger, sadness, hurt, or depression.
These sorts of negative emotions must be given time to settle in order for your ex to begin
feeling positive emotions for you again.
And depending on the reason why you broke up, these emotions can take weeks to subside.
However, there are a very few situations in which I do not recommend No Contact, and I
have made a video on that topic which you check out later, but for the vast majority
of people out there that want their ex back, No Contact is not only crucial, but it is
absolutely necessary.
The second piece of nonsense that gets thrown around is that I somehow believe No Contact
will solve all your problems.
Not once have I said that No Contact is the magic bullet that will make your ex come crawling
back to you.
People who watch my videos will know that while No Contact is indeed an integral part
of my system, it isn’t always a 1-step solution.
If you watch my video on BreakupBrad.com, you’ll soon realize that most of the time,
getting your ex back is generally a 3-step process and No Contact is only a part of the
first step.
In my 10 years of breakup and relationship experience, I’ve discovered that these three
steps work for the vast majority of all my clients, and if you’ve read about my 3 step
system on exactly how to get your ex back, you’ll realize that I outline every single
possible scenario that you could possibly face.
So if you think your particular situation is somehow unique and you’re not sure if
No Contact is even applicable to you, I’ve got you covered.
The third argument that these so-called experts like to spout is that the recovery process
that you undergo during No Contact is ineffective or useless.
In my version of No Contact, I tell my clients that they need to undergo several key personal
development routines that are crucial if you want to get your ex back and keep him or her.
Getting your ex back is absolutely useless if your ex will suddenly break up with you
again a few weeks after getting back together.
While the tips that I outline during my No Contact may sound like they’re insignificant,
I can assure you that they’ll not only help you feel more confident, but you’ll be better
equipped to building a stronger, more vibrant relationship with your ex once you get him
or her back.
Now, I can keep going on and on about the other silly arguments these self-proclaimed
YouTube experts claim, but that would be giving them too much credit.
Honestly, I’d rather not have to make this video, but I was sick and tired seeing my
viewers mislead with poor and misleading information.
So if you want the TRUTH about how to get your ex back... if you want advice that’s
been proven over years and years of research, then subscribe to my YouTube channel and I’ll
be releasing videos just like this weekly!
If you guys have any questions about this video, then please don’t hesitate to leave
them in the comments section below.
I do my very best to get back to everyone here on YouTube.
Thank you so much for watching this video and I’ll talk to you soon!