Hey, this is Mat Boggs, and today we're going to talk about five ways to increase your feminine
energy.
Now, whether we like it or not or whether we're aware of it or not, there is a law called
the law of polarity in that masculine and feminine energies attract one another.
And we also want to know that you have both masculine and feminine energy, I have both
masculine and feminine energy.
All of us as human beings have both energies and we have been trained to lead with one
or the other as our major dominant energy.
And whatever energy you lead with in relationships especially, you're going to attract the polar
energy to that.
Learning about these polar energies was really enlightening for me because there was a huge
period of my 20s where I was attracting relationships that didn't work out.
And after learning about these energies, I realized, "Oh my gosh, I'm leading with feminine
energy in my relationships, even though I'm a really masculine guy."
And so I thought to myself, "Why am I leading with feminine energy?"
No, I'm just teasing.
But I thought, "Why am I leading with this feminine energy," right, even though I'm masculine.
And it dawned on me, the person who taught me about relationships and how to flirt and
how to talk to girls at that point was my older sister.
She's two and a half years older than me, is a great mentor in my life.
And when I was entering my teens, she's the one who taught me how to dance, taught me
how to dress, taught me how to talk to women, but it was from a feminine position.
As I looked at the relationships I was attracting in my life, I realized, "Oh my gosh, all of
the women I'm attracting were leading with their masculine."
They were the ones doing the approaching, doing the leading, which worked initially,
but the truth is my major MO is masculine energy, so we would either butt heads or the
attraction would actually dissipate.
So learning how to lead with the energy that's going to attract the type of person that you
really want for the long term is key.
These five ways, these five methods are going to help you activate the feminine in you if
you want to attract a masculine man.
If you want to attract more of a feminine man and there's nothing wrong with that, then
you want to activate more of your masculine energy.
Way number one, to activate your feminine energy is to move into your body.
Now it's important to realize the difference between masculine and feminine energy.
And I do a whole program on this and so we won't go in super depth in this video, but
I do want to point out this feminine energy is not weak, it's not passive, it's not submissive;
it's very powerful energy.
It's just different than masculine energy.
Masculine energy rides around in the daily life up here.
It's more mental cognitive energy.
It's vision driven energy.
Feminine energy rides around in the heart space and in the body.
It's more feeling tone energy.
That's just one of the differences.
So notice in your daily life, we all tend to ride around our daily life in different
places in our body.
So notice, where do you ride around in your average day?
See, all of us, we ride around in our lives at some place in our body.
And most of us actually right around up here in our heads, and we're kind of stay up in
our heads because we live in a very masculine society.
The work space is very masculine.
It's all competition, goal-oriented, efficiency.
And so notice if you're riding around up here, you're in your masculine.
What you can do is connect to your body.
Drop down into your body and start to feel your body, feel your toes right now, feel
your legs right now, feel your heart space right now.
And actually wearing certain clothes can support you in this.
Some people talk about be more feminine is wearing certain clothes.
Well, clothes have nothing to do with feminine energy.
However, they can support and activate feminine energy by helping you drop down into your
body.
When you're wearing sexy lingerie, you feel that lingerie in your body, which causes you
to bring your awareness from the cognitive down into the emotional, down into your body.
Wearing flowy skirts, for example, a nice dress or something that helps you feel feminine
is powerful, not because of the dress, but because of where it brings your awareness
is right down here into your body and helps you tap in to how you're feeling.
So step number one is move from your head down into your body.
Step number two is after you've dropped down into your body, is to notice how you're feeling
and allow yourself to experience your feelings.
Making that welcome, making that appreciated.
The masculine often cuts itself off from being in touch with the feelings.
Again, this isn't male or female because men, we have both masculine and feminine.
When we allow ourselves to drop down and get in touch with how we're feeling, we're activating
our feminine energy.
And that's a good thing and you can do that as well.
So notice if you ride around in your head most of the time, a simple technique that
you can use is to several times throughout the day, have an alert that goes off on your
phone or ask yourself this, "How am I feeling right now?"
And check in with yourself.
"How am I feeling right now?
Am I feeling joy?
Am I feeling fear?
Am I feeling worry?"
Just be in tune with how you feel.
Just being in tune with that moves you in the direction of releasing more feminine energy.
Now, before we go to these next methods, I have a gift for you that you are going to
love.
I have written an entire ebook on feminine energy and I'm going to link it up right here.
It's The 5 Feminine Qualities That High Value Men Find Irresistible, different than the
qualities that we're talking about in this video; we're just topic touching the surface
of the wave here.
So I'll link it up in the video and in the description.
It's a gift from me to you.
Go ahead and click that link and you can go deeper into how to activate your feminine
energy.
Number three dovetails perfectly with moving into our body.
How are we feeling?
And now it's nurturing yourself and ask yourself this, "What could I use right now?
Or what do I really need right now?"
And then give yourself what it is that you need, because feminine energy is receptive
energy.
Masculine energy is providing energy.
It's that we want to provide.
Feminine energy receives.
Feminine energy is your intuition, your presence, you're receiving ideas, receiving thoughts,
receiving care.
So when you ask yourself, "What do I need right now?"
And you say, "Hmm, you know, I need some love right now.
I need to wrap myself up in love or wrap myself up in compassion, or I need to take a break
right now, or I need to nurture myself," and then allow yourself to receive.
Give yourself a manicure, a pedicure, a massage, a day off, a day at the beach.
The more you nurture yourself and you allow yourself to really soak it in and receive
it, the more you're making space for that beautiful feminine energy to activate in you.
Number four is to bring yourself to the present moment.
Masculine energy is future driven energy.
It's planning, it's strategizing, it's visioning the future.
Feminine energy is enjoying the present.
It's being fully aware, fully awake to your surroundings right now.
So go ahead and take a deep breath and bring yourself to this present moment right here,
right now.
Your experience of this moment, your experience of life is so, so exquisite to the masculine
energy.
Masculine energy loves that.
It's often the thing that masculine men we love most is being with a woman who's feminine
because she brings us out of our forward thinking world, out of our vision world, into this
present moment where we wake up to the life that's right here and right now, and the beauty
that exists right here and right now.
So one thing that you can do to help activate this is several times throughout the day when
you ask yourself, "How am I feeling right now?
What do I need right now?"
And then take a deep breath of joy, of life and experience the present moment.
Number five is connect to people that you love.
Feminine energy is connection energy.
Masculine energy is competition energy.
The masculine gets fired up through competition; the feminine gets fueled through connection.
So make it a point to reach out to someone that you love today.
It doesn't have to be a romantic partner.
Can be someone, a family member.
It can be a friend and just call them up and say, "Hey, has anyone told you that they love
you today?
Well, I do."
Who in your life could use a phone call like that right now?
Make it a point to reach out to them, call them, and you'll notice that that connection
actually fills you up and fuels your feminine energy.
So there you have it, five ways to activate more feminine energy in your life.
And when you do that and you activate this beautiful, radiant feminine energy that you
already possess, you become that much more of a magnet for an amazing masculine man in
your life.
Now, I would love to hear from you.
What are some ways that you have found that really work for you to activate your feminine
energy?
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