It's really hot right now. I am at Omni Day Club here in Bali and on
today's video I thought it'd be appropriate to talk about how to talk to
girls at a pool party. Let's get into it. okay so before I get into today's video
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How do you talk to girls at a day party, at a pool party, during the day, something
like this? This doesn't differ too much from the things I've
talked about in the past. I don't want guys to get too caught up
in the fact that well it's a day party at the pool so you got to do something
completely different. You really don't, but still I want to
give you some tips on what you can do in order to make this easy for you.
The intro has been very long and you're probably getting very upset so here
we go. Step number one which a lot of guys don't know and I'm so happy to be
sharing this because this is not advice you hear often. To to any party that
you're invited to early! Yes, do not show up fashionably late ever, especially if
you go to a party and don't know anyone. I know it sounds kind of lame like
you're gonna get there early, you might go to a club like this and no one's
gonna be around. It doesn't matter. No one cares. No one
shows up and then sees you alone and says oh that guy's a big loser because
he's hanging out here alone. No one's focusing on you, they're focusing on
themselves so get there early. Why do you do this? The main reason to do this is
because you get a chance to meet more people much easier. Of course if you go
late you can still meet people easy. It's not like you can't do it. But you get to
meet them easier because there's only so many people to socialize with. If it's
you and just a few people hanging out, whether it's a club or a party wherever,
it's much easier to go and introduce yourself and all of a sudden you make a
friend. Then more people come in, you introduce yourself, you make more friends.
Now you have some friends, some girls you're interested in, now you can start
introducing people to each other. You're introducing people, they're introducing
people to you. By the time you've been at the party for maybe even an hour and a
half, two hours you almost know everyone and people think that you are the life
of the party because you keep on running into people and saying hey what's up.
So you see a girl you want to go over and talk to, someone walks by
that you met earlier you say hey and then it happens again and again, this
girl's gonna be like who is this guy? That's going to be very mysterious, very sexy.
You probably want to know some openers; how to start a conversation with a girl
at a party. Here's a few off the top of my head. Go
up to a girl, she's probably going to be with people and say hey I haven't met you guys yet,
what's going on? And introduce yourself or say cheers if you have a drink in
your hand and they have drinks in their hand. Or say hey what's a good drink to get
here? Any of those little openers and that's not something you have to use. I
don't want to give you too many crutches. It should just come
naturally anything you think of that you can say because it doesn't matter about
the opener. Very important here. It doesn't matter about the opener. Girls
don't remember what you said when you first talk to them. It's just about
getting into conversation, starting conversation and then continuing it.
If you need some help continuing conversation as always you can get Chick
Crack below in the description. That is my video that gives you conversation
topics that women love to talk about and you can transition from that opener to
that topic. I talk a lot about this in my program called Hooked which is
dominance which is moving the interaction forward. I bring it up in
most of my videos because a lot of guys don't end up doing it and so how I want
to tie this into today's video is that when you're having the conversation with
girls, you're introducing people, it's great to just make friends and
introduce and have a good time and socialize, but at the end of the day, if
you have your sights on one girl what you want to do is make sure that you're
continuing the interaction with her. You meet a girl at a day party or a pool
party, you guys should be continuing to hang out. Go get dinner
with her that night, keep on hanging out, get a drink. Don't just get her
number and hope for the best. These days a number sometimes isn't worth that much
because girls might forget about you cause they have so much going on and maybe meeting
other guys. Don't just get a number and forget about it. Try to hang out with
her the rest of the night, the rest of the day. Maybe even if you guys can hang
out alone at the very least, get a group of people together and go out to dinner,
Pick a spot and just invite everyone that you've met so far the
people that you're there with and get dinner and invite her with. This is very
powerful. Another thing too is that a lot of guys, if they're interested in a girl,
they'll meet a girl, talk to her for a few minutes at a pool party/day party and
then they'll be like okay well I'll see her again later and that's when I'll get
her number or I'll see her again later and that's
when I'll try to build attraction because I already know her. It's okay
to bounce around a little bit but if there's one girl that you have your eyes
on, do not leave her sight. That doesn't mean you need to hang out with her for
entire three hours you're at this party, but at the very least if you know you're
gonna be going on and hanging out with other people, continue to talk to her,
build attraction, make a connection, build rapport and get her number.
I know that might contradict what I said before, but this is getting a number just
in case. Just in case you don't see her again but still the goal is to continue
hanging out with her the rest of the day and night.
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A quick recap here just so we can summarize this all up. This is what's
happening; you're going early, you're making friends, you're introducing
yourself, you're talking to a lot of people, you're using some of the openers
that I gave you earlier, you're gonna get Chick Crack down below in the description
to use those topics of conversation that women like to talk
about. You're going to continue talking, you're gonna build attraction. If you're like
wait Tripp how do I do that? Get my program Hooked. I'll put that in the
description as well or watch other videos on my channel where I talk about
building attraction. You're going to be doing that throughout and again the goal
at the end of this is not just to get her number but to continue hanging out with
her if you can the rest of the night. Can you do that? I think you can. I'm gonna
head back to the pool party now at Omnia still in Bali. Look forward to more vlogs
coming out. I'm putting them out every single day this year. 2018 is all about
the daily vlogs. Lots of goodies in the description, go get them and I'll see
you tomorrow.