This video is about "The Most Difficult Person to Walk Away!" from I'm going to reveal without a doubt...
The most difficult person you will ever walk away from
in your life... To find out more please stay tuned to this video...
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Spoiler Alert = The most difficult person to walk away from is not your spouse
parents, friends... it's actually who you no longer wish to be! I look back on my life sometimes in
shock and horror at the reckless decisions I made... the people I associated with... how I used to think...
I lived a toxic lifestyle... surrounded myself with toxic people, and had toxic beliefs... My lifestyle
in my 20s (I'm in my 30s now) was all about two things going out and partying (and spending money)!
I was not a high earner and I cringe at the amount of money I blew going out! Seriously I was out almost
every night... it was rare to find me at home.... on top of that I was a bloody gambling addict which only
made my life more toxic, stressful, and painful to endure.... Yes the people I predominantly surrounded
myself with were actually toxic! They were either severe gambling addicts like me that encouraged
and bullied me into always gambling or they would be manipulative toxic and narcissistic...
And this also applies to the women I dated and the relationships I had. You become who you surround
yourself with that's for sure! I used to live and believe in a very superficial life and mindset
translating to me spending beyond my means and pretending to be someone I wasn't...
Everything was designer, I had to eat expensive places, constantly seeking validation and attention
online. Not only that but my thinking was all or nothing thinking = I'd massively generalize (I still
do probably) about a lot of people and things with zero understanding experience and empathy
or justification! Thank goodness I walked away from the man I used to be! Full disclosure it
was not easy but sometimes in life you can always surprise yourself ....So let me go into detail of how
you can hopefully walk from the most difficult person away in your life... your former self!
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Please always remember... no matter who you decide to walk away from it's always going
to be a potentially life-changing and altering decision... and I always believe for the better...
assuming you're self-aware and practice an abundance mindset and take personal responsibility...
Let me tell you a secret here = most people in all walks of life from career choices to what
coffee to have from Starbucks are undecisive....I was recently speaking to a lovely woman who
told me the following = "I can't make a decision seriously, I need an assertive confident man like
you SCG in my life! So you can help me with that!" I thought she was joking but actually she was being
genuinely serious! Look around you at the people in your personal and maybe professional life...Do they
have real conviction? Are they naturally confident? Do they lead by example? Where am I going with this?
The opposite is being undecided and by being unclear and living that way has a detrimental
effect on our ability to change and grow as people! Remember insanity is doing the same thing over and
over but somehow expecting different results... it's like talking to a brick wall and somehow expecting
a reply! It's evaluation time = 2019 was a huge year for me I walked away from a gambling addiction, a
seriously toxic relationship, a set of ideals that no longer served me, and certain friends
and even family... not to mention shortly after it was the pandemic and I even lost my father!
Pain is an old friend of mine unfortunately, but those initial decisions, those life-changing ones
sobriety etc I'll never forget, because as I sit here right now, my life has dramatically improved
in a different way! Okay not because my Dad's passed away but because I walked away from
a man whose lifestyle was miserable, toxic and negative! It all starts with one simple
decision! Now walking away from your former self and changing your life is not easy, which is why
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Tthe link is in the description below! Whenever you try to change for the better, improve yourself
become clean and sober, cut out toxic habits, there will initially be an internal battle going on ....
Spiritual and religious people will describe it as the "Devil" that lives inside you... that wants
you to suffer... wants to make your life hell...I like that analogy but even if you cannot relate to it
think of it instead as an "inner critic" that lives inside of you, comfortable at the lifestyle and
person you've become! "The inner critic" is a term in popular psychology to personify
the negative thoughts we have about ourselves...Sometimes we can fall into a toxic pattern
over eating smoking, drinking, gambling, pornography abuse, because we've convinced ourselves this is
how to survive... the inner critic goes "well gambling keeps you distracted SCG! It doesn't let you focus
on the pain and suffering going on," and obviously my addiction only made my life worse! So we often
find ourselves surviving... coping in life instead of really thriving... being at peace and happier overall!
When I originally wanted to become clean and sober from gambling... after the initial adrenaline rush of
relief in euphoria... that inner critic (Devil inside me) put up one hell of a fight to keep things as
they were & not change! He said to me "you'll lose all your friends.. you'll have more time alone...
you've already lost money... how you gonna make it back?.... gambling is fun, it's you that's the loser....
I see no good in this decision... you'll be back in the casino in no time..."
I'm sorry to admit = but I wanted to be sober many times in my life...
and I always used to give in to the inner critic.... but the last time I shut the inner critic up (that
devil up for good) enough was enough and it pulled out all the stops to try convince me otherwise
but thankfully I pulled through and I've remained clean and sober for over three years!
Remember that inner critic (that devil) is lying to you! You can walk away from your former myself at any
given time, in any way, but remember there might be an internal battle at first... which I guarantee
you can win! If you're enjoying this video please hit the like button for the YouTube algorithm
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I've always insisted in my content whenever you walk away from anyone in life (particularly a
toxic relationship) it's to walk & never run, because those who run before they can walk
always end up going back where they started... and into the arms of the person they're trying to flee
to the familiar habits.... doing the very thing that is keeping them from changing! So take slow steps
why do most diets fail when it comes to a person trying to lose weight? Because they're too extreme =
you were eating whatever you wanted yesterday suddenly you fast or are only eating
meat or vegetables or only smoothies! You keep this up for a short period of time until your willpower
can no longer hold on and then you're back to stuffing your face with junk food! Then again
like talking to a brick wall you're back where you started! A better approach is to take small steps
and self-educate yourself too. (which I'll touch on in the next point) How I took small steps = when I
introduced myself to the world saying "I'm now going to be a non-gambler!" I did it in small steps = First
I spent an entire day cancelling all my online accounts, then banning myself from all casinos and
betting shops and finally removing all reminders, triggers, emails that would make me want to gamble
in the first place! After a few weeks passed I was able to walk past the betting shop or a casino
or see an advert for gambling on tv and don't feel the need to do it...It was a process
slowly and surely I was able to make the change to become a sober person, and walk away from
addiction! You can do the same! Set out a plan and a roadmap of the changes you want to make...
you don't have to do it all in a day or even a week or even a month...
take some time because you're making most likely huge enormous changes to your life here ...
Don't expect things to be completely different and better overnight, always remember be patient
understanding, compassionate to yourself as well! Slow and steady always wins the race!
Finally go on and live an amazing life! I'm here to assure you the grass is greener....
especially when you walk away from your former self! Only you can decide if your life is where
you want it to be, or if you're truly content and at peace with who stares back at you
in the mirror! If your actions line up with your morals, beliefs and mindset....
It's currently 2022 (as I record this) and while the pandemic has not been kind to me and my family
that's for sure... but as normality is resumed and I'm back in a healthy routine, chasing my goals
dreams and aspirations...I realize that not only now am I starting to see the benefits of walking away
from my former self, but life is better! I have more money saved from not gambling, I no longer have
serious self-loathing, I'm not drained emotionally from a toxic relationship, I don't see the world as
black or white or all or nothing, I'm more at peace understanding wiser and better equipped as a man
moving forward....We all must grow up sometimes and that can sadly include growing apart from people
habits and circumstances! Now at first that can and will seem scary... there'll be so many temptations to
go back, plenty of excuses reasons, and maybe peer pressure as well... but I'm telling you
once the dust settles and you start adjusting to the new you... something magical happens....
I looked in the mirror the other day....I honestly did not recognize who looked back at me in my
reflection = a happier, less toxic, more grounded man... not the kind of guy used to be before! If there is
one motivation about anything for you to remember when you finally walk away from your former self
it is by doing so = you will live an amazing life... and you deserve to live an amazing life....