codependency is nothing to be ashamed of
i do once they hear the breakthrough life but you know what to do with video
to talk about what a tendency and why do you want it's nothing to be ashamed
absolutely nothing to be ashamed up so the reason I wanted to do this video
because I want to address those of you out there who have suddenly woken up to
the idea that you're co-dependent and you're struggling with this idea that
you are and how I feel like a stigma attached to being codependent a little
bit about my background when I P well you're clinically depressed but it was
like someone said to me Licia breath smells because I mean I know it sounds
silly but it was like lifeboat moment it was like I knew why I was so unhappy
because I have this thing called codependency and I wanted to know
everything there was to know about it and so over the years it's been like 15
years since that longer fifteen to twenty years somewhere in that range
where you know that magical moment to place and I realized that I wasn't that
suffered from this thing is how it's a disease that spirit body and mind all to
see and I believe that it's epidemic you know when I actually do what I can do
and I can make videos like to be so I think that being codependent is actually
a good thing because no one most of us are very very kind and most of us very
empathetic and most of us really care about how other people I just noticed my
office closet doors open at like whatever I digress so I am I doing with
its good fit good so being mean that you're unlikely a very very crime
very empathetic person your people person and you try a lot you worry about
what other people think people need so you know being coated been if that's
your mom you know that's really nothing to be ashamed
there is a better way of living and there is a better way of relating to the
world and ask what these videos were all about next week that's what my new
coaching programs about this about not shaving you because you go deep and it
will learning how to overcome being codependent learning how to be
independent inside of self living living living inside of self dependent on
coming into contact with us what is a self esteem if you don't have a self you
know it was your mother father job to teach you that you have a south and if
you ask about it nor then they weren't teaching you that there was so I matter
something inside of me on your living in survival mode just try to get through a
day just trying to stay out of the way that Ryan why don't you know really you
know somebody of US states mall which was brilliantly saved small and quiet
because our little brains were so really it they knew how to protect ourselves
they knew how to protect us so those of us with big mouths costly dinner asked
it and those are usually the older children usually not usually the older
children were the ones who you know didn't have siblings to to watch and to
learn how the family dynamics unfolded so if there's nothing to be ashamed that
in fact you know to heal of racism here we heal you know globally what people
think about for instance being get you know if we're going to be ok with who we
are codependent personality disorder
then we have to be ok with it
you know because I was there and we have to we have to be willing to say this out
loud so that we can start the conversations out there that the people
and we can help other people
investigate what needs to be co-dependent lots of Y workers out there
are suffering because they're very empathetic they're very kind and they
they have not been treated well in their child they still need to fill see they
haven't seen and it still trying to feel seen as markers which is a you to trial
because those of us who incarnated on this planet feel like we have a specific
agenda to help other people awaken they are oftentimes we have been born into
families who did not see you know a lot of times we suffered with depression in
children and suicidal thoughts
you know because other people and needed to be that way we needed to get on this
planet that way so that we can use this skill to be tuned in to other people to
our advantage and to bear the problem is that we've developed for coping skills
along the way and we've allowed other people to take advantage of us along the
way and we have not learned to speak so you know I am here to try to help anyone
out there who leaves it there are here to do wonderful work and that they are
met and fell in life I'm here to help you figure that out I'm here to help you
learn how to be acquainted with the idea and learn how to not feel ashamed that
if your code it wasn't likely you were brainwashed that's not your fault that's
your program NOW to treat its not immature problem because I know someone
out there is the most are taken from me for tryin so I trade now trademark that
do you want me to share codependent personality disorder
and you my dear ones so so let's investigate today see if you can play
with that idea of being a little bit more comfortable with you know people
don't know what that means and the more we are on our skit about being in it the
less shame there is about and then people can go online and what will maybe
I'm codependent for you know what life and the world is making up because of
something that you learned in something that you spoke from the heart chakra you
know it's just so to help in the world that way so dear ones join me on this
journey and let's just let's not be ashamed of being dependent and fall and
because we are divine life these higher consciousness bility to connect to one
consciousness unity consciousness and B why with all the while there is we have
the ability to overcome thought it could have been seized and you can intervene
and as you connected that idea you discovered and could see was just up
someone else's brainwashing and that was done to you you can feel it
alrighty ones that's the lesson for today namaste love you bye
codependency is nothing to be ashamed of