I want to quit my job but I'm scared. Noelle gets this statement all the time. Almost every day,
someone is telling me that they want to quit their job but they're scared. As someone that actually
quit their job, a 6-figure job with 5 kids at the time, I know how scary quitting your job can be.
But I'm going to share with you exactly how to get it done without destroying your life. Let's go.
Being self-employed is really awesome and quitting your job to become self-employed
is always going to be scary. There's no way around this. I wish I could tell you that you could have
enough money or you could work long enough and when you quit your job you're going to
be super excited and you're not going to have any fears. Unfortunately, I have not met not even one
person yet that told me that they quit their job and they did not have any fears either before
they quit or after they quit. And for me, I had fears before I quit and after I quit. And even
ran back to a job that I absolutely hated and had to quit that after just a few weeks. So,
I completely understand what it's like to want to quit your job and how you have to overcome
that fear. So, I'm going to give you a couple of tips and tricks that I did so that you can
quit your job again without destroying your life. But understand being self-employed really is most
likely what it is that you want to do. If you have an inkling to quit your job and you're saying,
"Yes, I want to quit my job." And it's only that you're scared or it's fear that's holding you back
then you're probably on the right track and all we need to do is talk about how we get
rid of some of those fears so that you can move forward in strength. So, I quit my job more than
4 years ago at the time of this recording. And I'm going to tell you I was very scared when I quit.
I actually didn't even need the job that I quit. Like I said, the last 2 jobs that I had,
I did not need. I really probably should have quit my job a lot sooner. I didn't quit my job
because of fear. So, one of the reasons that is so important for me to share this message with you
is because I want to be really vulnerable with you and tell you that I know. I know you're scared,
I know you want to quit your job and it's probably fear or being scared that is stopping you. You may
say that it's money or that you don't have an established business or you don't have enough
customers or you don't have enough of this. But the bottom line to it is it's fear. You're
scared. You're scared that you're not going to be able to make enough money to cover all of your
bills and your expenses. You're scared that you're not going to be able to make as much or more money
than you make from your job. You're scared that you are going to fail and you're going to have to
run back to that job and those same people are going to laugh at you. You're afraid that your
family might say something. You're afraid that you might end up living in your car. You're afraid of
all of these things. I know it. And the bottom line to it is you have to get rid of that. There
are millions of millionaires. And the truth of the matter is you could be one too if you would get
rid of your fear. If you want to just stay with the pack and go to the job and work each day,
I have nothing but love and respect for you. I do not think that everyone should quit their
job. I do not think that everyone is built to be an entrepreneur. I do not think that everyone
should quit their job. I don't think that. But I'm telling you if you're watching this
and there was something that attracted you to this there was something that made you click on this,
you're scared to quit your job and you want to know, "Okay, how do I overcome that fear?"
That's why you're listening to Noelle. And the truth of the matter is it's because you're afraid.
And it has nothing to do with money. So, let's talk about how we overcome those fears so that you
really can quit. Because like I said, my biggest mistake was I took way too long to quit my job. I
would have been a millionaire so many years sooner if I got rid of my job and focused on my business.
I literally have missed out on the opportunities that I now have because I was afraid. Just think
about it. I quit my job and the first year after quitting my job I was able to make almost double
what I was making at my job. Think about that for a second. What if you gave all of your time,
all of your energy, and all of your effort to your business into what it is that you want. How much
further along could you get versus going to work for 40 or 50 hours and then giving some of that
to your business? Imagine if you do both for a period of time and then you get rid of the job and
then just focus on your job. Well, if you're like Noelle, you'll probably make double what you made
as a working person. And now, I was able to double my income year after year after year because now
I know what I'm doing. I just had to get over those fears and start focusing on my business. So,
let me give you some tips on how I quit my job and more importantly, how you can do it too. So, let's
talk about the process of how you solve for this fear. So, the first step (and this is the easiest
thing to do) is what is your fear based in? What are you afraid of? Are you afraid that you're not
going to have enough money? Then solve for it. You can easily create a number and say, "Okay, well
if I have $3,000 then I'm quitting." Or you can say, "I need $2,000" or $5,000. My suggestion is
make up an answer. So, whatever it is that you're afraid of if you're afraid that you
don't have enough money for your bills, then get rid of certain bills. If you think that you need a
certain amount of money, get that money saved. And again, it doesn't have to be saved. You literally
can get a credit card a loan or a line of credit to have money sitting somewhere so that you can
feel more secure. It's really not about the money though. So, even if you don't have
all of the money that you want, you still need to face your fear. You're still going to have to
overcome that and you still should probably move forward anyway. Because in most cases,
you're going to feel the fear and do it anyway. Because this is how millionaires work. There's
never going to be a time that you're not afraid especially if you're a person that is not rich.
Most people that are not rich, the reason why we're not rich is because we don't have the
skills. We don't have the mindset to be rich. So, as we grow to that, as we start to become that,
then we will have fears and we will have to overcome them. It's natural,
it's normal. There's no way that you just come around walking around as a baby and you're like,
"Oh, big bad entrepreneur. Like, yeah, give me a million dollars and a million dollars for that."
No. You're afraid. You will feel the fear. Feel the fear. Do it anyway. The next thing you want
to do is set a date. Set a date that you are going to quit. What is your quit date? Is it 6 months
from now? Is it a year from now? Is it 3 months from now? What is the date? Literally, I want you
once you decide that you are quitting your job, because you're watching this. You're quitting your
job. Now, pull out your phone look at the calendar and pick a date that you are quitting. Write that
date down. Start putting it in your journal and start working backwards from that date.
It's super easy. This is what I did. And this will help you start to overcome the fear of quitting
your job because like I said, I don't think you should just up and quit your job. I don't think
that that's the process. It's not going to work. Trust me. I tried it. It's a lot easier and a more
manageable for you as a person that is growing to grow into that. And as you start to talk yourself
into the fact that you are going to quit. I know this sounds crazy. I do. I know you're like,
"What are you talking about?" But it's true. It's a process. And almost everyone that I've talked
to that had to quit their job, they have this exact same feeling and experience. So, this is an
easy solution. You write down the date, make it at least three months from now. Usually, that's
how long it will take to kind of just convince yourself that this is the right decision. That's
usually the shortest amount of time. I've seen people do it in 2 months or a month. But usually,
they end up running back because they didn't have enough time to let that idea sit with them like,
"Look, I'm quitting. I'm quitting." And then just kind of start talking yourself into it. So,
say for example you make your goal 90 days from now. You then tomorrow will say, "In 89 days, I'm
quitting. In 88 days, I'm quitting. In 87 days, I'm quitting. In 86..." And you just count down.
And each day as you wake up and you look at that date, it'll get easier and easier for you because
you know it's coming. It's almost like you have to program and trick yourself into quitting your job.
You have this fear and it's not going away. Just like quitting anything, you have to usually have
a process. Most people can't just stop eating hamburgers or cookies. It's usually something that
we have to work towards because we have a habit of it. And if you're like me, you have a habit
of going to a job. You have a habit of seeing your paycheck. You have a habit of that direct deposit.
And you're going to have to get out of that habit and get into a new habit. So,
write down the date. Talk yourself into that date by going backwards. The next step that you want to
do (and this is super important) is start doing your business now. If you're saying you want to
quit your job, great. You know you're quitting your job, you wrote down the date. Great! Now,
start working on your business. Because in 90 days or 6 months or a year or whatever
it is that you wrote down, you're quitting. So, now, it's time to start the business.
And you're starting the business with the mindset and the intention that you are going to be working
full-time in that business in whatever day that you're working. So, if you're quitting January
31st, you know on February 1st, you're going to be working in your business now. So that's what
you're planning for and you would start that business and start doing it right now as if
you've already quit your job. And that's the most important part. As if. And last but not least, you
will be scared. Fear is not real. Fear is false evidence appearing real. It's not real there is
nothing real about being afraid to quit your job. I'm sorry. I don't know who told you you should be
afraid to quit a job even if you have a 6-figure job. Guess what? You got that job. You could get
another one. And just think about this: If someone is paying you 6 figures, think about this. Because
I had to think about it. And this is something I now know for a fact. If someone will pay you
$200,000 a year or $100,000 or even $50,000 a year; just imagine what your true value is.
Think about that. So, if you start your own business and you work in your own business, don't
you think you can make at least the value that you currently bring to some other company? So,
I have written an entire book called Real Estate Millionaire Secrets. And I'm giving this book away
to you absolutely free. Not only do I teach you how I started from my parents' basement; broke,
bankrupt, with no money and built a million dollar real estate empire in just a short amount of time.
I am giving you this book absolutely free. You can get this book for free just by
going to noellesfreebook.com. Again, that's noellesfreebook.com. Noelle (N-o-e-l-l-e with
an s), noellesfreebook.com. I just want to make sure that you have all of the resources, all of
the tools, and all of the knowledge that you need to be successful. This is Noelle. To your success.