Are you dating a person that you don’t fully trust?
Do you have this feeling that something is just off and find yourself getting more & more
suspicious.
Are you tired of being worried that your boyfriend might be seeing other women.
Well You’ve gotta watch this video, where I share 10 signs that your man is seeing other
women and cheating on you.
So don’t go anywhere because we are starting in 4 seconds.
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OK… on to the signs your man is dating other women.
First, I want to alert you that people are unfaithful for a number of reasons…
For example, some People cheat because they are dissatisfied with their relationship.
Other people cheat because they’re not getting the emotional attention they need from their
partner or because they are angry at their significant other and want some kind of revenge…
And then there are those people who cheat because they have sexual addictions or the
Casanova syndrome..
They regard sex as a sport and engage in relationships as long as it remains a challenge to gain
control over their partner.
And regardless of the reason for their behaviors, are certainly signs that strongly suggest
that the person you’re with is dating or sleeping with other women.
But Before I get into the list of things to look out for,
I want to caution you to be careful…
it’s never a good idea to jump to conclusions too soon.
you certainly don’t want to accuse your partner of cheating without being absolutely
sure.
So, If you are seeing one or two of these signs, it’s probably best to just keep them
to yourself.. and keep your eyes open.. because if he is seeing others, more signs will pop
up and you will know.
So just keep your eyes open and be patient…
This is super important and I cant stress this enough..
wait yes I can… go back and rewind 15 seconds and listen to this part again… you could
ruin a newer relationship if your fears are unjustified.
So yeah.
I’m serious..
rewind 15 seconds and listen to that again.
on the other hand, if you are seeing more than a few of these signs, or if you’ve
noticed these signs in addition to a dramatic change in his behavior, it might be time for
you to have a conversation about your relationship.
So, without further a do, here are the 6 signs that your man is seeing other women.
6.
He has cheated before?
As simple as it sounds, past behaviors are the best predictor of future behaviors.
History repeats itself, so you need to know your partner’s past.
Ask questions about relationships, their lengths and level of commitment, and inquire about
why the relationships ended.
And, don’t skip questions about infidelity or their opinions on what is, and what is
not appropriate interaction with friends.
Oh, and Just because a person cheated in the past does not guarantee that they will cheat
in your relationship.
People learn from their mistakes and experience personal growth.
And when they do, they are open to sharing their lessons.
But, if your partner responds to your questions with a cavalier attitude, make a mental note
of this red flag and further explore this topic later.
Remember, those who fail to learn from mistakes of the past usually repeat them.
5.
He keeps you a secret on social media.
Does the person you’re dating avoid posting photos of the two of you together?
Is that person otherwise active on social media?
I mean is that person constantly updating Instagram or facebook and posting photos with
friends?
Do you feel like you’re the only one who doesn’t get any love on his social media
accounts?
Did He erase any signs of you from his social media.
Is he trying to make it look like he is single?
If yes, have you two discussed this?
New couples who are excited about a future together usually want to share their happiness
with friends and family.
If that’s not happening in your situation, you should certainly ask why?
4.
He keeps accusing you of cheating.
He is constantly accusing you of texting other people or flirting with other men behind his
back — even though you’ve never done anything like that.
If he’s accusing you of these things without a real reason, then He’s projecting his
guilt onto you.
It simply means that he is capable of.
or he has thought about cheating on you….
And because he has, he assumes it’s just as natural or easy for you to cheat (or want
to) as it is for him.
In other words, He’s assuming that you’re being just as disloyal as he is.
So yeah… if he is constantly assuming that you are cheating or wanting to.. it’s because
his head is right there… capable of, thinking about or doing what he accuses you of doing.
The last three are super important…
so make sure you keep watching because these signs tell you the most.
3.
He safeguards or hides his cell phone.
In a relationship, being open and honest about everything is important.
But When a guy has something to hide, one of the first things he’ll begin to do is
keep his cell phone private.
So pay attention to what he does with his phone when he is with you?
Does he have the ringer and notifications off?
Does he keep the phone face down on the counter when you are hanging out?
Does he always take his phone to the bathroom and seem to be gone for an unusually long
time?
These are all possible signs that he is trying to keep his communications private and doesn’t
want you to know about them.
Oh.. and here is another big one..
He never even shows you pictures or videos on his own phone.
That’s because he’s worried about the texts that might come through while you’re
looking at the screen.
It’s subtle, but when you’re hiding something you’re certainly worried that a provoking
text message might give you away.
2.
He maintains several friendships with women that you have never met.
Yeah.. this is a huge warning sign.
Sharing your life with someone involves developing relationships with your partner’s friends
and family.
In other words, we want our partner to be liked and approved of by the friends and family
we love.
So, if you’re sharing your life with someone, their friends should become your friends too.
Their friends should want to meet you and know you, right?
But if your man is maintaining friendships or relationships with other women and he avoids
introducing you… you must question their motives and the appropriateness of their friendship.
Like What or who is he hiding from you, and why?
1.
Your Intuition tells you that something isn’t right.
If deep down you feel like something isn’t right with this person, you’re probably
right.
And you’re noticing it for a reason.
For example, You caught a glimpse of a text message weeks ago and it didn’t seem eggy
? Or, You remember something he or said to you on your first date that is now resurfacing?
When you start to put the pieces together, your suspicions will, without a doubt, be
right.
if you don’t listen to anything else I say, listen to this: Intuition is your best friend.
So Don’t Ignore Your Best Friend’s Advice.
But I know, I know… I’ve been there too… hearing that little voice in my head telling
me that something just isn’t right, but choosing to ignore it in favor of what I wanted.
It’s the D word - Denial.
Our brains use self-justification and self-deception to manipulate our thoughts and behaviors to
explain, defend, and protect us from recognizing unacceptable truths.
And when we blind ourselves to our true motivations and feelings, we unwittingly sabotage our
own efforts for happiness and satisfying relationships.
Don’t let it happen to you!
When making difficult decisions about a relationship , fight the urge to ignore what your best
friend would advise.
Listen to your best friend, make the decision, and then act on it.
Period.
That’s practicing self love.. and it can be challenging especially in times when we
are feeling hurt and facing difficult decisions.
But by doing what you know you should do, you are actually strengthening your love for
yourself, and your ability to recognize the things that are undermining your well-being
and happiness.
Use your intuition.. and listen to your best friend.
You’ll thank yourself later.
Hind Sight is Twenty-Twenty
People who have been cheated on often talk about how hard it is to trust again.
Obviously it’s important to learn from our experiences and be cautious about who we trust.
Just be careful not to immediately distrust a new partner on the basis of your past relationship.
Doing so is like being a prisoner to that relationship and likely to sabotage the next
one.
Remember, both Trust and Distrust result from time and experiences with a partner.
Both are earned and should not be assumed.
This underscores the importance of knowing your partner and sharing the emotional intimacy
that develops through trust and feeling safe enough to disclose what’s really on your
mind.
Sometimes couples are blinded by love and minimize the red flags they see.
Others hide in denial and rationalize bad behavior.
Don’t let that happen to you.
Ask your partner important questions and talk about your feelings.
If you find you are hesitant, perhaps you don’t yet know your partner well enough
to be in a committed relationship.
So.. are you in a relationship or dating someone that you suspect might be dating other people?
Or, Have you ever been blindside by a person who you completely trusted?
Were the warning sign there but you missed them.
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