Hey, what's going on? This is Tripp from Tripp Advice.com. Today we have a very special
guest. This is Kimberly Seltzer from Elite Image Makeovers.com. She is a dating and makeover expert
and we're starting off an amazing 5 part series, and we're talking about fashion and male fashion
advice. For the first video, we're talking about something special. She told me one of the most
important is finding your personal style. And in this series, we're going to be doing a makeover on
me and helping me find my personal style and make me look good so you guys can learn exactly how to
do it also. Kimberly, welcome. Thank you. First of all, you already look good. I just want to say
that. Stop it, please stop it. So we're just fine tuning in. I am so happy that we're doing this,
especially for guys, and I work with both men and women, by the way. But with guys,
I find that there's no real place for them to get this kind of information, yet it's so
important. It's not like on a Sunday afternoon, you guys are gonna sit around and talk about the
latest sales at Nordstroms. Here we are, you're probably googling it, and that's what guys do,
and YouTubing it. And hopefully, we're gonna give you some great information. So yeah,
personal style, what I want to say about this, and keeping in mind being focused on what women like,
because I'm a woman, first of all, and I work with women. And the number one thing they tell me is
that they love a guy who is put together. And they look like they care. See, the thing when you see
somebody who's well dressed, we women, we're kind of nuts this way. We make up stories in our head
and we're like, oh my god, if a guy is stressed well maybe he can be a good provider and if he's
a good provider maybe he'll be a good dad and maybe he's good at, and we'll go on and on. And
this is happening all from just the way you dress and what you're putting on. That's powerful. No,
it's really powerful. And think of this, it takes only 30 seconds to make a first impression. That's
all you got. And 55% of impressions are based on your look. Personal style is really cool because
it's something that's unique to you. There's a difference between fashion and style. And
I want to talk about that for a second. Fashion is something that is trending. The latest trends
that come and go. Style is something that stays over time and it's specific to you.
Your style is telling a story about who you are in the world. We should be crafting, as men,
we should be crafting more of a style. Is that what you're saying? Exactly, because then it just
tells you who you are in the world. And sometimes people's style is vastly different than who they
are as a person so you have to look at that. Are you conveying the right message, so to speak,
with what you're wearing? I want to find something that is just a little more funky gives a little
more edge, because I think that can give you a little bit of a uniqueness to you. Because you're
a good looking guy, everybody knows you as who you are, and it's not changing who you are. It's just
maybe something that's more specific. Are you saying that guys who are watching this video,
they should be thinking like, what kind of celebrity should they be thinking about? What
kind of style should they be thinking about? What do they see that they like to start to get an idea
of how they want to dress? Exactly. And that's the reason why I ask. It's kind of like, when you're
in the market for getting a new car. A lot of times when you're not buying a new car, you don't
really notice them on the road as much. But when you're starting to want to purchase one, you see
him on the road all the time. You find something that you like and you notice it. I want you guys
to start doing that with clothes. I know that sounds kind of corny. No, that's good. But start
looking at people that you admire, start window shopping. Guys all are about efficiency and being
effective, – the two E's, the double E's. Usually, once you know all these components that I'm going
to teach you, you'll be able to shop really fast, really efficiently and you'll be effective with
the ladies. Awesome. To wrap this up, let me do a quick summary to see if I understand this. The
first tip here is to figure out what kind of style you want. Ways to do that you can
go on Pinterest, go on the internet, go through magazines, think about the types of celebrities
that you want to emulate. Try to figure out what is the style that you like, what do you think
is attractive, what do you want to look for, and then that starts to prepare your mindset a little
bit so you can start to think about what you can start shopping for. And it also starts putting in
your mind you're more aware of it so you start seeing it all over the place and that gives
you more ideas. Basically, it's about filling up your mind with initial ideas to start this
whole process of dressing sexier. Yeah, exactly. Did I nail it? You nailed it. A plus. Awesome,
so stay tuned for the next video where we're going to go into way more specifics. This is Tripp from
Tripp Advice.com. Don't forget, way more videos coming to you. All you have to do is press
subscribe. I'll probably put a little image right here. You can click it. I'll wait. Click it right
here. Cool. And there's more information about Kimberly to help you guys dress sexier. Check
out her website. All the information to find her is in the description box below. I'll see you guys
on the next video. The thing that also excited... that really didn't just happen. That really didn't
just happen. That's okay. How could you be so clueless? I don't know. I saw it happening too. I
saw her walking. Can we talk about not being aware? I'm gonna put that in the bloopers.