- Will he forget me if I don't contact him?
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So, the answer is no.
Instead of forgetting you,
he will actually gain respect and love for you.
Let me explain, if a guy was a one night fling
that you met at a bar and you never heard from him,
most likely he will forget about you,
or he basically just won't care about you.
If you want to find out why,
please watch my video somewhere right here,
where my guest, John Gray explains how men and women bond.
However, if we're talking about a guy
that you had a relationship with, or even dated,
most likely, he will not forget about you.
In fact, space will let him realize his feelings for you
and miss you.
When you choose not to contact him,
a lot of ladies automatically think,
that if I don't check in on him, once in a while,
he will think I have lost interest
and will ruin any chance of him coming back
or he will forget about us
once he moves on to another woman,
that's not the case at all.
He broke up with you.
You must respect his decision
and give him and yourself space to process the breakup,
as you will push him much further away,
if you keep contacting him.
When you go no contact with him, you are displaying
a side of you that is coming from strength, not weakness.
As you're showing self control and high value.
As you're not running after someone
who clearly doesn't want to be with you.
Ladies, self respect is hot.
Without respect, there is no love.
When you are in no contact,
you give him time to miss you and really feel that loss,
that will happen when much time gone by,
enough time for the bad memories to fade away
and for the good memories to reappear.
Give him space to miss you,
to realize his true feelings for you.
And if he will feel like something was there
and you are worth to get back in contact with, he will.
However, if he does not contact you,
you must love yourself enough to let it go.
However, ladies keep it in mind,
that men are very aware of the no contact rule
and boundary setting and a lot of them now,
when they start to chase a girl, say,
"if she breaks up with me, I just let her go."
That's not the case, or,
"if my girlfriend doesn't text me all the time,
I forget about her."
Ladies that's BS, that's not the case at all.
The only reason he's tells you this stuff,
is so you wouldn't have the boundaries with him
as that will make him feel safe
and he will be able to walk all over you.
And if you don't want a man walking alone over you,
please watch my video right here,
on how to get a man to respect you.
The fact is if he loves you, and he did something wrong,
and you sit in a boundary, he well come after you.
And if he doesn't,
why would you want someone who is not into you?
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