>> 21.
No, 22. I'm sorry.
I just had a birthday.
>> Judge Judy: What?
>> 22.
>> Judge Judy: What do you do
for a living?
>> I'm unemployed right now.
>> Judge Judy: What do you do to
occupy your time?
>> Take care of my family
right now.
>> Judge Judy: How do you
support yourself?
>> Well, I actually work through
temp services, but I had an
injury on my leg, so I'm waiting
on a call right back.
>> Judge Judy: You're waiting on
a call from whom?
>> The temp service that I work
for.
>> Judge Judy: How do you
support yourself?
>> The temp service calls me
when they have a job opening.
>> Judge Judy: You said you were
unemployed right now.
This is your girlfriend.
You have a child with your
girlfriend.
She's very pregnant again with
another child.
Is that right?
>> Yes.
>> Judge Judy: [ Chuckles ]
You're 22, but you thought you
were 21.
All I want to know is, how do
you support your family?!
>> I work.
>> Judge Judy: You just told me
you were unemployed.
>> My name is in the system for
a temp service in Atlanta,
Georgia.
So, when they have jobs,
they call you.
>> Judge Judy: Right now, you
said, you're unemployed.
And I asked you a very simple
question.
When you're unemployed, you have
no money, because you don't have
a job.
And you have a girlfriend.
Do you work?
>> No, ma'am.
>> Judge Judy: [ Laughs ]
Who doesn't work.
And how old are you?
>> 21.
>> Judge Judy: 21.
And you have two children?
>> Yes.
>> Judge Judy: And you're
expecting a third, or you --
>> I'm expecting the second.
>> Judge Judy: You're expecting
a second.
Who do you live with?
>> My fiancé.
>> Judge Judy: Just the three
of you?
>> No.
>> Judge Judy: Who else?
>> His mom and his sister.
>> Judge Judy: So you live with
his mother?
>> Yes.
>> Judge Judy: So your mother
supports you.
>> Kinda, sorta.
>> Judge Judy: What do you mean,
"kinda, sorta"?
>> 'Cause if I don't have it,
then my mom helps me.
>> Judge Judy: Don't you realize
how ridiculous this all sounds?
What does your mother do
for a living?
>> She's a teacher.
>> Judge Judy: She's a teacher.
So she gets up every day and
goes to work.
>> Yeah. I was working
until I split my leg.
>> Judge Judy: Listen to me,
"Zandory" --
>> "Zandor."
>> Judge Judy: "Zandor," there's
a certain routine of life -- and
I'm willing to blur the lines at
the end of it, you know, because
I'm getting older -- and even
Byrd has learned that, you know,
we were both very rigid at one
point, but we both say there are
shades of gray.
You know?
But there are certain things
that we know -- that if you're
unemployed, don't know how to
make a living, and you're living
with your mother, you don't make
two babies [Chuckles] with
somebody who is also unemployed,
doesn't do anything,
when you have a mother who would
probably prefer that her
22- or maybe 21-year-old child,
depending upon the answer to the
question, move out and do his
own laundry and not occupy
the house, and let her breathe
a little bit.
You have siblings?
>> Mm-hmm.
>> Judge Judy: How many?
>> I got one that lives with me.
>> Judge Judy: [ Chuckles ]
What does he do?
>> No, she.
>> Judge Judy: She?
>> She lives at home.
>> Judge Judy: Does she work?
>> No. She just had a baby.
>> Judge Judy: So, let me
understand this.
Your mother the schoolteacher
has two children who do nothing
but stay home and make children
that she supports?
I'm just trying to figure this
out.
Do you understand how ridiculous
that sounds to me?
What's more ridiculous is that
the two of you were fighting
over him!
[ Laughter ]
Because this is the case of an
assault.
[ Laughter ]
And they think he was some sort
of a prize.
[ Laughter and applause ]
Sit down.
>> I know.
>> [ Chuckles ]
>> Judge Judy: You want to tell
me about this fight that you had
with Miss Dancer?
>> Yeah.
>> Judge Judy: I have a
complaint and a cross complaint
about an assault.
I have limited patience with
both of you, because did you
know that when you started to
date him, he had a girlfriend
and a baby?
>> No. Actually, I dated
Mr. Nash first when I was
17 years old, when we were
still in high school.
So that's how I know Mr. Nash.
>> Judge Judy: When did you stop
dating him?
>> It lasted about six months,
from the summer to the winter.
>> Judge Judy: Just a minute.
Just give me the month and year.
>> Um, maybe about July 2014...
>> Judge Judy: You stopped
dating?
>> ...to December 2014.
>> Judge Judy: So, you weren't
dating anymore in 2014?
>> No.
>> Judge Judy: Were you dating
him in 2014?
>> No, ma'am.
>> Judge Judy: Did you have a
child with him in 2014?
>> No, ma'am.
>> Judge Judy: So, what were you
fighting about in 2000-- This
fight happened in 2017, right?
>> Yes.
>> Judge Judy: What month?
>> June 25, 2017.
>> Judge Judy: You hadn't had
any contact with him since 2014?
>> I've had contact with him.
My last point of contact with
Zandore was the summer of 2016.
>> Judge Judy: What kind of
contact?
>> Um, I-I called to say hello,
and he hung up in my face.
>> Judge Judy: And?
>> And that was the end of that.
I just decided to leave him
alone.
He told me had a girlfriend.
He didn't say who.
>> Judge Judy: So he hung up.
So you didn't see him in 2016.
>> No.
>> Judge Judy: Were you mad
at him?
>> No.
>> Judge Judy: Now, did you know
that Miss Arnold had contacted
him in 2016?
>> Yes.
>> Judge Judy: How did you know?
>> I was standing beside him
when she called.
>> Judge Judy: And?
Were you annoyed?
>> No, I just laughed.
>> Judge Judy: At what?
>> Her.
And we was friends before.
>> Judge Judy: Who was friends?
>> Me and Destany.