Hi, my name’s Amy North – I’m a dating coaching and author…
I’ve helped thousands of women attract and keep the men of their dreams… and in this
little YouTube video, I’m going to talk about 5 topics that you should AVOID LIKE
THE PLAGUE on a first date with a guy.
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Ok, so let’s begin…
Topic #1 that you should avoid on a first date with a guy is… surprise surprise, your
EX.
This is a no-brainer, but some ladies I’ve coached are still so enamored by their ex
that they can’t help but to bring it up to their new date.
I know it can be hard – you were probably with your ex for a long time and it’s hard
not to think about a person that has had such a powerful impact on your life, but for a
first date, talking about your ex (even a little bit), is totally off limits.
In fact, don’t talk about any past relationships unless your date specifically asks you about
it!
Topic #2 is why you’re single.
A lot of girls make excuses for themselves as to why they’re single… you know, you’ve
probably heard of them…
“All guys are assholes, most guys aren’t good enough for me, I’m still not over my
ex, all the good ones are taken, etc.”
Saying these excuses will only make you look like LESS of a catch in a man’s eyes.
As far as you’re concerned, the only reason why you’re single is because you’re enjoying
being single for now, and that’s it.
Nothing more, and nothing less!
In order to make yourself look like MORE of a catch, you need to show off your value to
him… and in order to do this, you need to use what I call my SPARK Technique… now,
that’s a topic for another day, but if you want to learn more, just head over to CoachNorth.com
and watch the free video presentation on that website.
Again, the URL is www.CoachNorth.com.
Topic #3 that you should try and avoid on a first date is your baggage.
Remember, the beginning of a relationship is one of the most important parts of a relationship…
so you don’t want to send a guy running for the hills by exposing all your baggage
on the first date.
It’s not that having baggage is a bad thing – I firmly believe that everyone has their
secrets, but first dates are supposed to be FUN.
You want to make sure that your guy has enough fun to want a second date, and hearing you
talk about negative baggage isn’t going to make him want that second date.
The 4th topic you should avoid on a first date is… anything gross.
Lemme elaborate…
we all know “that girl” who just talks about how disgusting her period is or all
the weird things that’s going on with her body.
To us females, it’s normal and fine…and most of the time, we actually think it’s
kind of funny, but when you’re trying to attract a man sexually, talking about gross
stuff isn’t going to help you… keep those topics to yourself (and your friends) for
now…
The fifth and final topic that you should avoid on a first date is his relationship
to his family.
Not everyone has a perfect family – and if you bring up someone sensitive to him,
the mood will turn sour and things might get awkward.
Talk about family if he brings it up – but if he doesn’t, then he’s probably doing
it for a very good reason.
Of course this isn’t a completely exhaustive list of things that you shouldn’t talk about
on a first date, but it’s a good start.
If you want to learn more about how to handle a first date and peak a guy’s interest,
then again, head over to www.CoachNorth.com and watch that free video presentation.
In it, you’ll discover exactly how to act on a date to make a man feel a particular
kind of desire for you and only you.
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