Hello, my wonderful friend! Today's video is on how to text a girl,
powerful texts to make her like you.
Has there ever been a girl, or is there maybe one right now,
who makes your heart just leap every time you get a notification on your phone?
You can't wait to hear from her, and you can't help but smile each time you get a text from her.
You know what I'm talking about?
Wouldn't it be amazing if you could make her feel the exact same way about you?
If you could make her more and more attracted to you and make her want to hear from you
more and more?
You're about to discover how to text a girl you like in a way that makes her like you more.
You'll be shocked by just how simple this really is.
And each tip is crazy effective, so make sure you stay with me until the end.
And let me just say, you will not see the last tip coming. Like at all.
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My name is Melannie. I'm a Christian dating coach for men
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As we dive into how to text a girl you like, I'm also going to mention this video on how to make
a girl want you more, so she never pulls away. If you haven't yet seen it,
it's also going to help you a ton. I'll put a link in the description below.
With that, let's get to our first tip for how to text a girl you like.
This tip is to use emojis.
The truth is women really like emojis.
They're fun. They're playful. It's easy to be a little bit flirty with emojis.
When it comes to text in general, it can be a little bit bland. It can be a little bit
boring. And it can also be hard to know what the other person meant sometimes.
Are they smiling when they say that? Are they frustrated when they say that? Are
they flirty when they say that? This is where emojis really come to your rescue.
Women in general, just enjoy emojis. And if you don't have any emojis when you talk to her,
it can make her think you're really boring or really not that interesting.
But if instead, you use those emojis, that lets her understand you as a person
better. It helps her see you as fun and interesting and enjoyable to talk to.
And it can, again, be a great way to do a little flirting.
So something as simple as a smiley face, or a laughy face, or a wink,
or a little smirk, it goes a long way.
It sounds simple, but it's crazy powerful.
My second tip for how to text a girl is a little bit more of a mindset rather than a specific text.
But it's probably the most powerful thing I'm going to share with you in this video.
So pay close attention.
This tip is to text with a purpose.
Have you ever been texting a gorgeous gal, and you get super excited, right?
You get your hopes up and you're like, "Yes! The
attraction is going to grow, this is going to be great."
And then all of a sudden, you just kind of turn
into texting buddies or you get put in the friend zone.
Has that ever happened to you? It's incredibly painful.
What causes this to happen is when you do not text with a purpose.
So if you want to avoid the friend zone, if you want to avoid being her texting buddy,
and instead be more, you must text with a purpose.
If you're interested in her, you need to let her know that.
Otherwise, even if she's interested in you, she thinks you're not interested
in her. So she moves on, and that's why you get put in the friend zone.
If you want to be more than texting buddies,
you need to ask her out, you need to flirt with her, you need to pursue her.
And if that freaks you out a little bit because you don't know what to say,
that's totally okay. This is something I teach you in detail in my Academy.
And actually, that brings up a really great bonus tip.
Texting a girl is awesome, and it can really help you build that attraction, which is great.
However, nobody fell in love because of a text.
That's just not really how it works.
There's nothing worse than caring for someone and getting your hopes up,
only to have the relationship go nowhere.
If you want her to fall in love with you and want to spend her life
with you, then you must learn the secrets that make a woman fall deeply in love with you.
If you're feeling a little overwhelmed by that, that's okay. I've got your back!
In my Academy you'll discover the 5 crazy-simple secrets to finding a loyal, gentle woman,
making her fall in love with you, and make her want to shower you with her soft kisses every day.
To learn how you can join me and discover these secrets fast,
just go to coachmelannie.com/masterclass.
All the good information is there for you. There's a link in the description below,
and I'll also put a link in the pinned comment.
If you're ready to get to those soft, gentle kisses from the woman who'll love you forever,
you gotta know these secrets, so make sure you watch it today.
My next tip for how to text a girl you like is to ask her about her.
Ask her about her day, her favorite things, what she enjoys doing,
what she thinks about certain things, what her opinions are.
This will make her feel important. It'll make her feel interesting and likable.
As humans, we like to feel like we matter, like we're interesting.
This little secret of asking her questions also helps you stand out from the crowd.
Usually, especially when we're nervous,
when we're talking to someone cute, we tend to think about what we should say next.
However, one of the best ways to make people
like you more and make people feel comfortable is to ask them questions.
So if you're the guy who's asking her questions about her,
holy cow, you're totally going to stand out.
Asking questions is just good conversation 101. And
as an added bonus, you really get to know her and get to know who she is,
which is what the whole dating process is meant for. So it's really a win-win situation.
Now, just as a disclaimer, you obviously want to be careful
that you don't ask questions that can make her feel uncomfortable or come across as creepy,
because that's a really good way to get her to ghost you.
If you've already joined me in my Academy and my resource library, which I know a lot of you have,
make sure you're utilizing your resource, "54 Best Conversation Starters."
I've carefully chosen the questions
that will help her see you as exciting and fun and interesting, and not creepy.
My next tip for how to text a girl you like is to flirt with her.
Holy cow, flirting is just awesome, right? I think it should be done like
as much as possible. Within reason, of course.
Flirting is one of the best ways to skyrocket her attraction for you. And
it's one of the easiest ways to kind of test out flirting and see how she reacts.
It's much less nerve-wracking than when you're standing in front of that gorgeous woman. You
have a screen between you, it feels a little more safe, and you can kind of gauge her response.
Now, there are several ways you can flirt. Obviously, this can mean complimenting her.
This can mean hinting that you think she's cute.
This can even mean hinting that you're cute because that lets her know, hey,
you're confident, you're attractive, and you want her to notice that you're attractive.
If you'd like some specific flirtatious things to say, make sure you watch this video on how to
flirt with women, 5 things to say to captivate her. I'll put a link in the description below.
Now I have a quick question before we get to our next tip.
I haven't done a video on texting for a really long time.
Should I make more of them? Are you enjoying this video? Would you like more?
If you would, comment "texting" to let me know. Your feedback really does
help me. I can't thank you enough for your kindness and your support in the comments.
So thank you, thank you. And if you'd like more, comment "texting" to let me know.
Okay, my next tip for how to text a girl you like is to let her get to know you a little bit too.
It's important in a relationship for the two of you to really get to know each other.
And that requires you open up a little bit, you let her know who you are,
what you think about things, what your opinions are, what your favorite things are.
Every high-quality woman, every woman looking for a lifelong relationship,
is asking herself when she's texting a guy, "Is he going to be, you know, could he maybe be the
one? Could he be a good husband? Would he be a good father? Would I enjoy doing life with him?"
And so she really wants to know who you are.
Now that obviously doesn't mean you just kind of dump
everything on her. But it also means that you need to focus on
something other than just flirting. You also do need to let her know who you are.
Sometimes that feels a little vulnerable to let someone in.
But if you want to spend your life with this person potentially,
it's important to start getting to know who each other really is.
All of these simple things help you create and nurture some serious attraction.
So by now, do you see how simple texting really can be?
It's really just a tool at the end of the day.
A tool to get to know her better, let her get to know you,
and to, again, help build and nurture that attraction.
So my question for you is, would you like to discover
how to really light that fire and make her fall deeply in love with you?
If you do, if you're nodding your head yes, watch that free masterclass.
It's a short, quick masterclass that explains the strategies, why they're so effective,
and how you can work with me to really apply them.
Just go to coachmelannie.com/masterclass.
I'll put a link in the description below and in the pinned comment.
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try a little bit of flirting and see how she relax- how she reacts.
Flirting is one of the best ways to kind of- Flirting?
Texting is one of the best ways to kind of try a little bit of flirting and see how she relax-
Relax! I keep saying the same thing! *sigh* I don't know where my brain is today.
It's gone, it went on vacation. I wish I could go
on vacation. Do you know where I'd go on vacation to? Disneyland, and then Paris.
But I can't do that right now. I have a video to finish.
[laughter] If I can get my brain to come back.