Now you must be honest about these questions, alright.
Okay.
Your answers.
When you think about the first time we met,
What do you remember?
Mmm, the way you looked at me.
That's it?
Yeah.
You don't remember much, then, go ahead.
[laughing]
Go ahead, you can do that.
You can actually tell me what you remember when you first met me?
I remember everything. I remember how you smelled, I remember what you was wearing...
I remember your response.
I remember how your eyes looked.
Do you remember how long it was?
Do I remember how-
How long ago-
How long ago? Of course I do.
Exactly.
Yeah, 25 years ago.
Okay...
24 years to be exact.
You think I'm going to remember 25 years ago? No!
Next question.
Yes. What do you love about our relationship?
Aw this is cute.
Go ahead.
After 25 years...
I'm still learning more things about you to love.
Do you know what I love about our relationship?
What's that?
The honesty.
We can be honest to each other.
I think you're lying about that.
[laughing]
I am, what is it?
Am I the best sex you ever had?
Very much so.
Awesome.
Absolutely, without a doubt.
Except for that one time.
Which time? Tell me.
[sighs]
It was random sex?
Yeah.
Awesome.
Random sex is actually awesome.
Do I have to answer that?
Of course you do.
Oh Jesus, okay.
Um, what was the question again? Let me just...
Am I the best sex you've ever had?
Umm...
Truthfully?
Be honest.
Truthfully, I had one time better.
But you are really great at what you do, and I'm sexually satisfied.
But yeah I had sex, I mean, because it was just
random I guess. It was just-
Do I know who it is?
No! I'm not gonna speak on it.
I've heard the person's name before. That's why.
No. no, no, no.
No, no, no.
It was just great for the moment.
I was um, feeling frisky and-
Can I please have a name?
I don't even know.
[laughing]
What would you do if I cheated on you?
Yeah, let me know. Go ahead. Hit me!
Tell me.
Tell you don't do that shit again.
That's it?
Yeah, and don't put it on Facebook.
Ah okay, and what else?
That's it.
No instagramming?
No...
Just don't let that shit go viral.
So what would I do if you cheated on me?
I was just be mad probably, disappointed but-
Forgiving?
Of course! Oh come on, seriously?
Alright.
You have been more forgiving of me than I have been to you. So...
That's very honest of you.
It's true!
I mean it's just, if you had to leave me for-
[protests]
No, no, let's just talk about this.
Now if you're gonna cheat on me and leave me for another woman, that's a different story.
I will take you for every penny you got, whatever whatever.
Legally, legal stuff? Yes. But nothing-
You would put me through some legal shit?
Of course. I would leave you completely butt naked with nothing to take with the other woman.
Of course. And I would sue her-
You would do the child thing and all that?
No my son, our son has nothing to do with it.
But I will gladly take you for everything you have, everything you will ever have,
and you will have to work for me for the rest of your life.
So, I mean a fling is okay but, I'm serious.
It's cheaper to keep her so, read the next one.
[laughing]
Uh oh, what is it?
[laughing]
Read it!
What would make you leave me?
Hmm, if you go back to your old ways.
Your old lifestyle,
that didn't do anything for you.
But just got you in trouble.
Pardon me, can I be in opposition to her answers?
Yeah you can! You have to be yourself.
I've been faithful, faithfully nonviolent for more than 10 years.
And I'm so proud of you.
I'm so proud of you.
Next question.
[laughing]
Let's see.
What do you wish had never been a part of your experience?
Of our experience?
My answer is one word. Prison.
I say the same thing, prison.
[sighing]
Tell me about the time I disappointed you.
Okay, let's go.
Tell me.
I know about it, but let's talk about it again.
Do you want to talk about it on camera?
Yeah, why not?
Alright.
No crying.
Alright, no tears.
Go ahead.
I'm in a little bit of discomfort, so I don't have to really...
Okay, the one time, the ultimate time
that you disappointed me is when
[sighing]
it was told to you that I was gonna be executed
and transported, well extradited to South Carolina
and
instead of you awaiting the results
of my sentencing,
whether it was for me to be executed
or whether it was for me to do life plus 30 years...
you chose to leave me
Mhm
while in solitary confinement
Mhm
that you knew I was in
because of
another girl.
And you knew no other girl meant any other thing
to me besides sex.
Do you want me to answer that?
I want you to answer the question from your perspective.
The one time that I disappoin-
Disappointed me the most is when, um
you told me that
you would never lie to me again.
and
you never told me you were married.
And when you told me you had married,
the first time
um, you told me that it was something
like
like waking up and brushing your teeth.
something like that, the explanation you gave me.
and when I saw you and her together...
that night, so happy, so in love,
that was disappointing.
Because you had told me something else.
And I believed you.
My turn.
What are you scared to tell me?
About some of the things that I've done.
Are you?
Yeah.
You don't think that I will understand?
No.
I'm not scared to tell you anything.
I've always be able to tell you everything.
Even when I was,
unfaithful.
So, no.
If you could change one thing in our relationship, what would it be?
And why?
In our relationship?
Truthfully, I like the way we are.
I like the way we are, I don't think...
not the relationship.
If I could,
Uh huh?
change our relationship, it would
it would be a portion of our history.
And why?
Because it was, it was so, uh
not just, not painful, but
it was too, um
it was
it was very complicated to
make it through a lot of the situations that we've made it through.
Yeah but, if we wouldn't have lived that...
we would not have been here today,
married for so long,
and have the relationship we have.
We had to endure what we had
in the past, we had to live.
We had to be where we were at.
We had to go through all we went through.
All the things we have accomplished, we have a son together...
We wasn't supposed to have children.
We wasn't supposed to have what we have now.
That was a pretty profound answer, right there.
What happened?
What is it? Read it!
Why do you love me?
Why do I love you...
Ooh...
I love you,
because you make me whole.
That's why you love me-
You make me a better woman.
That's why you love me?
Mhm.
So why do you love me?
Why do I love you?
Mhm.
After 18 and a half years...
Okay.
of
in and out of prison,
I'm 36 about to be 37.
Everything that I've ever thought about having in my life,
from the very first time that I was incarcerated,
at 13,
Yeah.
[sighing]
I have everything that I've ever desired in life.
You've assisted me with accomplishing
everything that I knew I needed in my life,
so that I wouldn't go back to prison.
So that I wouldn't be involved in the streets.
So I make you better?
You've perfected my,
my understanding of righteousness.
Perfected righteousness took you,
and us having a family.
And with that...
With that?
You owe me a margarita.
I'ma go get me a club soda.
[laughing]
Because I'm still on parole, I can't drink it.