Hey there, this is Clay with relationship inner game and first of all we want to talk
to some of those people out there who are going through a breakup and maybe want to
get back together with their ex.
So today I want to share with you five things that your ex misses about you, because I know
that when you're going through a breakup, it can sometimes be difficult because it seems
like, you know, your ex just shutting you off and that they never cared about you or,
that maybe you were left with these thoughts that maybe the two of you, you know, weren't
in a real relationship or that it didn't mean anything to them or something like that.
But I promise you that it did.
And in fact, here are five things that your ex definitely misses about you.
Number one is your ex misses
the way that the two of you used to be able to just be completely yourselves around each
other the way that you used to.
Just be able to talk about your feelings, talk about, you know, your goals, your dreams,
your hopes, whatever that stuff might have been, and just be totally vulnerable and transparent
with each other and this, you know, it doesn't necessarily include all the, like deep serious
stuff like your feelings and, and the future and your goals and passions in life.
But it could also just be like silly little things too, like the little inside jokes that
you had or are little, you know, pet names that you had for each other.
Just things like that.
Number two, the second thing that your ex, misses about you is the warmth that you had,
the warmth of your personality that the two of you had when you were together.
The way that you could just sort of melt into one another.
Not in a weird clingy sort of way, but in a, in a way where we're both of you knew that
you loved one another and you can trust each other.
You could open up to each other and just be yourselves and bring a 100 percent of your
warmth and your own personality and all of that to the table.
So that is the second thing that your ex definitely misses about their time with you.
The third thing that your ex misses about you is those, those moments that the two of
you could really only share, you know, maybe that was a trip that you took together to,
you know, the beach or the ocean, or maybe it was, some like adventure that you took
together where you went out and visited another country or another city or something like
that.
Where were they just kind of look back and they're just always going to remember that
was a time that they shared with you.
That was a time that the two of you had together that those are some things that your ex is
always going to remember and always going to associate with you.
The fourth thing that your ex definitely does miss about you is on the other end of the
spectrum are the small every day sort of mundane things that the two of you did together.
Whether that was, you know, just getting up in the, on the weekend and going for breakfast
at some like little brunch place or having coffee together or you know, just the way
that the light came in from the window and sort of would, would shine on you or something
like that when you were still sleeping in the morning and just these like super tiny,
insignificant little things that you would overlook.
Your ex does miss those things about you because those were, those are, I mean, you know.
Sure.
There are these big grand things that people do in their lives.
I go visit other cities, go on vacations, go to someone's wedding or whatever.
And they have these big sort of hallmark, you know, circle it with the red marker kind
of moments.
But, but really your life is made up of the small everyday moments.
And those are the things that your ex also misses about you as well too.
And the fifth thing that your ex misses about you after your breakup is really just the
whole idea and the whole belief that that spending time together with you was something
that would make their life better.
That somehow being together is something that would make the future better, that would make
their life better, that would be uplifting for both of you and that they could look forward
to some sort of tomorrow that would be better than their yesterdays.
And that is something that your ex really does miss.
Okay.
So the big takeaway from all of this is that if you are missing your ex, if you do want
to get back together with your ex, you want to be able to re ignite all of these things
so that you can really remind them and give them a really good reason for wanting to get
back together with you.
That means dropping all of the mind games and all that stuff that maybe you learned
about on some other weird website or some other weird youtube channel.
I'm dropping the reverse psychology, dropping the, the desperation, begging, pleading, all
of that stuff and just just being that warm, loving person, that warm, transparent person,
that person that was fun to be with that person, that, that was just an uplifting part of their
day and uplifting part of their life and being that person again, be willing to make their
tomorrow seem like something that's more hopeful than maybe there yesterday or today.
Okay.
So that's kind of the big takeaway and if you'd like to learn more about how to do all
of this, if you'd like to learn more about how to get back together with your ex and
save your relationship, please head on over to our website www.relationshipinnergame.com.
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