- I don't think we've ever done that before.
And it was really good.
(acoustic guitar music)
- I definitely do think I have fears.
- I'm a worry wart.
- Let's just say I used to be very secure as a person.
- We definitely have the standard fears and worries.
- One of my exes, he ended up telling me
that he actually cheated on me after I broke up with him.
How do I know this time is different?
Because that's what I think every single time.
- Chris was my first serious relationship,
you know, my first boyfriend.
I haven't dated other people.
How do I know this is it?
- There's part of me that worries
that we'll put in all these years, and it came to nothing.
- That's scary, 'cause when do you know, exactly,
what you need to know to get married?
- Well Jeff has diabetes, and it's manageable,
but it destroys organs,
and I worry that he might go.
I mean, everybody goes.
But I wanna go first.
- We hug kind of constantly.
- We hug a lot.
- Once every day?
- I think she wrote down somewhere that
"When Jeff's upset, I'm just gonna hug him."
- I wrote it down, but when he makes me angry,
that's the last thing I wanna do is hug him.
- Four minutes?
- We're gonna hug for four minutes?
(laughs)
- That's a long time. - That's great.
(laughs)
- You're going with the hands down here.
(laughs)
(emotional piano music)
- I'm looking at the ring you designed for me.
(sniffs)
- A lot of changes in just a few years, huh?
You know I'm really grateful for you, right?
(laughs)
- My neck is all getting stiff.
Like oh, getting old. - I'll hold you.
It's okay.
- That was four minutes?
Wow. - It goes so fast.
- I feel really good.
I feel like,
I wanna hug again. (laughs)
- I'm thinking about some of the things he said.
I think the physical touch, it made it better.
- I think I felt very comfortable, because it was him.
You don't always feel, you don't know what to say.
But you're always willing to hug me or hold me.
- It actually felt very relaxing, and almost therapeutic.
- The return, when someone just,
you know let's you know it's gonna be okay.
You don't have to use words to tell someone
it's gonna be okay.
- There's just like, a new experience for me.
By being in the same space, and talk about things.
- I think, too, the gift of a hug.
It's free.
It's a beautiful thing.
We should do that more often.
Not when I'm mad at you though, but.