7 Types of Guys Women Find Irresistible [0:00:00]
[Music] I went through tons of women’s magazines,
websites, gathering intel on how do they classify us and what do they find attractive.
First up, the beef cake. You go to the gym, you take care of your body, you treat your
body like a temple. And it shows because you’ve got the abs, you’ve got the guns. You’ve
got that chest that she just wants to put her hands on.
Here’s the thing. No surprise, women love to look at a fit man. But, here’s the thing,
when women do see a fit guy, they do have a stereotype. They view this guy as good for,
yeah, he’s a one-night stand. This guy is a player. This is someone that’s really
only good for a short term relationship. Now, I’m sure for a lot of you guys, not
a bad thing. But, here’s the thing, what if you want a lot term relationship and she
instantly writes you off as, yeah, looking like somebody that, nah, he doesn’t have
any brains. Now, guys, I’m pulling all these information
from a 2007 study coming out of the University of LA, where they looked at 286 pictures of
men with different body types and how women judge them and again and again if the guy
was in really good shape, they’re like, oh, he’s good for a one-night stand for
a really short term relationship. But, on the flipside of this, levels of intelligence
were viewed as lower. So, it is something people are making an assumption that you can’t
have the body and have the brains and this does apply to men.
Now, how to minimize the stereotype and maximize the upside benefit? I would say simply show
less skin. Wear a long sleeve shirt, wear trousers that fully cover the legs. Here’s
the thing, when you show more skin, you’re also viewed as less intelligent.
Now, if you wear a clothing that fits your body, everyone’s going to be able to see
you are in great shape. But, by you covering your body looking more professional, all of
a sudden it’s going to make you look more intelligent more competent.
The next stereotype, the silver fox. So, this is based off a 2018 Scottish study coming
out of Abertay University and they actually called this The George Clooney Effect.
In summary, women are very much attracted to older men who are in good shape, who have
taken care of themselves, basically, their ideal of the silver fox. This guy has some
years, he has stability, has things going for him. At the same time, he takes care of
his body. Notice I didn’t say body building. You don’t
need to look good in swim trunks, you just need to look good in a suit.
Now, it’s no surprise in the dating world, when you say that men care about looks and
women care about financial stability. But, what this study emphasized is that when a
woman becomes more financially stable, she actually looks at more than just the money
her partner has. She also looks at his appearance and she really
likes it when a guy takes care of himself even if he’s got the gray hair and he’s
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The next stereotype, the high status man. Women are pretty open about this. They’re
drawn to a man that’s successful. Now, what does success mean? Well, for many people it
is going to be money. Although most guys call women who go after money, gold diggers, what
it comes down to is women are smart in that regard that they understand, hey, most relationships
fail because of money problems. So, why not have that taken care of before we even get
into it? Now, this is based off a 2010 study coming
out of a British Journal of Psychology. And they actually took Bentley versus the Ford
Fiesta. So, they took the same guy in the same post and they had them next to two different
vehicles. On one vehicle, he’s standing next to a
Ford Fiesta. On the other one, he’s standing next to a Bentley. And guess which one the
ladies absolutely loved? Yes, as you can probably guess, the guy standing next to the Bentley
was viewed as much more attractive than that same guy who is shown to other women next
to the Ford Fiesta. Now, what’s interesting about this study
is they did the same thing for men. They actually had a woman next to Ford Fiesta, a woman next
to the Bentley and for guys it didn’t make any difference. We just zeroed in on the woman.
And, let’s not forget the effect of a well-fitted jacket or suit. WE went over to Reddit and
looked at what women were saying about well-dressed man and again and again, women were saying,
“You know what? I used to date a guy, he wasn’t a lawyer, but he wore a suit every
day. And now, I am spoiled. It was so damn hot the way he dressed.”
There was another story of a woman who started dating a guy because he just always dressed
so well. She assumed he was really financially successful. He wasn’t as financially successful
as she thought, but she kept staying with him. She’s like he just looks so damn good
and he had so much potential. [0:04:57]
Now, I get it. There’s lot of guys out there that say this whole status thing is hollow,
it’s not truly who you are, but if you actually enjoy the clothing, if you enjoy the cars,
have fun with them and reap the advantages. The next stereotype, the caring dog owner.
Now, to me what’s interesting about this stereotype is how it can have a huge positive
effect on a bad boy. So, let’s say you got a little bit of a troubled past, you got that
bad boy-type of look, but you want to date a good girl.
So, there was a 2014 study out of the University of Michigan where they took a hundred women
and they showed them this photo of a guy they called [Akad?]. This is a guy that cheats
on women, has had bad relationships, but here’s what’s interesting. If they showed them
the picture and he was with a dog versus without a dog, they were much more likely to find
this man attractive. There was this belief that he could be reformed.
Okay. This guy cares about animals, so there is hope for him versus if you aren’t with
an animal. Point being, guys, is if you want to send off a very strong signal of you are
someone that has a heart, make sure to have an animal.
And, by the way, I’m not saying get a dog for dating reasons, but I am saying if you
own one, have a picture of you with the animal in your dating profile.
And the next stereotype we’re going to cover, let’s talk about the bad boy a.k.a. the
outlaw. Now, in general when someone is considered a bad boy, they’ve got the dark triad personality
traits of narcissism, psychopathy, and Machiavellianism. Narcissism being where you’re focused in
on yourself. Psychopathy meaning you can have erratic behavior. Maybe on the surface you
come off as charming, but deep down you’re actually callous, you don’t want to have
relationships. You start to push people away. And, with Machiavellianism, these people are
very opportunistic and they’re not afraid to manipulate.
Now, it’s very well-known especially with younger women that they are attracted to the
bad boy. That being said, women that reached full maturity into adulthood meaning that
they don’t play games, they’re looking for a life mate are actually repelled oftentimes
by the bad boy attitude. For our next stereotype, let’s talk about
the comedian a.k.a. the joker. Now, a lot of guys may view getting stereotyped as a
joker is a bad thing, but it actually depends on what type of joker you’re getting classified
as. You see, there’s unattractive low brow humor.
That’s the guy that’s making fart jokes all the time. No, yeah, it’s funny, maybe
we’re laughing, but women are not being attracted to this versus high level humor.
This is the guy that actually is using sarcasm, he’s using really high level jokes, shows
women that this guy is intelligent and that they can find very attractive and they often
show their attraction through actually responding to the jokes with laughter.
You see, a good comedian, he understands that laughter isn’t about canned jokes, it’s
about interaction with the audience. In this case, her you throwing things at and her playfully
coming back. This interaction this flirting is what you want to go for.
The next stereotype that women find attractive, the adventurer. So, why do women find adventurers
attractive? Well, gents, it has to do with risk. But not just any type of risk. Gentlemen,
we’re talking about hunter gatherer risks, not modern risks.
Let me explain the difference. So, you could take a risk driving around town without a
seatbelt. Are women going to find that attractive? No. Based off a 2014 study coming out of the
University of Alaska, they found that hunter gatherer risks and these are things that you
can do that showed your prowess such as deep sea diving, skydiving, mountain biking. These
things are viewed as very attractive. So, in your dating profile, don’t be afraid
to show photos that you like to jump out of planes, preferably with a parachute.
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