Hey Dan here and I want to share a game-changing piece of advice for my
fellow ENFPs. If you're trying to make big positive change in your life, if
you're trying to move forward toward something but you keep finding yourself
getting stuck or you're not really satisfied with your momentum, then pay
attention, you're going to learn a ton in this video. Now if you're new here to
the channel my name is Dan I am the creator of Dreams Around The World and
ENFP Unleashed and here at Dreams Around The World my goal is to help you become
the best version of yourself all while creating the most awesome life possible
for you and those you love. So as ENFPs we have a bit of a problem
sometimes where when we get a little overwhelmed when we are trying to take
on a lot or we're trying to make a change in our lives, we get overwhelmed
and we feel that the way to deal with that often is to clean up the past. It's
like: okay, I'm struggling I'm feeling a bit stuck, so why don't I go backwards
and deal with the clutter, maybe with the paperwork, maybe with clearing up some
things with a therapist or something like that looking to the past and
feeling like until we deal with the past and get things really organized and
really well set up that we're not going to be able to move to the future that we
want and there's some truth to that the aspect of having a great foundation of
not having too many loose ends, bad relationships kind of bringing you down
or all these things on your mind - like, I got to catch up on my accounting, I've
got to do that paperwork I've got to clean that stuff up and I'll do another
video on that soon about cleaning that stuff up and how to get a really clear
head, but here's the problem - when do ENFPs thrive? When we're looking
to the future, when we're creating. What do we love? Possibilities, new things, right?
ENFPs don't get excited about looking to the past, about dealing with
some paperwork, about clearing things up and, yes, there are people who actually do
get really excited by that, but it's not us and so what you're doing when you
look to the past is you're using some of the weakest parts of your personality
and you're putting all your energy into that which is going to leave you feeling
really drained and you're not going to accomplish very much but when you look
to the future when you create an inspiring vision, when you think about
what it is you really want to doing and the change you can make and
the future possibilities - that's when you get excited, right? I'm not alone with
that. This is when we get so so excited is when we're looking to what we can
actually accomplish and change with the future so what I would most recommend by
far if you're feeling like you aren't where you want to be and you want to
make a change but you're concerned with the past is temporarily forget the past,
focus on the future you want to create, focus on that future get excited by it
get excited by the possibilities, create a new empowering vision for what it is
you want that will energize you that will put you in the strongest part of
your personality. You will be fired up, you will be energized and work in that
world and then the end of the day clean up some paperwork, talk to a therapist,
organize your apartment. That will be easy because you will be so inspired and
fired up by what you're working on most of the time that doing a little
paperwork no big deal or go another approach and this is something that I
tend to do is focus on using that super power of yours - focus on creating the
future on working in that area that has you so excited and then make a bunch of
money doing that and it's easier to hire some help: hire a cleaner, hire someone to
help keep you organized that becomes a lot easier because you're earning money
doing the thing you do really well in either case, either approach with this,
focus on the future, focus on creating something empowering,
inspiring and when you do that you'll have more than enough energy to do
everything else. So in the comments I want to know what do you think: is it
better to focus on the future to get inspired by doing something new or is it
better to clean up your past and deal with loose ends? Let me know below in the
comments. As always I publish new videos every Sunday, Tuesday and Thursday at 6
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