Hello my wonderful friend! Today's video is on 5 behaviors that are extremely attractive to women.
This right here this is how to be attractive to women. Are you struggling right now to attract
the type of woman you are looking for, the type of woman you would want to spend your life with? Or
do your relationships like go nowhere? Maybe you date for a while and then it ends in a terrible
breakup? Or maybe you finally get to the second date and then she ghosts you? If any of that
sounds like you right now then you need to know what we're talking about in this video. So pay
close attention and make sure you watch to the end so that you can understand how to instead attract
and keep your dream girl. Sound good? Now before we dive in, if this is your first time watching
my channel, welcome! My name is Melannie. I'm a Christian dating coach for men and I teach you how
to find attract and keep the girl of your dreams. So make sure you subscribe, ring the notification
bell, and give me a big thumbs up. The best part is as a certified coach, guys, I never teach you
mind games, okay? I only teach you real skills that actually work. Okay, where are my sports
lovers? You guys have probably heard that being in the right mindset is how you win the game, right?
That's just how it works. As true as this is for football it's actually true when it comes to
winning your dream relationship as well. Mindset really is everything. And in this video I'm going
to teach you 5 incredibly important mindsets that make you extremely attractive to women. In short,
if you are looking for a classy, high quality woman, someone to spend your whole life with,
these are the mindsets you need to have and create, like starting now. Okay, behaviors that
make you extremely attractive to women number one is to think possible. Sometimes as humans,
and it's very very normal, we think in terms of no. No, that's not possible. No, that won't work.
No, that won't work for me. No, I could never be that attractive. No, I could never have that
kind of girl. And when we think in terms of no we actually turn off the creative part of our brain.
And so then we can't think of any positive options. We can't think of any possibilities.
Whereas instead, if we think in terms of possible, even though it's scary, it's vulnerable to go
there, that's totally normal if it scares you, that makes you human. But if instead,
you think possible, "How could that work? What could I do?" that turns on the creative part of
your brain and that's how you find solutions and that's how you make the impossible possible. A
man who thinks possible in relationships, in himself, his self-improvement, how he looks,
who thinks possible in life, that kind of man, that kind of man lights her heart on fire,
because anything is possible with someone like that. This is very similar to what you learned
in this video about growth mindset. If you haven't watched that video yet,
oh my goodness, you need to go watch it. It's really good. There's a link in the description
below. Make sure you give it a watch as well. Okay, the next behavior that makes you extremely
attractive to women is when you think long term. You want a long-term relationship, right? That's
why you're here right now. You want someone to happily spend the rest of your life with and
be crazy in love with, right? Well in order to do that you need to start thinking long term. How do
you create a relationship like that? How are you going to create a long-term relationship? How are
you going to maintain a long-term relationship? If you've been following me for a while you guys know
I teach you about game plans. You have to have a game plan for how you're going to do this and
how you're going to keep it long-term. A lot of men have no problem attracting women initially,
but then the attraction dies, or then they have a bad breakup, or then she ghosts them. If that's
you this is your problem. You need to start thinking long term. So how do you do that? You
need to make sure you have the skills to create a relationship, to maintain a relationship, and
a game plan for what you are going to do. Again, back to the football analogy, guys, if you have no
game plan you're not going to win the game. That just makes sense, doesn't it? If you want to get
results and you want to get results fast you need the right skills and the right game plan.
I have a free masterclass where I'm going to teach you more about this. If you want to find her,
if you want to attract her, and you want to make sure you can keep her instead of lose her,
you need to know what's in that free masterclass. There's a link in the description below and I will
also put a link in the pinned comment. Want to attract the right kind of woman and want to make
sure you keep her once you do? You need to know what's in that masterclass, so click that link,
again it's totally free, and I'll see you over there. The next behavior that makes you extremely
attractive to women is when you think confidently. When you have a mindset of confidence you're,
I don't even have words, you're insanely attractive. Confidence is what I like to call
attractive by default. In my program I teach my clients how to become attractive by default,
your default setting is to be attractive. Which is amazing, right? That's what everybody wants,
right? And confidence is one of the best ways to do that. This is why it's one of my favorite
things to teach. When a man is confident she feels comfortable with you, she feels safe with you,
she sees you as masculine, and she's just drawn to you. As humans, we love to be around people
who are confident. And in addition to that toxic people do not like confident people. So if you
attract a lot of toxic women you need to work on your confidence. And you're going to feel amazing,
and that's what helps you attract those classy women instead. A confident mindset is one of
the most attractive things a man can have. So is this making sense so far? Are you seeing why these
mindsets are so attractive and so important? As a matter of fact let's practice right now. We're
going to practice thinking positive and we're going to practice confidence. Comment "boss" right
now if you are committing to thinking possible and learning those skills and getting that game plan
so you can get that dream girl. Seriously, we're practicing, so in the comments, leave "boss!" Do
it. I'm gonna look for it. Okay, the next behavior that is extremely attractive is when you think
proactively. This is similar to thinking possible. It's normal to feel insecure about some things.
It's normal to think maybe you're too fat, too short, too skinny, to whatever, and think that
there's nothing you can do about it. That makes you human. All humans feel that way. But instead,
think proactively. What can you do? What can you do about it? Yes, you probably can't change
your height, but what can you do instead to be as absolutely as attractive as you can?
The truth is we're all human and we all have things about ourselves we're self-conscious about,
your dream girl included. And if we sit around and we focus on those things
we're not going to make any improvement. But if instead, we say, "You know what?
I can't change certain things about myself but I am going to focus on how i can proactively be as
attractive as I can." A good example of this is I have a lot of men tell me, "Melannie, I'm losing
hair and I'm really embarrassed about it." Some of the most attractive men I have ever seen have just
embraced it, they've shaved their heads completely bald, and they are incredibly attractive. You want
to know why they're incredibly attractive? It's because they're still proactive, they dress nice,
they exercise, they have confident, masculine body language, they didn't just give up because
their hair was thinning. The same thing is true, some of the most attractive men
I have ever seen in all honesty are barely taller than me. Guys, I'm short and they're like an inch
taller than me at the most. And you know what? I didn't even care because they were so attractive,
because they dressed nice and they had confident body language and they they
were attractive and they focused on what they could do. So someone who thinks proactively
in all areas of life, that right there is what makes you attractive. That's the kind of man she
wants to spend her life with. If you have not yet seen this video on how to be attractive to women
you need to watch it. It's going to help you so much and frankly comfort you
so much. So be proactive, watch that video. There's a link in the description below. Okay,
the next behavior that makes you extremely attractive to women is when you think about her.
I'm gonna be completely honest with you guys, she only wants two things out of a relationship. Two.
She wants to love, and she wants to be loved. One of the main mistakes I see a lot of guys making
is they mistake ego for confidence and they think that by thinking, "Oh, I'm all that in a
bag of chips. Everybody's gonna love me," they think that that means confidence. It does not.
And so if you come across as arrogant to her, if you come across as having a big ego to her,
then that says you won't love her. If she feels like you love yourself more than you'll love her
then it's not going to work out. She's not looking for a relationship like that. Because again,
she wants to love and she wants to be loved. And if she doesn't feel like you will love her
because you're too obsessed with yourself she's not interested.
This is why one of the main things, the very top things women look for in a partner is kindness.
So you need to make sure that you are thinking about her and her needs, you're being gentlemanly,
you're being gentle, you're being compassionate, you're being kind and patient. This makes her
think, "Wow, this man would make an incredible lifelong partner. He would be an incredible father
to our future children." That's how women think. So if you show her you're thinking about her,
that right there is extremely attractive. That is how to be attractive to women. Okay,
I know I promised you five things but I actually have a bonus so pay close attention.
Our next behavior that is extremely attractive to women is when you think classy,
not apathy. Do you want a classy woman? Do you want a woman who's going to love you forever,
a woman who wants to spend her life with you? If you want that kind of woman you need to make sure
you are also a classy man. This means being classy in how you interact with her. That's why learning
the right skills and the right game plan is so important. So again, watch that free masterclass.
Do it right now. It also means being classy in your lifestyle, in your language, how you dress,
how you interact with people. If you want a classy woman you need to make sure you are proactive
about being a classy man. So ask yourself how you can be more classy. And if you want my help
with that that's something I help men with all the time. You will learn more about that in the free
masterclass as well so make sure you check it out. Okay, let's sum up what you have learned so far.
5 behaviors that are extremely attractive to women. This is how to be attractive to women.
Number one is to think possible. Rather than saying nope and turning off the creative side
of your brain ask yourself how could this be possible. This is true in relationships
and in yourself. The next thing is to think long term. If you want a long-term relationship
you got to know how to have that, how to create that, how to attract that kind of woman, right?
Next step is to think confidently. Confidence makes you attractive by default. This is why I
spend so much time teaching it and this is why my clients see results so quickly. Do you want
to be attractive to women? You need to learn how to have that confident mindset. And the truth is
it makes you feel amazing and you deserve that, right? Next up is to think proactively. What
can you do? What can you focus on? How can you improve? Women aren't looking for perfection,
unless they're toxic, but they don't count, right? She's not looking for perfection, she's looking
for someone who is proactive. The next thing you need to know about how to be attractive to women
is that you need to think about her. She wants to love and be loved. And she won't believe that you
will love her if she feels like you don't even care about her. So make sure that you are also
thinking about her and her needs. And, think classy and how you can be a more classy person.
That is how you attract a classy woman. Thank you so much for watching, my amazing friend! If
you learned something new be sure to give me a big thumbs up and subscribe and ring that notification
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and have an amazing day! [blooper beep] Let's do this. Let's pump it up! Yeah! [laughter]
Okay, never mind. My brain is like everywhere. It's like [motion] Have
you ever felt that? [motion] That's how it feels, huh? How do you- [dog barking]
That's my dog. He got really excited. Yay. I don't know. [laughter] Okay,
the next behavior that makes you incredibly, extremely- Extremely-credibly. [laughter]
Okay, we're good.