- Before we actually made it official,
I was talking to other guys.
- [Interviewer] Were you sleeping with other guys?
I was, yes.
- [Interviewer] Does he know about this?
Oh my gosh, um...
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- [Interviewer] What's your name?
- My name is Ricky.
I am engaged to Katie.
- I met her almost three years ago,
on a dating site.
- [Interviewer] How long have you been engaged?
- For about a year.
- Well she told me we got engaged
right around Valentine's Day.
I thought we was been engaged before that
but she told me.
(interviewer laughing)
I go by what she says.
- I met her at the one place
I was told never to meet anybody.
I met her at a bar.
- We kind of exchanged glances
and he came up to me
and told me how beautiful I was
and was really charming.
- I was really drunk.
- [Interviewer] Describe your first date.
I have a really poor memory.
So her answers are probably going
to be totally different.
I think we went out for dinner
and I think we went to the mall.
- She just came over to my apartment.
We smoked, we drank, watched TV.
- [Interviewer] When was your first kiss?
- We went on a walk.
He asked if he could kiss me,
and I was like, yeah, okay.
- Megan just has these luscious lips
that are like pillows to dive into.
(man laughing)
So I loved it.
- [Interviewer] What do you remember about the kiss?
- Beard (deep breath).
He had a full thing.
I never kissed a guy with all that.
So I was like, all right, we're going to work on that.
He ended up shaving everything for me,
not too long after that (laughs).
- Well, she came walking out the bathroom
and I just grabbed her and kissed her.
She backed up and she looked up
and she goes.
- Did you ever think
for one second that your last first kiss
was going to be in front of a bathroom,
in a bar?
- And I said, oh, I wasn't thinking about that.
- [Interviewer] Were you instantly
in a serious relationship?
- I dated her before she dated me.
- Before we actually made it official,
I was talking to other guys.
'Cause I thought he was kind of just like
a fuck boy.
- To her I was a fuck boy.
I didn't realize that she even thought
that about me at first.
- [Interviewer] Were you sleeping with other guys?
- I was, yes.
- [Interviewer] Does he know about this?
- Yes.
- [Interviewer] Was she sleeping with other guys?
- Probably.
She wouldn't tell, she would send me a text message.
I'll text her and say like, what are you up to?
And then she'll just text me,
don't worry, be happy.
I'm like, that's the weirdest response
to that question I've ever gotten.
But it happened more than once.
So I'm like, okay,
this is code for something.
- [Interviewer] Who wanted to get married more?
- I mean, Probably George.
He's more vocal about like,
what he wants and desires and stuff.
- She did, you know, once we had connected
I think she was really feeling that impulse faster.
- She wants to get married more right now.
For sure, it's her.
- Maybe me.
I always mentioned to her,
I'm like, can we get married now?
Like, do you want to get married tomorrow?
- [Interviewer] Who wanted to get married more?
- Definitely him.
- Definitely me.
- I'm actually kind of against
the whole marriage as an institution type thing.
- [Interviewer] Why are you getting married?
- Because, (sighs) we see a future together.
- [Interviewer] Couldn't you do that
without getting married?
- Oh yeah, definitely we could do that
without getting married.
But, I like the symbolism of it.
- It's kind of putting in writing, you know,
something that I very much feel.
- He is truly my best friend.
We're so compatible.
We have so much in common.
You can have sex with anybody
but have been with your best friend and your partner.
Not something I've ever really experienced before.
- The reason we're getting married
is to protect our assets, we're old.
- [Interviewer] Have you ever doubted
your relationship?
- Yes.
- Of course, I think that's pretty natural.
- We kind of fight a lot.
Couple months ago we like broke up
for like a week.
- I definitely doubted our relationship.
- [Interviewer] What do you think he'll say?
- Honestly, think he'll say no.
- Yes, I have doubted it a bunch of times.
I've doubted myself in it.
I've doubted if I was actually in love,
maybe I was just infatuated.
I don't know.
I doubted if she was like,
ever going to come around
and like, try to get on the same page as me.
- [Interviewer] Do you believe in soulmates?
- Yes.
- [Interviewer] Is he your soulmate?
- Yes.
- If I did believe in soulmates,
yes she would be my soulmate.
- [Interviewer] But you don't believe
in soulmates (laughs)?
- No, I don't, I don't believe in soulmates.
- I believe in the experience of soulmates.
But if we're going to carry along with that belief,
there's one person out of the many billions
on this planet, I don't ascribe to that.
I think that's just kind of princess thinking.
- It's not something I would teach my kids.
Like, oh yeah (laughs), soulmates are real.
Only depend on that as fact.
- I think you can have multiple soulmates.
- [Interviewer] Is he one of your many soulmates?
- Definitely.
- Me and Desi get it.
We never stay mad at each other
longer than a couple hours.
It's always over fast.
We have these long conversations about anything.
Some of these conversations I can't even have
with family members or friends that
I've known for forever.
- [Interviewer] So she's your soulmate?
- I feel like she's my soulmate.
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