Tripp Kramer here from Tripp Advice.com.
If you're watching this right now,
then you might have some issues with a
girl that you're dating or a girl that
you're in a relationship with or maybe
even your wife. And you think she might
be cheating on you. Well what I'm going to be
doing today is I'm going to be going over
some of the biggest telltale signs that
a girl or a woman or your significant
other is doing when she's cheating on
you. Now this is stuff that I have had
experience with in my past relationships.
I've had experience with this talking to
other people who've been in
relationships where their significant
other has been cheating and these are
the biggest signs. I want you to stay
tuned until the end because I am going
to offer a solution for you. It's not
just enough to know whether or not she's
cheating and know the signs because
listen, at the end of the day let's be
realistic, even if these signs are here
it doesn't necessarily mean she's a
hundred percent cheating on you. But if
you're seeing these it is possible and
then we're going to go into the solution
to figure this out once and for all.
Let's go ahead and get into it. The first
big sign that she might be cheating on
you is the sex is less frequent or poor.
There is no order to these.
Everything is pretty much equal. There's
not one that's more important than the
other, but either way everything here is
something that you should be looking out
for. Is the sex in your relationship less
frequent or is it kind of moved to a
level where it's not as good? Meaning,
she's not as into it anymore where you
guys still do it even on a frequent
basis, but she doesn't seem into it. She
doesn't seem excited. You seem to be the
one who's always trying to initiate it.
This is something you got to be
paying attention to because if a woman
is cheating on you or she is seeking
something outside of the relationship
that means that she's less interested in
having sex with you or maybe she's
actually having sex with someone else
which is causing her to not be as
interested in having sex with you. Pay
attention to that. What's happening with
that? How often are you guys getting
intimate? And don't just look at the sex
part of it. Even look at just the
smaller intimate details. Is she kissing
you a lot? Is she being very affectionate
with you it? Has that been less? Is she
not doing that as much? Remember, if she's
seeking something outside of the
relationship, she's getting her needs fulfilled
there and not with you so pay
attention to what's going on here with
anything sex, touching, intimacy, affection,
because that is one of the first things
to go when a girl is cheating on you.
Next, and this is a big one. This is
something that comes in many different
forms. Basically I put here "she always
had somewhere to be other than with you."
I could say a lot of
different things here. There's
many things. Maybe she's very cliche
she's working late, or she's always at
work or there's a big project going on
or maybe she has you know a lot of other
people to hang out with and she's going
out a lot. She's just always doing
something and she's not spending time
with you. Again, this could be
multiple situations. Whether you live
with her or you don't live with her, this
can still be the case. She's never home.
So she's your roommate, you guys
are living together, she's never home,
she's always somewhere else, it's
possible she might be cheating on you.
It's possible. We don't know for sure.
If you guys are dating and you
don't live together, well there is the
potential that she's actually spending
more time with other people other than
you because she's with somebody else.
Again, these are some signs you should be
looking for on a more frequent basis. If
this is just happening one week and you
just seem to be paranoid, well maybe
that's not the case. Maybe she does have
a lot of work to do or she does have a
lot of events going on. Look at
all of these with a more critical eye.
Don't be so caught up that she might be
cheating just because this is happening. I want
you to be looking at these and seeing.
Are they happening all the time? There are
things not adding up correctly?
This is another big thing we should be paying
attention, her not wanting to spend time
with you because she might be spending
time with somebody else. Here's another
big one and this can come in many
different forms is acting more private.
This could be her hiding her phone or
maybe making sure that you're not able
to look at her phone or something's
going on where she doesn't tell you
exactly where she's going. She's a little
vague with details and maybe in the past
she wasn't like that. You know, it's very
obvious like "Oh okay tonight at
8:00 I'm going to see Jenny and
we're going to hang out or I'm going to
this work event that is about blah blah
blah. If she seems to be more vague and
everything is a little bit more private
and you're not really understanding what
she's doing and everything is very cryptic,
this could be a sign that she's
cheating, that she's off somewhere else
doing something that she's not able to
explain in detail to you because she's
lying and she's doing something behind
your back. Again, and I should note this
cheating comes in a few different forms.
There's emotional cheating and
there's physical cheating. She could
be not hooking up with a guy or having
sex with the guy or touching a guy but
she could be in a what's called
emotional relationship with a guy where
they're telling each other that they
like each other, she's flirting a lot
with him, she's doing things with him
that would act as if it's a relationship
but it's not. But again, that is
still cheating because she is acting
emotionally intimate with
someone else. So if she's acting private at
all, vague, things are unclear. This is
another sign that she's potentially
cheating on you. This is sort of
similar to you know her always having to
be somewhere. A new friend she's hanging
out with. Maybe there's a new friend you
haven't met yet. She keeps on mentioning
this new friend and she's telling you the
truth in some aspects like maybe she is
telling you she met a guy that's a new
friend but you never meet him, you know
you're never able to meet him. Something
is going on there, there's always some sort
of excuse or maybe she's lying and she's
making up some friend or some girlfriend
that she's hanging out with a lot or she
does have a real girlfriend that she
keeps on saying she's hanging out with a
lot and you're like wow she keeps on
hanging out with her friend Jenny like
all the time. This is weird. I wonder
what's going on. This is abnormal. Usually
she doesn't spend a lot of time with her.
Be wary of that as well. Another one
is she thinks you're cheating. This
is a sign of projection. She's
projecting on to you. She's very wary of
you and maybe accusing you of cheating
and people sometimes might do that
because they know in the back of their
minds and they're doing it and they
think well if I'm doing it well then
it's possible that my partner is doing
it. This is her projecting that
thought on to you. If she seems to be
projecting that onto you and asking you
questions or being wary of you and
you're like what the hell? I'm
not all right I'm not doing any
cheating. That's not what I'm doing at all.
Her being very wary of that could
mean that she's actually doing it. I know
that sounds crazy, but that is a very big
possibility. Again the idea of projection.
What do you do if you're watching
this and you're like wow all these are
coming up? These are a bunch of
signs that I'm seeing. Here's the
thing. We don't want to accuse her
of cheating. We don't want to even assume
she's cheating, but obviously something
is building up inside of you and you're
feeling like something is off in the
relationship. I don't want you to take
these things and be like oh my god all
these things are happening. I need to
tell her she's a cheater. No that's not
what we want to do. We want to talk to
her. We want to communicate with her and
we don't want to use the word cheating.
We don't want to go there. Instead, you
need to communicate with her and talk to
her about some of the problems you're
seeing. If you're seeing some of these
things happening on a frequent basis.
That she's not spending time with you,
she seems to be being a little bit more private,
the sex is not as frequent, the intimacy
is not as frequent or as intense as it
used to be, then you talk to her about
that. You tell her about that. You say
that you have concerns in the
relationship that something is going on
and you want to discuss and you want to
see what's happening. I
wouldn't use the word cheat. I wouldn't do
anything of any accusations. But she
might come out, she might tell you, who
knows? Maybe you can say in a way not in
an accusatory way. You can say, you know I
got worried here. I'm getting worried
that you might be seeing someone else.
And that's just something that I've been
thinking. You're not saying that
she's doing it, but you telling her that
this is something that you're thinking.
At the end the day, here what's
really important is you want to
communicate with her. Talk to her. Let her
know what's going on. Don't just sit here
in the back of your head trying to figure
it out and just looking at the signs and
then wondering what to do and then all
of a sudden one day you just blow up at her.
No. Instead, talk to her. Tell her how
you're feeling. Tell her what's going on
and do it in such a way where she's
listening to you in a way where you're
trying to fix the relationship
and just see what's going on. Now one
thing you could do to spice the
relationship back up again is use my
famous Tripp's Tension Technique. There is
a link in the description of this video
below and that link is going to take you
to a free video. It's 100% free
and it's going
to show you how to build sexual tension.
This is something that I offered to
my guys who are not in relationships yet.
This works even if you're in a
relationship and the reason why is
because it still builds sexual tension
and so if the sexuality in your
relationship and the intimacy is dying,
you can use this as a way to build it
back up and I show you and I demonstrate
on a girl how to do it. It's going
to be as if you guys are starting to
date for the first time. Go ahead and
check that out whether you're single,
whether in the relationship. Check it out.
There's a link in the description below
and I want you to write below in the
comments if there's any other signs that
you can share with the guys because
we're community here. We're helping each
other out. What other signs are there
that a girl might be cheating? Write them
down below. I'll be in the comments
and I will see you on the next video.