hi everyone I'm Adrienne Everheart your feminine energy dating and relationship
coach and in this video I'm going to tell you why it is such a good idea to date a
younger man. now before you say, "oh I'm not into younger guys I already know
what type of man I want I'm really in love with a particular man," and that's
all well and fine, but I want you to watch this video because I'm going to tell
you some things that have very much to do with your feminine energy and
wonderful excellent gifts a younger man can bring you to rev up your
attractiveness and your feminine energy with all men!!! so stay tuned now as always
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why should you date a younger man why should you even be entertaining a
younger man now if you haven't noticed there may be a lot of younger guys that
occasionally blow up your online dating account or message you or flirt with you
and you might be really confused like why are these younger guys interested in
me? you might be on your possibly second divorce, first divorce or just single, be
over the age of 40... why is this happening now? it's a really interesting phenomenon
it's been called mrs. Robinson syndrome from the movie The Graduate where
spoiler alert the main character Dustin Hoffman falls in love with his
girlfriend's mom. so I'm going to talk a little bit about that because there are
a lot of successful relationships out there with younger men and older women
however again I'm going to focus more on the feminine energy side of this and why
it will work for you and be helpful for you in the long run to date some men who
are younger. now you may know of Jason Momoa or Hugh Jackman or the French
president Macron? they are all married to women that are much older than then
and when I read articles about what drew them to those women they were really
just looking for a certain characteristics or personality traits
that these women have and not all men really have that wounded masculine
energy where they need to constantly be in pursuit of someone who is younger. not
all men are in "masculine crisis" where younger is definitely better. there are a
lot of men out there who are very aware of what they want in their life, the type
of connection they want to have with a person what that will look like and feel
like, instead of younger is better. and there
are a lot of younger men -- I've met quite a few -- that you know definitely were
interested in me because of a maturity or quality I had and they even preferred
how older-ish woman looks rather than a girl who's like 19. there were things
about our features and that we are comfortable with our body and so many
things that I'm going to share with you in this video that really draw and
attract them to you. now the first real obvious one I'm gonna cover here is sex
you know by the time you're out of your 20s and into your late 30s mid to late
30s, and your 40s even up into your 50s your 60s you are very comfortable with
your body! you are much more comfortable with your body than you were when you
were say in your 20s and I think a lot of younger men know this and if they
don't know it they're willing to find it out & just see how comfortable you
are! and so this is where you can really have a lot of fun with your body & his
body if that is what you want to do of course. if any sort of premarital sex
isn't for you don't just don't worry about this part but it will give you a
chance to even explore the more passionate side of having a relationship
with a person which does not always mean sex. so the fun thing is with a younger
guy is he's going to have all that energy and enthusiasm, you're something
new to him, something that he's maybe perhaps coveted from afar and never been
able to experience and now he gets that and I...the great thing about
feminine energy with this is that we want you to feel good you know when a
woman is going through a heartbreak or a man has been really horrible to her one
of the first things I suggest to her is to really find a man who just wants to
make love to every part of her in any way that she finds acceptable or
desirable. you know really have a man that wants to make love to you and
please you. because it's gonna make you feel good and feeling good is where your
feminine energy really radiates at its finest and most powerful is when you're
out of your mind, you're not down the dumps you're not focusing on what hasn't
worked for you with all your relationships you feel sexy you're gonna
look sexy, your body can even begin to make some hormonal changes with this
experience and so you start to just overall have a glow about you
that only good sex can bring! a lot of younger men are also really desiring a
woman who is confident and drama-free. this is also known as emotional
stability. emotional stability is really important especially to men who have
dated women where they didn't know if it was up or down or what was happening
there was so much drama in the relationship! I had a younger man in my
life tell me that you know every morning he would wake up and not really be sure
if his girlfriend was going to love him today, or not... just because there was so
much drama and instability in her life. and when I look back on my 20s I can
absolutely say that you know I didn't maybe have so many ups and downs but I
could really turn on a dime. my emotions are my feelings I could be very flippant
about them. and I do remember it being really confusing to a lot of men in my
life how hot and cold I can be. and so well I think this may be a
characteristic for younger women not to put them in any particular label this is
what a lot of men have said which is why they want to date someone who is older.
so here's one of the cool things that you can do now that you are drama-free
and you can experience this relationship with a younger man:
is that you can have a calm relationship with a man where it isn't up and down
there isn't a lot of bickering or fighting or power struggles. it's really
more of just kind of going with the flow and you can find out what that feels
like that everyday calm that you're really wanting... because I do believe once
you experience enough of these positive situations and your bar becomes a
different place a setpoint, than it was before with your first husband or even
the last man in your life -- you really learn a new way of feeling in a
relationship and again this is a wonderful thing that a younger man is
going to want to give you. he's going to want to prove to you how mature and
drama-free he is as well.so you can both just reflect those energies off of each
other and have a wonderful experience! now another great thing about being a
little bit older and dating younger guy is that you are in a place of job
security in most cases or financial security, or you are at least more
established than he is. now one of the great perks about this is that sometimes
the younger guy really isn't, he's not as stable or secure as you are and that's
okay because again you're gonna get to practice an exercise where you're not
gonna try and fix him, help him or solve his problems! this is a great one for you
to exercise with with your feminine energy and your younger man because he
is going to be between jobs or he's gonna be finding his way or he might be
an entrepreneur and really getting started in the world and you're gonna
want to make it an opinion or an advice or share something very important and I
want you to learn how to quell that boy energy that wants to help a man solve
his problems or fix something for him! now it's not that you couldn't do it
better and it's not that you probably don't know exactly what he needs to do...
but when you do this for a man a couple of different things happen. the first
thing is you get out of your body and you get up in your head with a man. now
if he's about to commit financial ruin and
career suicide definitely I want you to ask if you can make a suggestion, but in
most everyday situations, women can sometimes be peppering in their opinions
and their thoughts. and if any of you have had a parent who has done this for
you or actually gotten inside your mind, you begin to not even know who you are
anymore! so with a man this is times a hundred!
men need to absolutely know what they want what they are feeling and how they
want to do it. so often my husband below is my mind because I am absolutely
confident "this is the way you need to do something" and a couple of times I've
made that known and I've really pushed the agenda and I come to find out if I
would have just let him do it it would have gotten taken care of and it would
have worked out perfectly. and so often since those experiences I've had things
happen with him where I'm like "I do it this way" and then I'm like "no stop! I let
him figure it out." and it's amazing it is just amazing! so the great thing about
having this younger man in your life is he's not gonna have it all figured out
but he's gonna love that you do, and he can just have that energy exchange with
you of what established and secure looks like. and you might actually even learn a
few things from him. of course I certainly did with my younger guys
they taught me so many things and that I just wasn't even aware of and that's the
great thing about feminine energy is that you're back in your body, you're not
in the place of your head or your thinking and solving and managing
everybody... you're letting the man be a man and you get to be a beautiful
wonderful worshipped lovely luscious woman that you! are it's very relaxing to
so I hope these tips on why you should date a younger man have benefited you..
remember dating is "just dating." or you can have a sexually exclusive
relationship with a person. there are so many variables and being in a "committed
relationship" is something you always, the two of you, want to talk about and make
sure you're both on the same page about what that means. otherwise if
you want to date a younger man, get all this wonderful attention or even if you
find yourself in a relationship with a younger man, practice your tools with
every man you're with! feminine energy is about allowing that man to have the time
and space he needs to be a man and in the relationship
you get to be a woman and receive. and it is a really relaxing place to be!
if you're hearing this for the first time there's probably a part of you
that's going into full panic and will say, "nothing will ever get done! nothing
will ever happen as long as I'm receiving!" not true...give it time... give it
some time & space there are some formulas to actually how attraction
works and how you build and grow wonderful relationships and one of those
things is it has to be just allowing curiosity to unfold naturally with a
person, and not racing have an absolute and get it absolutely right.
a lot of feminine female energy, a lot of women in their masculine energy want to
zero right in on the exact answer like we're doing a math equation. but it's a
relationship and relationships are not math equations. they're about feelings
and your heart and (SOFT) things like this... so I hope I have helped you with figuring out
why or if you want to date a younger man. if you want to learn more about me, I
have a free group over on Facebook called iheartLoveAcademy and you can
find me at my website at EverheartCcoaching.com and I also have a
best-selling ebook which is filled with loads of information on exactly what to
say to a man and how to lasso his heart.
it's called, "500 Ways to Talk to a Man." and if you're new to dating, I cannot
recommend it enough I have something called FEMM TOOLS.
femm tools... and it teaches you how to date from a feminine energy
perspective. now ladies if you like this video please give it a thumbs up! I would love
to hear from you in the comment section and just good or bad, what do you feel
about dating a younger man. and I would love to hear from you anyway so drop me
a line... I'm sending you much love today and always. talk to you soon, bye bye.