think about your person for a moment or someone that you've been with in the past that was just
amazing to be with them and notice that one of the reasons you were with them is because when you
were together life was amazing there was something magical about life when you you're around that
person well what if that wasn't an accident what if there were things that you could do
that would actually create magical moments that your man
can't resist that's exactly what we're going to talk about today check it out
hey there this is mat boggs and i am the founder of our love and relationships division here at
the brave thinking institute where our mission is empowering people to create and live a life
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you in your love life so how do you create magical moments that your man can't resist well this came
to me because this earlier this week i was watching an old school movie with my kids i
got three kids ages three five and seven and i was showing them the film charlotte's webb now you may
or may not have seen that movie but it's just an epic movie about this little spider that tries to
save this little pig her friend's life by putting words in the spider web and so in this movie when
people read the words in the web they think it's a miracle and they're like oh my gosh this is
a miracle and it says some pig this must be some pig this must be some terrific rating amazing pig
and so one of the women is a doubter and she's like this isn't a miracle and so she goes to see
uh the physician the counselor of the town and it's his phd
and she comes to him and she goes everyone thinks this is a miracle i don't think this is a miracle
i think my daughter did it i think my daughter was the one who made that word in that web what do you
think doc do you think this is a miracle and he said you know i think that just the fact that a
spider can spin a web at all is a miracle do you know how to spin a web and she goes well no of
course not i don't i know how to spin a web but i do know how to knit and he goes well you know how
to knit because someone taught you how to knit and yet nobody taught that spider how to spin a web
and that spider still spins the web i think that is pretty miraculous let alone putting words
in that web don't you and she thought about it for a moment now einstein says there's only two ways
to see the world one as if nothing is a miracle the other is if everything is a miracle and
what's beautiful about that concept is it's true everything around us if you hold the perspective
can be seen as a miracle i mean think about this for a moment what is this what do you see here
this is an avocado this is amazing health food and yet where does this come from
this comes from an avocado tree and what did the tree use to make this avocado the tree all it
had were the ingredients of dirt water air and sunshine that was it and out of dirt and water
and sunlight and carbon dioxide it forms this miraculous food that is so beautiful so when
you begin to see everything as a miracle you begin to become radiant in your appreciation
for life you become radiant in the gratitude and so here is a secret little method that you can use
to create magical moments with your man that he will find irresistible because here's what's funny
when you experience the expansion of life you and you cause that feeling in other people
the appreciation the gratitude of life when we feel that it's naturally attractive because it
feels good it doesn't matter whether you're from the south or the north the east or the west some
country or another country we're all wired up the same as human beings to when we feel grateful when
we feel appreciative when we see the miraculous in the ordinary it brings an expansion of love in us
and we all want that feeling so here's a really cool practice that you can use with your man
and it was something my wife and i invented when we were dating and we called it magical moments
and so there would be a lot of hustle and bustle going on like we'd be at a county fair right
in orange county where we lived there the big orange county fair and we would create we'd say
hey let's have a magical moment and that's where we would pause right in the middle of
the hustle and bustle and we just hug each other for a moment we both close our eyes
and we just listen and what we do is we work our way through the five senses to really absorb the
moment and we would be hugging each other and closing our eyes and we say you know listen
to the sounds that are going on right now listen to the kids laughing listen to the animal making
their sounds listen to the birds feel my arms wrapped around you right now take a deep breath in
smell the smell that's happening in the air and let's just appreciate this magical moment here
we are in life together that we found each other it was just so awesome we'd be in a dance club
and everyone's dancing and whatnot and we'd be dancing and then she pulled me clothes
and she go let's have a magical moment and we just pause and breathe and listen and soak in
and it was such a beautiful way to create just a pattern interrupt from the everyday to open up
our hearts to appreciation to open up our hearts to gratitude that here we are living this life
right now there's a trillion little processes that are happening inside your body to keep you alive
to keep to enable you to watch this video how miraculous is it that you and i are connecting
right now whatever device you're watching this on you and i are connecting from thousands of miles
away and yet you and i are able to have this interaction how beautiful is that there's only
two ways to see the world one is if nothing is a miracle two is this as if everything is a miracle
so i encourage you i challenge you to create those little magic magical moments with your
man you'll feel his heart expand he'll feel your heart expanding the two of you will create even
more magic together my question for you is what do you do to create magical moments
already in your life go and post those in the comments below and here's what's cool we're
going to get a whole bunch of mastermind ideas for how to create even more magic in the world
i appreciate you here's to your amazing love life thanks for watching and i'll see you soon