hello this is Damon again from NLP Gym and as I have mentioned in the last
video I did enrollment is open for the online training transforming yourself
that is based on Steve Andreas's self-concept model and enrollment will
be open for about another ten days and I'll be shutting down enrollment and
will be taking this journey into the self-concept and transforming your
self-concept in this training now a lot of people are asking me can I have more
details about the training I want understand more about what it is and I
completely understand that we often determine value by what problems
something solves so if I'm your coach you determine my value by how well I can
help help you solve problems if you're going to take a training you want to
know that what you learn is something that's very valuable so that you can
post more than likely can solve problems or achieve goals now the genesis of NLP
is exactly that problems and solutions what are my problems and how do I
discover the solutions that are going to solve those problems so in NLP we
started with or we start with the present state that's the state of desire
of wanting something that I don't have and then the desired state is when I get
the thing that I want it's being in the state of fulfillment of satisfaction and
sealing a hole because I have what it is that I want now what's that what is the
piece that stands between me my present state and my desired state what stands
in between you having what you want and not having what you want and then LB we
identify that as a resource an inner resource because I don't always have
control over what's going on around me but I have control over myself my own
state so if I'm in a state of scarcity which is what the present state is
administrative scarcity that means I'm not connecting to all of my resources
are not accessing the resources that would then put me in the desired state
now I get a lot of people saying well wait a minute I don't want to
I don't want to state I want a new car I want a new house or I want more money or
a great relationship and I understand all that well if you're not in a
resourceful state and you're not in you're in a state of scarcity you are
more more than likely repelling those things from you you're not able to
access you're not able to get those things because you're not connecting
with the resources within you that would enable you to get those things so when
you connect with that resource and you put yourself into that state of that
desired state where you're connecting with those resources you're satisfied
then you're in a state of abundance and then it becomes a lot easier to achieve
what you want it becomes a lot easier to get what you want it almost can feel
like it you're attracting it I don't think that's necessarily how it happens
but that's what it can feel like and that's really how NLP works that's how
from the very beginning that's like the foundation of NLP well what if I get
what if I told you that that way of doing things is actually crude clumsy
and even haphazard because that's exactly what I'm telling you the
self-concept model is so precise that you'd get beyond that point of simple
simply solving problems simply finding solutions simply finding resources what
you do is you go to your sense of self and you build these qualities in and
they become stable and durable and resilient
so that you don't have to depend on your state or the lack of state or a resource
state you have these resources already built into you as qualities of your
self-concept so what is the result of that will it help you solve problems
yeah that's like that's the least of what it will help you do what if
confidence self-esteem meaning and purpose
we're just automatic didn't have to think about it you didn't have to hit an
anchor you don't have to think oh let me let me ground myself and go into my
resource state no what if it were all automatic and you live you live your
life from a sense of self of having those resources built in that's what you
will learn in the self-concept motto and that's why you should learn it and when
you sign up for the program you get lifetime access and you take it at your
own pace and you'll get admitted to a private Facebook group where I can help
mentor you by answering your questions you would post your questions your
comments you'll get to read other people's questions and comments who are
in the program and you'll get to read my answers to that as well as offer your
own answers in your own experience and get the experiences and even answers
from your peers I want to replicate the process that I learned this model from
which was to learn it from the book but also to be mentored by Steve andreas and
learning the model which was was and has been a priceless experience and I want
to pass that experience on to you it was transformed my life continues to
transform my life I continue to live with more meaning and purpose than I've
ever experienced before and greater self-esteem and confidence and I want to
pass that on to all of you now I saw a question pop up here that said how do
you overcome fear it's an enormous question I had where you can start
there's a lot of ways to do that but where you can start there's two things
I'll give you a value solicitation and if you search my channel
you can search values elicitation a video will come up that teaches you how
to do a value solicitation so that's that's a good start because a lot of
times we were fearful of things because we don't we're so identified with what
we don't want so you what you want to do is you want to find out what is driving
you what is driving your decisions what do you want in the positive sense not
what are you trying to move away from not what are you trying to avoid what
are you trying to move toward when you understand what your values are that
will move you toward that I also did a video on overcoming fear and that vid
video still holds up so that's yet another technique that you can use there
are many more techniques but for right now the best thing to do is just to
direct you to those two videos and that should help you out quite a bit and if
you have any more questions of course leave comments or questions right under
this video and as soon as this video uploads I'll be able to post the link
that you can go to to get your hands on transforming yourself which like I said
enrollment will be open for about another ten days thank you for watching
and I hope to see you in the program take care