So, as I mentioned in my other video
about what to say to a woman
to turn her on,
increasing attraction
is all about managing her uncertainty.
So, the more she has to work for something
the more she's going to desire it.
This is just basic human psychology.
However,
you are not going to be able to get
every single woman you want.
Unlike many pickup artists
and other dating coaches
tell you, you can get anyone you want
that's absolutely not true.
So, let's just get real.
There are going to be some women
who are not going to want you
and it may be because
they are lesbian.
It may be because they're having
a bad day, week, month, life.
It may be because she's legit
seeing someone else that she's really into.
It could be because she's going through
a s-h-i-t storm
right now
and is just not emotionally capable
of dating anyone
or it could be that
she's just not into you or not attracted
oh, well, so what?
Next!
So, for the women
who might be interested in you
they have to have at least a six or seven
level of attraction for you
to be able
to make them want you more.
But if they do have that level of attraction
then yes, you can make them on you more.
So, just before we get into the specifics
of what you can do to make her want you more.
Let's just go through a few tips about this.
First thing, is that
no matter what a woman tells you
about what kind of relationship she wants.
In other words whether she wants
just a short-term hookup or long-term.
She is always internally
subconsciously or not
vetting for long-term.
That's just our nature
we can't help it even if it's just a one-night thing
because she's way young
or just not ready for anything else.
Really she's still vetting
for long-term in some way,
which brings me to the next tip.
If she is a ***
or a gold digger
she may override her own instincts
to vet for long term
for that short term pleasure.
If she does this
and you are actually looking for something
potentially long-term
this is not the person to invest in
for more than maybe short-term fun
because she's probably
either not ready for real
or emotionally damaged.
See my video on that for signs.
Next tip is that what happens
after the first meeting
is more important
than just the first meeting
because again, she's vetting
and the more information
that you provide for her
that will help her make a yes decision
toward going for you
will help her go for you.
Next tip,
understanding a woman's psychology
is not the same
as playing immature head games.
No one likes games
unless you are a gamer.
Next tip,
the more you give space
the more she'll chase
and the more she'll want
what she's chasing,
which brings us to
scarcity equals value.
If there's a lot of something available
and anyone can have it
because there's just so much
well that decreases the value of it.
So, if you are less available
then you are going to increase
your value automatically.
And the next tip is that
she can feel
the intentions
behind your actions.
She may not be able to articulate them
but she can feel and sense
where you are coming from,
what you want,
and how desperate you are
for what you want
and that will trigger
an internal reaction
of her to either want to chase more
or to retract.
So, it's like the law of polarity.
It's like an elastic band.
If you sort of pull away
then she's going to snap back towards you.
If you chase her there's no tension there
and she will automatically
want to create resistance toward you.
So, this means that
you can't do anything
to try to get her
because there's an intention behind that
of you trying to get her.
You need to just go along
with whatever feelings you have of desire.
You want to do this because
you are desiring to do this
not because you're expectant
of a potential perceived outcome.
The outcome being her wanting you.
You do things because you are just enjoying
it in the moment
because when you don't pursue
that allows her to chase you.
And finally for the just the tips
before we get into the specifics
of what you can do to make her want you more,
is that if you feel
she's out of your league
then she'll feel she's out of your league.
So, you need to lead her into understanding
that she's not out of your league.
You need to believe that
she's not only within your league
but you're the one vetting her
to see if she's good enough.
You have to feel that within your core
and then that way she will feel that
and we all naturally want to work harder
towards something that we can't
necessarily have easily,
which is why you should keep
your romantic doors open.
You should have other women available to you
so that you don't feel that scarcity.
So that you don't feel like she's the only option.
So that you don't feel like she's the only one
that you want
or that might want you
or that you are hoping will want you.
So, just before we get into
the five specific things
that you can do to make her want you more,
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Okay, with that out of the way
let us get into the specifics.
The number one thing that you can do
is this is going to go completely
against what you believe,
but you want to friend zone her.
What?
No, yeah, you do.
If you friend zone her,
but make it audacious,
make it exaggerated,
and keep the sexual tension alive.
That's the key
because if you don't
then you will for sure friend zone yourself.
But if you automatically friend zone her,
okay Ashley,
you know you are pretty cute
but I don't know
I am going to have to friend zone you.
I don't know if I am ready for anything.
I don't know if you are,
you know really the right girl for me.
I don't know if you are my type.
Then she will work harder to get you.
Number two, say no.
You can say no or show no.
My last video was all about the show no
or how to say no
so that she will want to
turn that no into a yes.
If you no her
as in n-o
and push her away.
She will want to try
and get a yes from you.
She will want to make your no
into a yes.
Number three, you may or may not
be able to do this right now
because of social distancing
but if you can...
If she's comfortable with it,
if you're comfortable with it,
if we're allowed
touch her appropriately.
I have done other videos on this you can watch for those
I'll put them somewhere maybe at the end of the video.
And particularly tickle her
because laughter releases feel-good hormones
that she will associate with you.
Plus, touch crosses
the intimacy barrier
and triggers butterflies.
Along those lines,
you can number four,
give her physiological butterflies.
So, a lot of feelings like fear
is very similar to excited anticipation,
anxiety even.
So, you want to sort of capitalize
on those natural feelings
by increasing them
but in a fun way.
So, a good way of doing this
is to either elevate her heart rate
by doing something scary
like you can go on a roller coaster ride
or you can go into a haunted house.
Also a great way of being able to touch her
in both of those cases
so that you can sort of either comfort her
or you know experience the moment together.
Or you could even go on a hike elevated heart rate
it feels similar to elevated heart rate
because of romantic butterflies.
So, that's number four
and then number five,
again, regarding scarcity
is to create competition.
So, you don't want to do this overtly
but the way to create competition
is by talking about
some of the other women in your life,
which means you actually have to have
other women in your life
so, you can talk about other female friends
good idea to have them.
You can talk about female co-workers
or hanging out with them
or them flirting with you.
Make sure it's really subtle
because women speak a thousand shades of hint
men don't speak hint
so you don't want to make it obvious
but you want to subtly let her know
that there are other women
who are trying to get with you
in your world somehow
and she may automatically
and instinctively realize
Now the key is you're not trying
to make her feel like completely inadequate
or emotionally abuse her
or make her feel insecure
in a traumatic way.
You just want her to feel a little bit uncertain
about whether or not she can have you
so, when she feels that way she'll work harder
and remember you want to actually
keep doing these things
even after you get the girl.
So, it's not just you know
get her and forget her.
You need to continuously court her
and keep the mystery alive
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