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12 Easy ways to become more attractive
Everyone wants to be attractive. Those who are attractive are wanted and influential.
They are more likable and more people want to be around them. Attractive people have
certain qualities or traits that make them more desirable and alluring to others. Perhaps you
believe that the most important thing to being attractive is physical appearance.
If you do, you are quite wrong. It plays a role in attraction, of course, but there many more factors
in the game. Attractive people are confident, outgoing, positive, and usually have excellent
social skills. If you want to learn what makes a person appealing, besides physical appearance,
here are 12 ways to become more attractive: No1: Build confidence
Most people will agree that being confident is the surest way to be more attractive.
Confidence essentially means having self-esteem and believing in yourself and your abilities. It
shows that you feel good about yourself and that makes others feel good around you too. Confident
people know their worth and feel comfortable in their own skin. Because they believe in
themselves, they aren’t afraid to be proactive and take charge. If you want to build confidence,
stop talking negatively about yourself to other people. Eliminate the negative self-talk too.
Start thinking about your good traits and be as kind to yourself as you are to your friends. You
should also stop worrying about what others think about you. You can never really know the opinion
of other people. Focus on what is important to you and what you want to say about yourself.
No2: Improve communication skills If you are an introvert, this is very important
for you to know. Without good conversation skills, you can hardly meet new people and
connect with them. Good communication skills are important when you want to be more attractive.
Mastering conversational skills will help you make progress in your personal life.
Work on your active listening skills; rephrase what other people say to show them that you are
paying attention to what they are saying. Instead of small talk about the weather,
talk about more meaningful topics like hobbies, personal interests, or travel. Ask relevant
questions that provoke further conversation. ‘How’ or ‘what’ questions are better than ‘why’ ones
because they lead to new ideas and thoughts. “Why” questions can be perceived as accusatory.
Be authentic and use these conversational tricks to express yourself in the best possible way!
No3: Be positive Nobody likes to be around a pessimist.
They come as a burden and that is not attractive. If you want to be attractive to others, you should
exude positivity. Being positive makes other people feel good and that is why positivity is so
attractive. Complimenting someone makes them feel good and it makes you more attractive to them.
Share your positive thoughts, feelings, and actions with other people. Talk about good things
in your life, show gratitude for what you have and skip the complaints! Don’t whine about the lack of
free time, talk about how you got your dream job. Instead of criticizing everything and everyone,
talk about the good things and virtues of the people in your life.
Praise others, cheer them up and share your positive observations.
Your positive nature will stick in people’s minds and make you irresistible!
No4: Practice social skills Strong social skills can help you build
and maintain successful relationships, both professional and personal. Practice makes
everything better, including social skills. Essentially, you can practice social skills
by actively seeking out social situations and settings. If you avoid people, you will seem
distant, arrogant, and thus not very attractive. By engaging in social situations and going out,
you can practice and improve your interpersonal skills and learn to function better in social
groups. Don’t wait for opportunities to present themselves, look for them! Ask coworkers if they
want to have coffee, find people with similar interests and connect with them. Make a decision
to meet new people and master your social skills; you will have more and better relationships.
No5: Show your kindness In psychology research,
kindness is often found to be one of the top-rated desirable traits in potential partners. This is
especially true for women. It turns out that nice guys don’t finish last. Kindness is often
overlooked when considering attractiveness. But, kindness seems to make people look more physically
attractive to others. When you show kindness, sympathy, and compassion, it will make others like
you. It has an evolutionary explanation. Kindness is important when looking for partners because,
when someone is kind and caring, it increases the chances of survival and reproduction.
Whatever the reason is, at the end of the day, we all just want to be with someone who is nice,
kind, and treats us well. No6: Laugh and smile
Not many things are more attractive than a genuine smile and sincere laughter. When you smile,
you radiate inner beauty and become more alluring instantly. Combined with smiling, laughter is one
of the easiest ways to be more attractive. Smiling is an act that is inviting to other people.
It shows that you are easy-going and playful. Your smile will make others smile and they will
be drawn to you. Shared laughter is a good way to develop relations with other people.
A sense of humor is a great predictor of relationship success.
Laughter is a proven factor of socializing because it promotes bonding, even between strangers. Of
course, there is a time and a place for laughter and jokes, but a big smile appears to be the most
important accessory for your face! No7: Watch your body language
If you want to be more attractive, consider what messages you are sending via your body
language. You want to have an open body language that is inviting to others. Your body language
should show that you are willing to engage in interaction with others. Body language research
indicates that keeping your torso, chest, and abdomen open is the best way to show that you
are ready to communicate. Don’t cross your hands if you want someone to approach you. Also, you
should show your hands to others. Hands in pockets or behind the back may cause others’ suspicion.
Walk with your back straight and your chin up. This makes you seem confident and appealing.
Make eye contact with the people you talk to. Tilt your head and nod while the other person speaks
to show attention and interest. No8: Be available
There is a common belief that you need to appear reserved to be attractive. Psychology says that
this is very far from the truth. Availability is actually an important factor in how attractive
we are to others. People want someone who is available – emotionally and physically.
We usually feel attracted to someone who we perceive as available for communication
and relationship. If you want to show your availability, be responsive to other people’s
attempts for establishing a connection. Face the person you are talking to and pay close attention
to them. When you are at a party, don’t hide and shy away from people. When someone approaches you,
keep the conversation going, laugh at their jokes, and answer politely. Be available and approachable
and someone will be attracted to you! No9: Don’t be aggressive
Aggressiveness is one of the least desirable traits when you meet someone.
Think about it. How attracted would you be to a person that starts yelling at the waiter for not
getting the drink order right? If you are often pushy, angry and controlling, you should consider
working on tweaking these traits. Assertiveness is a desirable and often needed quality, but
an inclination to anger outbursts and brashness is an unpleasant and uninviting characteristic.
Attractive people treat others with respect and don’t show hostility even when there is
a difference of opinion. Show good manners and be polite to others. Restrain from imposing yourself
on other people because they will resent you and you will not be perceived as attractive.
No10: Don’t forget the physical appeal You cannot neglect physical appeal when you think
of ways to become more attractive. However, it is not vital to look like a model. What matters more
is to take care of your appearance and to find your own style. Find the best facial care routine
for your skin type. Maintain regular hygiene and exercise. All of this can make you look nice,
groomed and more appealing. Wear the best hairstyle according to your face and hair type.
Find your distinctive personal style that represents who you are. Fashion accessories
can also make you more attractive. Choose a few statement pieces of jewelry that match
your personality and make yourself stand out in a crowd. Wear outfits that flatter your body.
Figure out what works best for you and what makes you feel more attractive. That will make others
notice your attractiveness too! No11: Find your passion in life
Passion is something that drives you in life and it motivates you to work harder to achieve
your dreams. Showing passion for what you enjoy doing makes you a lot more attractive.
People who have passion are enthusiastic, driven, and determined. Passion makes you
seem more ambitious and exciting to be around. You could be passionate about your work. If your
work doesn’t quite do it for you, you can find a hobby that you love. You can design video games,
learn how to crochet or teach English as a second language. If you still haven’t found your passion,
you can search for it through trial and error. Passion gives you a purpose. It is alluring
to others to see that you are so committed to something. Especially if it is something that
you have in common with other people; then your passion helps you create social bonds.
No12: Be unique There are around 7.5 billion people in the world
today. But, you are one of a kind. There is nobody like you. You should appreciate your uniqueness
because it makes you more attractive than you may think. Don’t hide who you are just so that you
can fit in. Many people would be delighted to see your true colors. Don’t try to cover them up out
of fear of being marked as weird. Learn to embrace what makes you special — whether it is your looks,
your experiences, your ideas, or your little quirks. That is what makes you stand out from
the crowd. Your uniqueness is beautiful and it is an important part of your attractiveness.
There you have it – 12 tips on how to be more attractive that suggest that attraction is not
just about looks. There is much more to being attractive than the way we look.
You become more attractive when you allure people to yourself with your personality and
your charisma. You can learn how to tweak your personality traits to attract more people to
you. These 12 ways can help you become the best, most attractive version of yourself!
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