Maybe you're dating a girl right now and you're curious, is she thinking about you?
Are you on the top of her mind?
What's going on?
Maybe you're confused or maybe you just want to know that she's invested in you.
Well that's what we're talking about on today's video.
Knowing that if she has this deep interest in you where she's thinking about you all
the time.
Here's what we're going to do.
I'm going to be giving you a little scenario, a little test so to speak, to really know
if this is the case.
There's two tests.
There's one small one and there's one bigger one and we're going to go in to both.
I want to be clear here on who this test is for.
This is not a test for someone who is in the friend-zone This is not a test for a guy who
kind of likes a girl but the girl has no idea.
This is not a test for any other scenario other than you guys have been on a few dates
and they've been classified as dates.
Maybe you met on a dating app, maybe you met her out and about through friends and you
guys agreed to go on a date.
Maybe you know that's a date because you guys had sex or you kissed afterwards.
Maybe that touch barrier has been broken.
That's who this is for.
This is not gonna work if you haven't already created some sort of dating or sexual context.
That's because she's probably not interested in you if you guys have not created the dating
or sexual context.
That's where this is really important.
I don't want a lot of guys watching this and I don't want you watching this thinking that
you can use this on a girl who has no idea if you're even interested.
And even if she does, you guys have not been together.
Because at this point, she's probably not thinking about you.
I know it sounds harsh.
I don't mean to be the bearer of bad news.
But my job is to give you the truth and for you to live in reality.
So this is going to be used if you guys have already created this sexual and dating context.
Because then this test is going to work.
In order to perform this test, the first test has probably already been done.
I'll tell you what that is.
The first test to know if a girl has been thinking about you if she likes you, if she's
interested in you, is that she's agreeing to meet up with you.
That means that she's agreed to go on dates with you.
She's agreed to the context of dating and sex.
Again, maybe you guys have been physical.
Maybe you guys have been intimate already.
This is showing that level one basic, she's interested in you.
That's good.
That's usually all you need.
That's all you need to know.
Is she's showing up on these dates?
Is she complying to you when you're trying to progress the interaction forward to sex
to hang out two more dates in this context?
That means she's interested.
If you ever want to know, hmm...
I wonder if this one girl who got her number from a bar if she's interested.
Or maybe you went on a date and you're like I want to know is she interested?
Does she want to hang out again?
Does she like me?
The best test for that (again, this is level one test) is asking her out again.
If she's not interested, she won't meet up with you.
And that doesn't mean agreeing and flaking and then agreeing and then flaking.
That doesn't mean she's interested.
Interested means agreeing.
But more importantly, showing up.
She's showing up, she's in the flesh with you.
But now let's move to the next test.
The next test is you inviting her back to your place and you guys sitting on your couch,
hanging out at your place, maybe you're hanging out at her place.
But again this is for you to control this test.
So invite her over to your place, sit down and you talk with her and see what kind of
questions she's asking you.
If she's asking you any kind of questions to get to know you better, to understand how
you're thinking, wanting to know how you're feeling, wanting to know about your hopes
and dreams for the future, wanting to get to know your past and the stories of your
past.
If she's trying to get to know you on that deeper level, you can almost guarantee that
she's very interested.
She's very invested in you and that she's probably thinking about seeing you again and
most likely, she's thinking about you during the day.
Because a woman in order to show her interest in you and you understanding if she's interested
is gonna be two things.
One, the most important is sex.
Sexual interest otherwise it's just a glorified friendship.
Exceptions are if she's holding out for marriage or people who are religious.
Besides that sex shows that interest and on a deeper interest on top of sex is her getting
to know you more.
Is she trying to get to know you more?
If we're really putting this test on steroids, it's is she doing this even after you guys
have had sex in the first place?
Is she asking you questions to want to understand who you are as a person, who you are as a
human being?
This is gonna be the difference between her leaning back metaphorically and leaning in.
Leaning back and leaning in.
What I mean is, if she's leaning back, that means that she's not really asking you a lot
of questions.
She meets up with you every once in a while.
It's kind of sporadic.
She doesn't seem that interested, like once in a while you guys are hanging out, but it's
not really consistent.
That's examples of leaning back.
Leaning in is she's very compliant to hanging out with you.
She's pretty much free whenever you ask her to hang out.
If she's not free, she tries to reschedule and hang out with you again.
When you guys are hanging out, she's asking you these questions trying to get to know
you, trying to understand who you are because she's probably vetting you for a relationship
and she doesn't even know that she's doing this.
She's not sitting here in a conscious level going I'm going to try to figure out if he's
good boyfriend material.
But this is what she's doing because these are the natural progressions before you get
into something serious.
What most guys are doing is they're trying to see if a girl likes them based on very
superficial reasons.
I'd say the biggest test that a guy is doing and not even knowing he's doing it is probably
texting her.
That means that he's trying to gauge interest based on how fast she texts back, how big
her text messages are.
Is she giving you little one liners or big paragraphs?
Is she agreeing to a date over text but again, not showing up?
A lot of guys are using that because that is a really common way of communicating these
days is over text or DMS or wherever you're doing your digital communication.
That's the wrong test.
That's the superficial test.
That means absolutely nothing.
Of course, there's a little meaning to it because she could not respond at all.
So there's something there.
But sometimes women respond over text because they're bored, because they feel bad, because
they have nothing better to do so they might as well respond to you because they kind of
like the attention.
But what are they not doing?
They're not meeting up with you, they're not interested in having sex with you, they're
not interested in going on dates with you, they're not interested in asking questions
about you, getting to know you.
All the real stuff, the rich stuff, the stuff that actually means something.
You have to understand that any other test beyond the ones that we're talking about today
mean absolutely nothing.
You have to focus hardcore on the one test, is she willing to meet up.
And then the next one, is she trying to get to know you?
You might be in a situation where you're not trying to get to know her and you're just
trying to keep it a more casual sexual relationship going, that's fine too.
I'm taking a wild guess if you're watching this video because we titled this video is
she thinking about you?
You're probably interested in more and that's fine too.
But if you want to know that, these are the tests you use.
Don't think about anything else, wipe it from your brain.
The reason I'm repeating this over and over and I do a lot of videos on this is because
I work with coaching clients all the time or I do my lives here on YouTube and I get
the same questions over and over again and guys aren't really understanding it.
And I don't blame you.
It took me a while to understand it too, to really get through my head that the real signs
that she's interested, knowing if she's thinking about me, if she wants me, if she's invested
in this, is her spending her time with you.
And that time being quality time.
And that's what I described earlier, you inviting her over to your place, you guys hanging out,
hanging out on the couch, whatever.
Maybe having sex and then getting to know each other.
That quality time shows you that she's interested.
If you're getting anything other than that, I highly encourage you to completely drop
the girl.
If you're texting her, she's not willing to meet up or she's friend-zoning you or if she's
telling you all the time that like you're a really nice guy but it's just not gonna
work out.
Whatever the situation, if she's not doing anything other than passing these few tests,
you need to release her.
You need to give up on her and move on to someone who's going to be interested in you.
I always say this and I'm going to say it again, one of the most important qualities
or let's say prerequisites for you to being with a girl is her interest in you.
You do not want a girl who's not interested.
You do not want a girl who's not invested.
If she is not then you're wasting your time because 9.9 times out of 10, it's not gonna
happen.
You cannot convince a girl to like you.
She is not choosing to like you based on logic, it's all emotion which means you can't convince
her.
That means she either likes you or she doesn't.
It's black and white.
And if she doesn't like you, she needs to go.
You need to move on and find someone who is interested.
Of course you don't know that in the very beginning obviously.
I'm not telling you to only go and approach a girl who you know is giving you signs that
she likes.
No, you got to leave the interaction, go up, start the conversation, get things going.
But if you're trying to get things going and she's not biting, she doesn't seem interested,
it's not working, she's not replying to your text, she's not meeting up with you, she's
not interested in having sex with you, that is the point where you say ok, I gave it my
best now I need to move on and find someone who's gonna be a better fit.
Let's drop these girls and let's go for the ones that pass the tests.
How do you get a girl this invested in you?
How is it possible to be able to meet a woman who gets to the point where she's on your
couch asking you deep questions, you guys are having amazing sex, and it's all going
so well?
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