Hey this is Clay.
And in this video we are going to be talking about five signs that a guy is an alpha male.
All right.
So alpha males.
Yeah that's a really interesting concept both women and men seem to think about this in
some capacity or another.
And I guess the theory goes that you know humans are identical to wolves and that wolves
have alpha males in their packs and that.
Humans.
Have packs that have an alpha male in them or something like that.
I don't really get it but.
Let's just kind of entertain the idea that that this whole alpha male thing might just
be something that's happening in your own mind.
But regardless the whole alpha male thing how you can know if a guy is an alpha male
I'm just going to go with that language for the sake of talking to you because you clicked
on a video called How to tell if he's an alpha male.
So part of you wants to know.
OK.
So by alpha male what I'm really talking about is a guy who who's not you know leading the
pack necessarily but he's just a guy who knows what his life is about.
And he's going after it OK so we're going to talk about 5 Signs That You Have Found
one of these guys because I don't understand like women wanting to be with a guy who knows
what his life is about.
He's not around to just you know B.S.
himself or anyone else just you know dicking around with videogames and sports and stuff
like that but he actually knows what his life is about.
OK.
So let's go ahead and get into the five signs that a guy is an alpha male.
And the first sign is that he isn't trying really hard to impress other people or to
dominate them or anything like that.
Right.
So oftentimes a lot of people think that an alpha male is like this sort of domineering
sort of rule kind of guy who.
You know ultra high testosterone has the like you know caveman club on his shoulders is
going to start swinging it around until everyone bows to his every whim.
But that's not really what an alpha male is that's actually somebody who is posturing
somebody who's actually really terrified of maybe you not agreeing with them or something
along those lines.
And so they posture they try to make themselves seem stronger than they really are because
they're really so concerned about your perception of them and whether you see them as a strong
person or or good enough or whether they're looking good or not looking bad or something
like that.
Right.
It's kind of like the sort of you know meek nice guy kind of person but sort of the opposite
side of things right.
And that is not really a true alpha male that's just a try hard kind of guy.
Right.
So if a guy spends a lot of time trying to impress you trying to win your approval or
even in subtle ways trying to gain approval by making himself seem strong or right or
like a know it all or whatever.
Then that guy is probably not an alpha male.
The truth is is that real alpha males again we're just using that term.
But real guys who who know what their life is about and they're on their path and they're
just going after what's important to them.
They don't give a shit about what you think about them.
They really don't give a shit.
Why.
Because they're going after what they want.
And that is the most important thing in their life.
Your opinion of them is not the most important thing in their life.
And if you don't like them then hey sorry but if you do them that's cool you can come
along for the ride but they're not trying to micromanage your perception of them because
they know what their life is about.
They know what's important to them and they're going after it.
OK.
And that is the most important thing to them not whether or not they look cool good or
whether you swoon when they walk by or anything like that.
Maybe that's icing on the cake but that's not what it is that they're living for.
OK.
The second son.
This leads us to the second sign that a guy might be an alpha male is that he really knows
what his life is about.
He knows what's important to him.
Okay so maybe you've interact with him you've talked with him.
Does it seem like he has some sort of like burning passion in his life something that
he's like working towards right.
You know I think a lot of people have something that they want to do in their life but maybe
they just aren't taking action on it aren't executing on that for any number of reasons.
And you know though I'm not talking about the dreamers like yeah.
Wouldn't it be nice if if I maybe someday I kind of started a company and maybe we could
you know do this thing about whatever.
I'm not talking about those guys I'm talking about the guys that that want it so bad they're
making it happen right now.
You know maybe it's not all there yet but they're taking action.
They're not just sitting on the couch you know commenting about how maybe some day this
will happen or wouldn't it be nice if for something like that they're actually out there
trying to make it happen.
They're taking the actions they're making the moves to kind of put these things together
in some way and sure they might make mistakes sure they may not always be there.
Sure they might have setbacks and time time but they're actually out there trying to make
it happen.
That's definitely a sign of an alpha male not a dreamer and not somebody who's just
checked out zoned out going to work watching TV and all that stuff.
But this is somebody who's actually on his mission.
There's nothing wrong with watching TV there's nothing wrong with just having a job or something
like that.
But you know if you're just kind of going through dead not alive then that's probably
not a sign that you're an alpha male.
So that's definitely something else to be on the lookout for.
The third sign that a guy might be an alpha male is that he has very high standards for
himself and for others.
OK so an alpha male you know he knows what he wants.
He really does.
And so he's not just going to be surrounding himself with just a bunch of people they're
just going to bullshit him just sort of you know tell them what he wants to hear.
Oh yeah the cool water and you know he wants to surround himself with people who are also
committed to excellence who are also committed to pursuing what it is they want out of life
and going after it full throttle.
And he's probably going to want that out of you as well too.
Now just because an alpha male wants to you know surround himself and demands high standards
of himself and others you know that doesn't mean that he's going to be a perfectionist.
Right.
There's a difference between being a perfectionist and just having high standards.
OK.
Being a perfectionist is often a symptom of emotionally unavailable men or women because
it gives them the out for not having to commit to you.
Right.
Like oh well you weren't perfect.
So I can't commit to you.
Right.
But that's not what I'm talking about I'm talking about the kind of guy who just really
cares so much about the people in his life that he really wants to.
Help them rise to the occasion to create the best of what it is that they can in their
life and in his life and have this whole symbiotic thing where you both are just sort of like
mutually lifting each other up OK.
That's the kind of thing I'm talking about when it comes to alpha males.
Now the fourth thing is that an alpha male has follow through his takes his words very
seriously.
He's not just going to talk about something and then flake out at the last minute or or
anything like that or you know do bunch of talk about something and never follow through
on an alpha male takes his commitments seriously and he follows through on them seriously you
know like if you've ever watched a movie or TV show or something where where you know
there's just one of those guys that people just cheer for and root for and just want
to be around all the time.
It's probably because that guy is somebody that they can trust.
Right.
And the the key foundation of trust is that you basically follow through on what it is
that you say you're going to do if you say you're going to do something you do it.
If you say you're going to be somewhere you go there if you say you're going to do if
you say you're going to go out with somebody you go out with that person and you know yeah
sure circumstances and life might pop up or something like that but you're going to make
the best effort that you possibly can to follow through on your word because that is definitely
something that alpha males tend to have in common.
And the fifth sign that a guy is an alpha male is that he's not afraid to take the lead.
Now you know.
Sure.
Alpha males might often be the ones sort of in the lead of a group of people or when it
comes to a dating situation they might sort of be in the lead when it comes to the date
and the direction things go or something like that.
But it's not necessarily they are always in the lead because that just goes back to trying
to look good trying to you know make sure that everybody sees them as like the man but
really an alpha male doesn't care about being the man because an alpha male knows what his
life is about.
So you know he doesn't have a problem taking the lead in situations or in organizations
or on dates or in social groups or anything like that but he doesn't need to.
Right.
So he also is totally ok to just kick back and let other people decide on things or whatever
if it comes to that.
But you know people can't decide or if they need somebody take the lead.
He has no problem just stepping up and saying hey guys why don't we go to this place over
here.
So those are the five signs of an alpha male.
Right.
So if you're an alpha male watching this video what do you think.
Did I get them to miss something.
Am I totally off base.
If you're a woman and you've dated an alpha male if you're a connoisseur of alpha males
what do you think.
Did I miss something.
Did I. Did I catch it or what.
What's going on.
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