This is Tripp from Tripp Advice.com and today we’re going to talk about how to be “edgy”.
Why would you want to learn how to be “edgy”? What the hell is edgy?
My guess is one of the reasons why you’re not attracting a girl is because you are in
the nice guy category. You know the nice guy. Always people pleasing, never over stepping his boundaries,
trying to tip toe over every little thing so he doesn’t say anything or do anything wrong.
This is a state of mind that leads you directly into the friend zone with every girl you meet.
My advice to you is not to be an asshole. Instead, you want to be a good guy with an edge.
That’s the real key. That’s what women are looking for.
In just a second, I’m going to tell you how you can be that guy with an edge.
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We’re talking about how to be edgy. Why do you want to do this again?
Because women like men who have a bit of an edge to them. He appears more masculine, sexy, and interesting.
Without an edge, you’re dull, forgettable. Today I’m going to you a few different ways
to create an edge without having to be someone totally different or without being an asshole to women.
An easy way to do this is by changing up your style.
And no, I don’t mean you have to all of a sudden ride a motorcycle and wear tight leather pants.
But that actually does bring up a good pint. What type of person do you think has the most “edge” to them?
Can you take a guess? Maybe a rockstar?
These guys are wearing leather pants all the time. Then again, let’s not go that far.
Instead, think about wearing some more stylish clothes that can bring out a certain greenness.
Maybe that is something leather like a leather jacket or some tighter pants. Darker clothes are good too.
That usually makes a guy more edgy. A new haircut works too. Maybe growing out
your hair or even going really short. You can even try on different types of jackets
that have a more grittier funky look to them. The options for you are endless.
You want more ideas on how to create an edgy and sexy look then go to Pinterest and type in
"edgy look" into the search. You will find some awesome ideas and ones that will fit your style the best.
Go check that out. I truly believe your style is going to be the most help in being more edgy.
Next, if you want to be more edgy then it’s all in your mindset.
Follow me closely now, because I’m going to get real specific. A guy who's considered edgy or bad boy
is the type of guy who has ultra confidence. What do I mean by that?
That’s the kind of guy who truly doesn’t give a shit about what people think about him.
He has purpose, drive and he’s proactive when he wants to get something or achieve something.
Unfortunately, it’s not enough to just dress the part. You have to be the part.
You have to believe in yourself to an extreme degree and know that you have worth in this world.
Or as some may call it value. What about you makes you awesome?
What is it that you bring to the table? Also, it’s all about your attitude. Remember
when I said not to give a shit about what other people think? That will show in your everyday interactions.
Are you working hard at seeking approval from women? Are you people pleasing?
Are you agreeable and begging to be validated? These are the weaknesses of a nice guy and the antithesis
of a guy with an edge. An edgy guy also takes chances and steps outside his comfort zone.
There’s a level of spontaneity in his life where he will go with the flow and see where things take him.
He takes chances, especially with women. Do you think an edgy guy will be scared to approach a girl he desires?
No way. Do you think this type of guy would be afraid to ask her out?
Definitely not. What about if he gets rejected? Is he going to take it personally
and look at himself as a failure and a loser? Never. He believes in himself
and what is meant to be. He will move on and remember that he’s a fucking man.
Now let me be clear here. An edgy cool guy doesn’t think he’s better than everyone else
or have an ego. That’s not the type of guy that we’re defining here. Rather,
he helps those in need and puts everyone on similar level, gives everyone their chance.
Once you start treating others like shit or putting others down or making others feel lower than you,
that’s when you get into this asshole territory. And in that territory you will attract women,
but a very nasty, terrible type of women who you really don’t want to end up with.
I hope this is all coming together for you. I know that there’s a lot here to work with and absorb.
I suggest you watch this video over and over again to really let these ideas sink in.
These are the ways you’re going to avoid the friend zone.
Everything you’re doing to get yourself into the friend zone is the exact opposite of an edgy guy,
rather a nice guy. There’s more to discuss so if you have any questions,
write one below because I want to help answer them. Don’t forget if you want
more ways to attract a women, then go right here on the screen or the description below and
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More videos coming your way. I’ll see you on the next one.