INFP males are value-driven, inventive people who frequently feel like square pegs in round holes.
In a culture and society that promotes the assumption that guys are typically dominant,
assertive, and direct, the male INFP may feel that
there is something fundamentally wrong with them or that they are inadequate to others.
Life is a fascinating and hard journey for the INFP man, full of learning experiences
that foster deeper self-understanding and strengthen their personal development process.
The INFP male takes life seriously and attempts to go below the surface,
finding meaning and purpose in the world and in all they do.
Today I am taking a deep look into What Life Is Like For An INFP Male
and 5 important things you need to know. Not every INFP is the same, of course, but make sure to
watch until the end of this video, because there isn't a lot of information out there about the
male INFP personality type - and I think you will be pretty interested in what you will discover.
Lets get into it.
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Starting things off for me today is INFPs Are Painfully Sensitive
Most people are sensitive to the moods and feelings of others and,
to some extent, can adopt them as their own. The INFP male, on the other hand,
is an intense emotional chameleon who takes this behavior to the next level.
They are so tuned in to their surroundings, and so interwoven with the people inhabiting it,
That their emotions continuously shift to match those of their friends.
The INFP male would never swap his intense sensitivity for anything. They regard it as
one of their best characteristics. Nonetheless, their empathy capacity might feel like a big
burden at times, threatening to overpower them and leave them emotionally drained or upset.
INFPs will support things they believe in with intense passion and unwavering dedication.
However, They will sometimes mysteriously vanish from the picture, suddenly unable to attend events
or meetings or contact acquaintances who support the same causes or nonprofit organizations.
Some of this stems from the introversion of the INFP man.
They require time to unwind and recharge their emotional batteries on a regular basis. As a
result, they must escape from social spaces on occasion as a stress management method,
which is especially true if those areas have made heavy demands on their time and energy.
Above all, the INFP male will need to take a step back from time to time to prevent getting fully
swamped by the empathic connection they feel with others who are in physical or emotional distress.
If they don't take care of themselves, they can sink in unhappiness or anxiety, feeling
helpless and overwhelmed to the point where functioning in daily life becomes impossible.
The sensitive INFP male has the advantage of bringing authenticity and happiness to their
lives as long as they do what is necessary to protect themselves and manage their emotions.
Next up is Male INFPs Can Be Unexpectedly Spontaneous
Because of their introversion, an INFP male who has a flash of inspiration may
catch people off guard. The INFP male is often perceived as cautious, quiet, and risk-averse.
As a result, when an INFP friend or family member announces that they've signed up for
a course to learn how to skydive or ride a horse, or that they've chosen to quit their
job and devote themselves to their artwork or writing, they may be totally shocked.
The INFP male's cautious and thoughtful demeanour can conceal their spontaneous side,
which originates from their Extroverted intuition.
The average INFP man will feel intimidated or imprisoned by his habits and routines,
which he will compensate for by trying something completely new. They do this
not on the spur of the moment, but because they are afraid of becoming dull and predictable.
This openness to shift course or try new things has both advantages and disadvantages.
The advantage is that It can help INFP men push their horizons and gain self-confidence
as they take on new tasks and achieve goals that previously appeared out of reach.
The disadvantage is that an INFP male who is eager to be spontaneous can occasionally make
rash decisions on the heat of the moment, inviting misfortune and disappointment.
This occurs when they deviate from their usual patterns without first considering
the consequences. It may also take place if their decisions are not well-researched,
involve self-denial, or involve wishful thinking. Now, to the INFP man's credit that he's not scared
to be daring and experiment. That attitude, however, can only become a reliable benefit
if they can learn to moderate their spontaneity with real and deliberate consideration, as the
most successful INFP men do. A disastrous decision or two is generally enough to make them see the
light and learn that their spontaneity must be balanced with just the proper amount of restraint.
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Kicking off my top 3 today is INFP Males Are Notoriously Conflict-Averse
Divisiveness makes an INFP male uncomfortable.
If they detect the possibility of conflict, they will strive to resolve it as calmly as possible,
finding a means to reach an agreement and prevent converting misunderstandings into
irreparable disagreements. If the people they care about disagree, they can be extremely
successful mediators, providing a thoughtful and empathic perspective that considers all sides
while working hard to find a compromise that is acceptable to everyone involved in the argument.
Unfortunately, there are moments in life when a person's reluctance to conflict
prevents them from standing up for themselves or providing honest feedback to others who need it.
Fear of conflict can leave the introverted and peace-loving INFP male unprepared to
deal with people who are only concerned with themselves and are willing to exploit others to
get what they want. It can also jeopardize crucial relationships, producing chronic
bitterness by preventing important interpersonal issues from being handled or even discussed.
Because they are so intelligent and perceptive, most INFP men soon realize that no matter how
hard they try, they can't always turn lemons into lemonade. When they come across situations
when compromise is impossible and a line must be drawn, They will do whatever it takes to protect
themselves and people they care about. They will do it even if it makes them feel extremely
uncomfortable at the moment and makes them feel bad about their words or actions for days.
In the runner up spot is INFP Males Have Strong Beliefs That Evolve Over Time
INFP men are principled and responsible. They are morally, environmentally, and culturally
conscious, and they work hard to educate themselves on problems that are important to them.
The INFP man can be highly expressive and even outspoken in debates and conversations,
which may raise some eyebrows among those who know
them as even-tempered and quiet in practically all settings.
While INFP males are inherently curious and want to know why the world is the way it is,
they are also receptive to being swayed.
Their convictions are strong, yet they are open to new ideas and viewpoints
and are willing to change their minds if world events or compelling arguments convince them.
The process of self-examination is never-ending inside the psyche of the INFP male. They are
continuously questioning themselves and their opinions, searching for logical errors, incorrect
assumptions, and indications that their personal interests are in some way skewing their analysis.
As a result of this thorough approach,
their thoughts and opinions do continue to adapt over time.
This is not because they are erratic or easily swayed by current intellectual or cultural
trends. It's because they feel a deep and profound obligation to get it right,
to see all sides and be fair to all, and to attentively listen to every opposing perspective.
INFP guys are self-aware enough to allow their notions about truth and justice to evolve,
even if that evolution takes them in unexpected places.
Are you an INFP man? What are your thoughts and experiences on these things you need to
know as an INFP male? Make sure to leave a comment and tell me your stories.
Topping my list and the number one thing you need to know is that
Self-Doubt Will Be Used As A Catapult For Personal Development By An INFP
Many INFP males appear to be plagued by self-doubt.
They observe people who exude self-assurance while struggling to achieve the same level of certainty.
A typical INFP male will be concerned that he has chosen the incorrect profession,
that he isn't truly suited for it, or that he isn't contributing enough to the betterment
of his town or the world. They are concerned about whether they are doing enough as husbands,
fathers, siblings, or friends,to assist their loved ones in succeeding and developing.
This seeming self-doubt could easily be misinterpreted as low self-esteem.
But, just beneath the personal uneasiness, there is a firmly held hope,
a firm and unbreakable conviction, that the INFP male will eventually figure it all out and learn
how to make far better long-term decisions. INFP guys are aware that they are a work in progress,
which they accept because they believe the end result will be well worth the time and effort.
INFP men are multifaceted; those who love and know them
already understand this. This complexity stems from their ambitious way of life,
which emphasizes learning, helping, growing, and contributing.
As you might have noticed, INFPs are exceptional at turning challenges into opportunities. This is
one thing that really separates an INFP from other personality types. Their strengths quickly become
superpowers when an INFP embraces who they are and the extraordinary things they are capable of.
This video takes a deep dive into those superpowers that only an INFP has compared to
others, and how you can use them to your advantage in life, and maximize your full potential.