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-The most important lesson...
-Ooh. Not to lie.
-Even if it hurts, you have to be honest.
-I've lied a couple of times,
and I don't feel right about that.
-The most important lesson, for me,
has been not to place too much value
in other people's opinions.
-The chances are no one is thinking about you
as much as you think they are.
-Don't hit the brakes in a Ford Probe
going about 80 miles an hour
when it turns from pavement to gravel.
-Take it easy.
-Not to get so overwhelmed. Not to stress.
-I think that it's very unhealthy
to hang on to things that are bothering you.
-To treat others as you want to be treated.
-To not fight anymore.
-I can understand, like, defending yourself,
but there's literally no reason
you should ever try to hurt somebody.
-Probably forgiveness
is the most important thing that you can do.
-No matter what they've done,
forgive so that you're not holding that hurt or the hatred.
-You can't just, like, be like "F" you.
You got to be like, bless you, and move on.
-I feel like I judge people too much sometimes.
So I'd like to not do that.
-You don't know what's going on in everyone's life.
-Maybe they're not having a great day.
-Don't judge all the time.
-Accept everyone where they are for who they are,
starting with yourself.
-Not hating yourself for the things that you've done.
-Learn from your mistakes.
-Try to have only one wife.
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-Keep your family as close as you can.
-The most important lesson I learned was from my mom,
who, at 67, after retiring,
was taking another nursing test.
If you're not learning, you're dying.
So keep learning.
-We just simply don't know the answers.
As you get older, you realize
how absolutely clueless you truly are.
-And that's okay.
-Listen to you heart.
-If something really feels right, just kind of go with it.
-Don't ever stop what you're doing. Just --
-Invest in yourself. Do what you love.
-Really put your heart into everything that you do
and to things that you deem important.
-At the end of the day,
you're the only person that's with you 24/7,
and why not do what you want to do?
-You got to be who you are.
-Appreciate yourself, like yourself.
-How to love myself so that I can love others.
-That is an amazingly powerful thing.
-It's better to have loved and lost than never loved.
-Just to be present.
-You get more out of your life by living it now.
-Finding a way to care about other people.
-Not stop giving.
-Always hope for a better life for everyone.
-Seeing how grateful people are
when you help them goes a long way.