If you have an event in your, life experience in your life that has a
strong emotional charge to it
and you don't feel like your normal self, you feel this alarm system
switch on, you're going to narrow your focus on the cause and the
brain is going to take a snapshot, and that's called a "long-term memory", right?
So then, what people don't know is that every time they think about
that event,
they're producing the same chemistry in their brain and body as if the
event was occurring!
So, the highly-charged event is actually producing the emotion and the
body is so objective
that it doesn't know the difference between the real experience that's
creating the emotion and the emotion that the person is fabricating by
thought alone.
The body's believing,
it's so objective
it's believing
it's in the same environmental experience.
So, the highly charged emotional events,
some people think of their ex and the thought of that person
makes them feel out of balance.
All you need is an image and an emotion, a thought and a feeling,
a stimulus and a response. And your conditioning your body emotionally
into the past.
So now the memory is just not in the brain
now, it's in the body.
Okay?
So now, that thought of that person is actually creating a response in
the body
that's consuming the body's energy for growth and repair.
Consuming the body's energy to create because in survival it's not a
time to create, in survival it's time to run fight or hide.
So the problem is that it becomes a subconscious program.
It's no longer a conscious process.
It now is a subconscious process.
So now the body has been conditioned into resentment, into
unhappiness, into fear, anxiety, whatever it is.
And so, back to our concept of bringing love into your life.
So you say to that person:
Okay, open your heart. And they're going to say:
Are you kidding me?
I was injured.
I was hurt.
I'm not going to do that.
Let me see your cards first, right?
And once I see your car said,
then I'll open up a little bit.
So we protect this, right?
So now, in that state of survival,
the research shows that the long-term effects of those stress hormones
are pushing
the genetic buttons that are creating disease, the body can't live in
emergency mode for that period of time.
So in a sense, the person is making themselves
sick by thought alone.
Their thoughts are making them sick literally.
So, the problem is - now the body is conditioned into the past, and
it's the mind.
The body is the mind? The body becomes the mind emotionally.
So now all of this energy is stored in the body, and now the person now
has to leave their unhappiness and step out into the unknown.
They have to get out of the familiar feelings that has defined them.
So they'll say: I can't really feel joy.
I can't really feel love. And what they're really saying is:
I've been conditioning my body emotionally so much into the
past that I can't feel anything else
other than what I know. The survival chemicals are actually knocking
your brain and body out of balance.
You're out of balance in that moment.
And if you keep doing that, the imbalance is now the new balance.
And now you're altered emotionally!
So back to the concept of love.
So the person can theoretically, intellectually, philosophically
say: I want this type of person.
She's gotta be this way.
He's got to look this way.
He's got to be like this. And they're basically saying: I want
something that represents all the things that I no longer want, right?
And so, they're creating with their brain and mind, which is perfect.
The problem is is that if you can't feel the emotion of your future,
your manifestation of love before it's made manifest...
Like people say: Well, when my relationship happens, when I find Mr. Right,
then I'm going to feel loved. Waiting for the outer environment to
change to take away this feeling of anger, resentment, emptiness.
But they forgot that they create reality.
In other words, when it finally appears, then I'm going to feel love.
That's cause and effect!
We're waiting for something to happen.
If you're feeling the lack and the emptiness, then you're keeping your
relationship at arm's length because you don't
have the magnetic field to draw to you!
So, the emotions that come from these energy centers, lower energy
centers in our body, do have frequencies,
there's chemistry involved but they have a different agenda.
So now, we ask the person:
Can you teach your body emotionally
what the future will feel like before it's made manifest?
That means you can't wait for your relationship to feel love.
You have to reverse that battleship and understand - feeling love
is going to be the magnet, and if you can hold the vision of your
future, a clear intention with a coherent brain, organize signals
into the field and you could actually crack this thing open.
And practice getting so present in the moment that you're
not anticipating the next moment or trying to predict the future.
And you're no longer romancing the emotions of your past.
You can find that sweet spot of the generous present moment.
The familiar past is the known emotionally.
The predictable future is the habituation of autopilot being
unconscious and programs.
Those are both knowns. There's only one place where the unknown exists.
That's the present moment!
So if you could work with your body to the point that it trusts you
enough the feel so safe that you have conquered it in a certain way
that it could actually relax into the present moment and it's not
worried about what's going to happen next,
what's going around you, or that you need to eat,
you need to pee, you need to move,
you got beyond all your drives and you're ready to create, that moment
where you are present, if you could begin to work with your heart and
start to breathe and start to practice feeling love, in the beginning
it would feel foolish. Or gratitude,
why would I feel love if it hasn't happened?
Well, that's because you've been hypnotized into waiting for your
world to change the feel the emotion from the experience.
But according to the quantum model,
your emotion ahead of the experience,
when you combine that clear intention with the elevated emotion and
you feel love, your body
is so objective that it's actually believing it's living in that future
in the present moment!
And your body now is beginning to change,
you are beginning to change your biology to reflect what you're about
to experience in your future.
So the stronger the love you feel,
the more altered
you feel inside of you, the more you're going to pay attention to that
picture in your mind. Stimulus-response. Memory-emotion. Thought and
feeling. But now you're remembering your future instead of remembering
your past. And biologically, it's actually the same! The stronger the
emotion you feel from some outer experience in your life,
the more altered you feel, the more the brain freezes the frame and
takes a snapshot.
Well, now you're freezing a frame in the outer environment. But if
you're truly in the present moment and you know exactly what you want
and you begin to teach your body emotions,
start practicing opening that heart,
it's amazing
what happens.
The moment that heart begins to open,
we've measured this so many times on a scan, on a real-time
brain scan, when the heart moves into this kind of rhythm, when you're
feeling frustration, when you're feeling impatience, when you're
feeling resentment, you were stepping on the gas pedal and you're
stepping on the brake at the same time.
And the heart is pumping against the closed system, and it causes
an erratic beat.
It becomes incoherent. And energy literally leaves the heart.
Now you no longer believe in your future.
You just can't put your heart into your future.
You can't trust the outcome because there's no energy there.
It's been used and consumed somewhere else.
So energy is leaving the brain as well.
But once energy starts to move into the heart, we've seen this so many
times, and it starts to beat in this rhythm like banging a drum or
dropping a pebble in water, pebble
after pebble, the heart begins
to create a new wave of energy right to the brain. Like taking a
big sheet
and going like that. And all the sudden
you see this wave aid the brain
gets this rush of energy. And that change in brain wave patterns, that
change, that wave is carrying information. And the person starts to get
a very clear idea,
they see their future very clearly!
Now that energy is causing them to move into very coherent Alpha
brain wave patterns which is the state of creation.
This is when you no longer hear the voice in your head that's talking to you
that you listen to
and believe is the truth.
I'm not good enough.
Whatever that is.
It's called "the default mode".
That suppresses the default mode network
and the next thing you know, you start seeing pictures and images,
your start dreaming - and that's the imagination.
That's the creative state.
So now you start naturally imagining the heart is the creative
center, we're going to put our heart into our future, it better be open
and activated.
So now, when you start falling in love with your future,
oxytocin is released in the brain and in the heart. Oxytocin signals
nitric oxide.
Nitric oxide signals another chemical called endothelial derived
relaxing factor. And just like when your sexual organs get filled with
blood because you're aroused,
the same thing happens here, as it would happen somewhere else.
And literally the arteries in the heart and lungs
engorge. And now your heart feels full and it's thumping in order.
And you're in the present moment. Now once
that happens and it's beating and rhythm, the heart produces an
external magnetic field up to 3 meters wide.
Now in survival, you're drawing from the field and turning into
chemistry.
When you get energy in the heart,
it's causing a change in the brain and all of a sudden it's resetting
the baseline for trauma.
And now, here you have a magnetic field.
Now the heart is your magnet.
It is the center of creation.
And now, that energy is frequency.
And frequency carries information.
And you can lay the thought of your new relationship on that energy
because it's consistent with it!
You cannot lay the thought of your new relationship in need.
That's a different energy. When you mean in need?
Well, if you're feeling... I'm needing someone to love me. That's
a different frequency.
That's a different energy.
So now you're trying, you're grasping, you're controlling,
you're forcing,
you're trying to predict, you're overthinking, overanalyzing. And that's
how people live their relationships.
So then,
if you are going to prepare your brain and body
for a new relationship, then you would have to become love completely
every day. And that signal then that you're sending out into the field
can carry the thought of your health, your wealth, your relationship,
or whatever!