What's up, gals.
Welcome to another episode of Galtelligence.
Today, we're answering one of women's most asked questions in dating-
what are the things men notice about girls?
This episode breaks down what men notice about women
and teaches you how to look more attractive, how to flirt, and we even have
some tricks to get a guy.
A big shout to Gabrielle Moses for inspiring this video.
She gave a lot of clues about what men notice about you, so we thought we’d add to
the list.
By the end of this video, we’re also sharing the number one thing that sets off
any guy.
So stay tuned if you're determined to get the guy.
Curious.
Let's begin.
1.
Spunkiness Fairytales tell us time and again about a
story of a beautiful maiden waiting to be rescued by a knight in shining
armor.
Romantic movies have exhausted the storyline of a damsel in distress
finally meeting Mr. Right just as she was about to given up on love.
Thank God it's 2022.
Women are becoming braver, fiercer, and harder to knockdown.
According to a study done by the University of Alaska Anchorage,
men and women are attracted to those with personality traits
that allow them to take part in and enjoy what they call hunter-gatherer risks.
One of the things men notice about girls is their sense of adventure.
Men love novelty, and they like trying new things.
When dating, men value women who they can have fun with.
If you want to know how to get a guy to like you and to get a guy to chase you,
you got to have a zest for life.
It doesn't only tell them that you're fun.
It also shows them that you're confident.
If you're not yet an adventurous woman, don't worry.
There are steps you can take to guide you in that direction.
The first and easiest way to get out of your comfort zone is to make new friends.
Opening yourself up to new friends will challenge you to think differently about all
areas of life.
Second, test the waters by creating a bucket list of things you’d like to do
and checking them off.
You don't have to go big right there and then.
You can start by doing something simple like going on a hike on an easy trail,
trying out food you haven't tried before, or taking a drive and exploring a random street.
Lastly, set yourself up to fail.
Most of the time, people are reluctant to try new things because
they're intimidated and afraid to fail.
Yeah, failing sucks, but it also helps you grow.
You only live once.
You might as well make the most out of it.
Want to know more tricks to get a guy to chase you?
Check out this video.
4.
Body Positive Whether you like it or not, men are visual
creatures.
But really, wouldn't your jaw drop if you ran into a guy
with great eyes, hair, and a great body?
So there's really no harm if a guy looks for these same features in women.
Want to know what men notice about women at first sight?
Your physique.
According to men, the ideal female body isn't quite so specific.
Men love the look of fairly strong women since visible strength makes women look even
healthier and more capable.
Men don’t care about a little extra fat, either, as long as it’s
within the healthy range.
That can be sexy, too.
Being slim, lean, and toned is attractive, but men aren't as hyper-focused on it as women
are.
Whether you're slim and fit, strong and toned, or strong and curvy,
the most important thing is that you stay in good shape and good health.
So if you want to know how to be more attractive, you have to build habits that support your
well-being.
Both a naturally thin woman and a naturally curvy woman can benefit from hitting the gym,
having a great workout routine, and maintaining a healthy diet.
Regardless of your body type, when you get into great shape, men will see someone
committed to herself and a woman comfortable in her own skin.
Get to know the 7 habits that destroy your well-being by watching this video.
3.
Miss Social Butterfly Next on this list of what men notice about
you is charisma.
More than your physical appearance, men also notice how you move, take up space,
and interact with others.
According to British psychologist Richard J. Wiseman,
a charismatic person tends to be highly attuned to the emotions of others
and has an extraordinary ability to awaken emotions in them.
At the same time, they can keep their own emotions in check
and is resistant to the influence of other people
and their negative attitudes and ideas.
Charismatic women are confident, assertive, emotionally intelligent, and possess magnetic
energy.
Do you want to know why men are attracted to these women?
It's because men value women they can show off to the world-
the kind of woman they can introduce to family and friends and the type of woman
who makes their life better than it already is.
A man showing you off and introducing you to
important people in his life is one of the telltale signs a guy likes you.
If you want to know how to get the guy you like, you better start building your charisma.
How do you that?
First, become self-aware by learning how to recognize your emotions,
listen to them, trust them, and manage them.
Second, develop your communication skills.
Know when to speak, when to listen, and how to express your emotions.
Lastly, observe others.
Watch how well-known charismatic people talk, how they behave,
and how they relate to people.
Find something you can relate to in their behavior and mindset
and apply those in your life.
Want to learn more tips to get the guy you like?
Check out this video.
Enjoying this list of things men notice about girls?
We have two more items coming up.
Before we continue, I want to remind you that by the end of this
video, we're also sharing the number one thing that
sets off any guy.
If you want to know how to get your crush to like you, keep watching.
2.
A Lovely Voice Having a girlfriend means having to listen
to your partner at least 70% of the time.
Whenever you're speaking, what men notice about you is your voice.
Studies have shown that what men are attracted to is a higher-pitched voice.
According to one study done by University College London,
high-pitched voices were found to be almost universally more attractive to men,
mostly because of the features, figure, and youth they imagined to go along with that
voice.
So on a first date, and while wondering how to make a guy like you, watch your
speaking voice- speak slowly, clearly, and try to sound as classy as possible.
1.
Beautiful Eyes The eyes are the windows to your soul.
According to The Harvard Brain, men are more attracted to women with clear,
bright eyes.
If you want to know how to attract a guy on a first date, the trick is to make your eyes
as pretty as possible.
Doll it up with a beautiful eyeshadow, mascara, or an eyelash
extension.
That's what make up is for.
And remember to maintain eye contact when you're talking.
Prolonged eye contact has been thought to release phenylethylamine,
a chemical responsible for feelings of attraction.
It has also been thought to release oxytocin, the love chemical most closely associated
with longer-term bonding and commitment.
Now that you know what men notice about you, it’s time you learn what sets off any
guy so you can avoid chasing him off and blowing your chances.
Ladies, men don't like women who play dumb, and I mean, why would you?
Unless you are, of course.
Healthy men are attracted to confident, happy, and smart women.
So don't sell yourself short.
What are the other things men notice about girls?
Do you agree that these are what men notice about women?
Share your thoughts and answers in the comments section below.
Now that you know what men notice about women, you should already have an idea of what to
work on yourself.
But more than getting the guy you like, working on yourself should always
be done for yourself, first and foremost.
Knowing who you are and what you can bring to the table is always the first step to getting
what you want and deserve, not just in life, but also in love.
Check out this video where we break down 7 psychological tricks to get a guy to chase
you.