What's going on? Tripp Kramer here from Tripp Advice.com. On today's video
I'm gonna check out another dating coach's video and give my
opinion, talk about it a little bit. And this was a good one that came out.
This is RSD Max. Definitely respect him, good guy, watched a bunch of his videos
and he's got some good stuff to say. I thought this one was interesting.
I'm gonna react to it, see what's up and give you my opinion. Let's do it.
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We're talking about meeting girls at the workplace.
I've talked about this a lot before.
I think I'm the mainstream coach he might be talking about.
It's the real world.
I fucking swear sometimes. Come on.
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Come on. Let's go.
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100% agree.
It's creepy. It's weird if you don't know what you're doing.
It's gonna, you're gonna just mess up and the workplace is a
place where like,...that's not where you want to mess up.
RSD Max - If you don't know how to have nice conversations, how to be a challenge,
how to be funny, if you don't know any of that go
to a nightclub. Go somewhere where you have some anonymity.
Yup. Yup.
Agree. 100%.
Gotta practice that stuff before you do it in a
high-pressure environment such as the workplace and I did this at work and I
got fucking fired at everybody hates me now like dude don't be fucking dumb use
your brain you do not want to become that guy you know you not want to become
a jeopardize your job your core just be that creepy guy of work who's just like
hitting on all the girls and whatever other way there is uncalibrated okay
just don't do it cause the word of warning how to be said sorry I sound
angry mr. Len max let's get into the first point the first point there is the
pervy social with everyone focus on with everyone because being social is a great
thing being social with these girls is a little weird right then you get again
you end up becoming here that guy like log is hitting on all the girls she's a
weirdo did a simple way to not become that yes if you agree and then you're at
work and this is just like that's the last place won't have a reputation worth
funny mail a co-worker then you just oh it's just it's just Johnny the funny
nice guy oh it's just Johnny the social guy right it doesn't look a weird
okay so focus on being social with everyone and kind of as a sub point of
that is don't be physical don't be gonna I want to pause here 249 so also I want
to say too is one thing that you gotta remember in terms of what he's saying is
yeah you want to make sure you're not that weird guy but remember we're
talking with two different environments so that people usually meet girls at
nightclubs out and about here is the you know kind of workplace and so I don't
want you to think that both areas are the same because they're not you're
gonna be acting a little bit more uninhibited when you're out at a
nightclub or a bar were ever meeting people because you don't have a
reputation going around versus at work so just make sure that you are kind of
playing like a different type of game or different type of socializing it's gonna
be different when you're talking to the girls at work versus when you're out
let's keep going again it's all avoiding being that guy you can be physical later
you can you know kiss the girl at some other location
don't ya don't be physical at work don't be afraid don't make people feel
uncomfortable if anything you know you can hug people if you want to do that in
Europe people hug in America a little less see what yeah yeah then your
workplace but again you're doing that it's gonna be different when you're out
and about which I'm sure he's saying escalation when you're out at clubs and
things like that you can be physical on the social hierarchy okay we humans look
we humans are creatures of hierarchy wherever we go there's a social
hierarchy sometimes less noticeable sometimes more notices get the job more
notice we have the bossy of the manager general manager etc but also within
coworkers even if you're officially you know a same rank you get paid the same
there is certain social hierarchies aka this is the cool guy this is the popular
guy this is the loser this is the weird guy whatever it is so you basically want
to focus on climbing up that social hierarchy as high up as possible this is
key because the next steps they focus on that and they're requiring of those
firsts of that first step of climbing the social hierarchy now I get it
I'm sorry this is not some quick fix video use the special technique to let
Jenny from work so you want to climb this social hierarchy necessary and you
got to be patient enough for that which is why we're also saying yell go out to
night clubs go you know dude a game in some fucking mall or whatnot because at
least there you can get in some results while you can practice your patience of
climbing the social hierarchy at your workbook you see what he says it's why
is that key somewhat popular guy at your workplace once the guys like you as much
as the girls as much as the attractive girls they actually want to get with
once you're there all the other kind of steps fall into place okay so I guess
what he's saying is that when you get everyone to kind of like you and you're
friends with everyone then it's easier on social events okay social events such
as the office party the Christmas office party the after-hour drink that
everybody's grabbing I know you're trying to be flirtatious or overly
obvious with a girl of your choice don't do that at
actual war exactly I'm going to pause this at 5:11 real quick
huge 100% agree key point I always talk about this when you're gonna go to that
point where you are flirting when you're gonna go to that point where you're kind
of making that next move which might be uncomfortable because this is a
co-worker you do in the social setting I always say and I'm not he's saying
social office parties like it still be wary of that I would focus more on doing
that and an event that you create or whatever he's gonna say that like you
actually do a happy hour you're the one who's inviting people out and there you
can be more flirtatious but like any office Christmas party I don't know an
official event an official event of some sort I wouldn't do anything I would kind
of keep chill and just be your cool social self just because again it can be
a little weird you focus on being socially come out the social hierarchy
at the workplace but if you want to be flirtatious save all that for the social
event so there it's much more appropriate there it's much easier for
you and they're also the girl of your choice will be much more receptive of
your advancement if you want to call it that way so you can see there if in an
ideal world you've been building social momentum and climbing up the social
hierarchy and now everybody's grabbing a drink after the office right you know
people get warmed up a little bit people open up people becoming more social like
you this is especially good when you can kind of become that guy that organizes
some of these small events hey guys a bunch of us are going grabbing a drink
after work you want to join right because then you're the cornerstone the
connecting piece for everybody and your again already again doing it outside of
the office your creative event not an official event organizes them really
often enough it really takes nothing more than just one guy saying hey you
guys want to grab a drink at the place downstairs it is happy hour once we're
done right and then you just keep inviting a bunch of people and then
you're in doing it quite often doing a every couple weeks flirt with
the girls do it there but don't do it doing normal office hours so once you
have that social mentum things are going well with the girl or girls of your
Yup. I agree with that. Yup. Gotta isolate.
No. Why?
That's fine. What else are you gonna do?
Yeah, exactly. You do it when it's a little bit more chill and it's just you two.
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Cool. I'm gonna stop it here.
Listen, I get what he's saying here like you gotta be a little bit more chill
about it. No, you're not gonna just walk her out, but listen,
if it's a couple of co-workers who are left over at the end of the bar or the
end of event or whatever is going on and you guys leave together,
big deal. I don't think you need to wait to be the very last people there
because here's the other thing too. What if she has to go? What if she has
to go? I guess you can get her number and you can do something later. I would say
even that's probably more ideal in the safest case. Make sure you do get
her number when you guys are in the bubble he's saying and when you're
connecting and when you do that it's gonna make it even less obvious
because you guys can hang out on your own time. But again I don't
think it's that big of a deal. End of the night you guys end up
together, a couple people are still at the bar. Whatever.
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Agree. I think there should be some sort of
conversation there between you two that's just making sure this is
not going around the office. Here's another thing. I'm gonna stop the video.
There's a few minutes left but I want to say this too just to add on to
what max is saying. I don't want you to focus too much on this.
Not because it's hard. Not because it's a lot of work. I think that focusing
on meeting girls at work gives you a lack of an abundance mentality and with
that lack of abundance mentality you're gonna be thinking "I can only go for
girls in very specific situations because that's where it is." I get
girls around me at work. I get girls around me with my social circle.
Find places to meet women but if you're focusing so hard and zoning on
this special long-winded system or technique to meet girls at work,
I think you're wasting your time because then you gotta go through
all this hassle of keeping a secret. Then that's a whole mess. You guys
are trying to keep it secret and it could jeopardize what's going on at work.
Is it really worth it? I don't know. I didn't finish the video.
But I want you to understand you gotta question yourself. Is it really worth
it to be meeting girls at work? I say no. Not worth it. It's more risk
than anything and there's more women out there that you can be meeting which you
should be meeting anyways to practice your social skills like Max was saying
in the beginning. If you're new to this don't try to meet girls at work,
go out and be able to get better at socializing and then do that. But I think
let's just get better at socializing and stay outside of work. Cool. I hope you
enjoyed. That's it for now. I'll see you on the next video
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