What’s going on?
It’s Tripp from Tripp Advice.com.
I want to talk about a question that I get a lot.
Guys are really obsessed with finding out if a girl is single.
They want to know.
In fact, a lot of guys have a hesitation to even go up and talk to a girl unless they
know that she is single.
Well let’s talk about that for a second.
When you see a girl I want you to always always assume that she is single.
You’re never go to know for sure.
Of course, if she’s making out with a guy, she’s holding a guy’s hand and walking
down the street, alright she’s probably taken.
But otherwise if a girl is just with her friends or she’s alone, I want you to assume that
she’s single and I want you to approach and talk to her as if she is.
Cause if she’s not, she’ll just tell you.
And the best part about it is you don’t have to ask.
You don’t even have to ask if a girl is single.
Just assume that she is and go from there.
A lot of guys want to find out but you don’t have to ask.
This is something that you don’t even have to do.
It’s not important.
But if you do want to ask a girl, it can actually be a very powerful way of flirting with her.
I do recommend that from time to time you actually use it.
Now I know a lot of guys out there use it as an opener.
They’ll just go up to a girl and say “Hey are you single?” and then go from there.
I’m not a big fan of that method.
It throws the girl off a little bit.
It’s intense of an opener.
I would save a question like this for a point in the conversation where you know that she’s
at least somewhat interested.
Or you’re in a zone with her where you guys have gained enough rapport where you’re
talking back and forth with her and she is interested in the conversation.
That’s the point where you can actually say it.
What’s cool is if you do that, it makes a girl kind of blush.
In fact, you’re going to see in just a second here I talk to one of my friends and she tells
a little bit of a story of what happened when a guy asked her if she was single.
The point is here is when you ask a girl, it makes her feel good.
It makes her blush.
You want to create that moment for her.
However, you don’t want to do it too soon in conversation.
Just wait.
Wait til the end.
Wait before you get her number.
In fact, that’s a really good way to get her number.
If you’re talking to a girl.
Things are going really well.
You know you want to take her out.
You know you want to see her again.
Well ask her, “Hey, are you single?”
Do it in a way where you feel very curious about it where you’re like hey are you single
because you want to take her out.
That’s the mentality you’re going to have when you ask her.
Are you single?
And she’ll be like yes or no.
If she says no, whatever.
If she says no by the way, just come clean and oh well that’s too bad because I wanted
to take you out.
And if she says yes say great cause I want to take you out sometime.
And say "Let me get your number.”
Very simple, just like that.
Very confident.
Say “Awesome because I want to hangout with you.
I want to take you out.”
That’s a very dominant dominant move and that’s going to show your masculinity.
It’s very powerful like that and that’s going to make her feel good.
Alright, so I’m sitting here with my friend Shin.
I was telling her how I was about to make a video on how to ask a girl if she’s single.
Literally right about to make it and what do you know, she has a story about this happening
literally last night.
It was last night?
Yeah.
Okay, tell the story.
Last night, I was in the taxi and the taxi driver quoted me $100,000 for getting home
which is in Rupio by the way.
And we’re driving home and when I went to get out of the taxi, I handed over $100,000
and he held on to my hand and was like “Are you single?”
It’s sweet.
I guess maybe if there had been an attraction of some sort it might work.
But it’s no.
It takes two.
You do walk away afterwards going “Oh, that was nice.”
You’re attracted to him, you like him and he says “Are you single?”
Yeah, okay.
I’d probably be like “Yeah.”
And then I’d do this awkward awkward smile which I’m probably doing right now and I
would stand there and wait for what else they’re gonna say after that.
It would make you blush?
Yeah definitely.
It’d give you the fuzzies.
Yeah.
The fuzzies.
Yeah.
Here’s what I want you to do.
I want you to write down in the comments below if you’re going to use that.
Can you see yourself using that?
Can you see yourself saying that to the girl that you just meet?
And do you think that is a good way to build attraction?
I want to hear it from you.
Write down in the comments below and I’ll see you on the next video.