fear it can be a very powerful motivator and it can be used to get people to
really change their behavior if used correctly now I should say in a
long-term healthy relationship it should never be used but unfortunately and
today is dating environment where people are constantly finding themselves in
what is known as situation chips aka relationships without the love then fear
is really a tool in your toolkit that should be used to open up a guy's eyes
to realize that he is going to lose you if he doesn't get his act together
so in this video I'm gonna teach you how to make a guy fear losing you and it's
actually done in a very healthy way that's focused on you improving your
life keep watching hey there Adam little Jay from sexy confidence calm where I
help you create your love story and before I get into this video I need to
make a very powerful disclaimer if you're finding that you have to
constantly make a guy fear losing you then you know what he's probably not the
right guy for you also don't use the tactics in this video to play any games
in fact everything I talk about is going to make you a better person and actually
make the relationship healthier so I'm gonna teach you how to make a guy fear
losing you and fear is actually an acronym so number one the F in fear is
focus on your independent social life no matter how amazing a relationship is and
especially in the earliest stages of a great relationship you need to keep your
own time you need to keep your own friends going and keep your own life
going because so many people thinking like how do I make a guy chase me how do
I make him think that I'm cooler than I really am that's not the point
this was actually be fun and interesting have a healthy social life and focus
your energy on continue to go out and meet lots of new people and I should say
this generally holds true for relationships at any stage you want to
have your own independent group of friends it keeps you sane and the e in
fear is eliminate your constant texting look texting is definitely one way to a
man's heart but use it sparingly because if you use it too often he's gonna feel
like you are basically just in his back pocket if you have to keep your phone on
Do Not Disturb and don't text him more than a couple
times and for every time he texts you wait a
few hours to respond not because you're playing games but because you have
others going on in your life the a in fear is get more physically active in
your life the better you feel about your body the more confident you will be in
your life and I don't mean you have to have perfect ABS six-pack abs I
definitely don't just by getting out there and getting those endorphins
moving and getting more physically active and doing more things in your
life is going to really put you up in his eyes he's going to look at you and
be like damn I don't want to lose that and finally the are and fear is reset
your boundaries if a guy is taking you for granted and he's not treating you
the way that you want to be treated and let's say he's only texting you at 2:00
a.m. on a Saturday night to do one thing then it's time to reset those boundaries
you need to tell him that that's not acceptable and the only way to actually
tell him that that's not acceptable don't respond if he's texting at 2:00
a.m. in the morning just don't do it and if he decides they don't want to
talk to you anymore time to move on on the other hand if he does text you let's
say the next morning and say hey I'd love to see you great that's acceptable
you can hang out during the day and spend a little bit more time together
but be sure to form the boundaries of what is actually acceptable to you and
what is respectful to you and if he's not following those boundaries then save
that magical four-letter word next so if you're in a relationship where you want
to draw a guy back in focus less of your energy on trying to get him back and
focus more of your energy on yourself first and as I've been saying to all you
sexy single ladies over the years never play hard-to-get just be hard to get
because you already have an amazing life that he wants to be a part of and
remember this he will definitely fear losing you if he knows that you'll walk
away if he doesn't treat you right and if you want more help in this area
definitely recommend checking out the commitment webinar well I'm gonna teach
you how to make a man miss you and commit to you and only you and if you
enjoyed the video please leave a comment right there below about what part of
this video you're gonna implement in your love life thank you so much for
watching and I'll speak to you next week you sexy single lady buh-bye