How to Flirt Scientifically.
Looking to hook up, or maybe even fall in love?
These scientifically proven flirting techniques will increase the odds that your seduction
attempts succeed.
You will need Smile Female friends Alcohol Conversational skills Open-mindedness and
perspective.
Step 1.
If you're a woman with your eye on a particular guy, smile at him.
According to research, a man finds a woman who smiles directly at him significantly more
attractive than a woman who looks at him without smiling.
Body language like hair-flipping and lip-licking can also be effective.
Step 2.
If you're a guy on the make, have a few female friends on hand who are willing to beam adoringly
at you now and then.
One study found that women are likely to find a man more attractive if they see other women
smiling at him.
Step 3.
Buy the object of your desire a drink.
The phenomenon known as "beer goggles" may be scientifically true: in one experiment,
people who had been drinking found faces of the opposite sex 25 percent more attractive
than their sober counterparts did, because alcohol stimulates the part of the brain we
use to determine facial attractiveness.
Step 4. Make the conversation all about them -- ask questions, show interest in their answers,
use their name, laugh at their jokes, and flatter them.
Psychologists who've studied flirting say if you can make someone feel good about themselves,
they'll feel good about you.
Step 5.
Let them change your mind about something.
According to one researcher, people on a date find a person who agrees with them more attractive
than a person who disagrees with them, but they find someone who switches positions to
agree with them the most attractive of all.
Did you know In a study, men who chatted for just 5 minutes with a pretty woman experienced
a temporary boost in their testosterone levels immediately after.